I've been with my now fiance, 'J', for five years and I love him to bits. However, I'm very worried about his health due to his weight. He's always been a bit on the chubby side...but only in the stomach area. J's all muscle in his arms, legs and back. However, his weight worries me, especially as it's centered in his gut. How can I ask/tell him to loose weight? He has an enlarged heart and I'm worried about the effects this extra weight can have on him, especially in the future (stroke, etc). He does akido occassionaly which is good, but that's about it.
I think his problems stem from all the food he eats...he eats massive portions of food. When I used to live with him (we live in seperate countries temporarily) I could control the food portions to a healthy amount, but now that he lives alone he just eats massive amounts. How can I get him to lose weight? I've been asking him for years. I don't care what he looks like, I love him and just want him to be healthy!!
2007-02-24
01:19:57
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melissa
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