he smoked 4 packs a day, lived the hard & fast lifestyle, but no alcohol in 20 yrs (he's 53) so this smacked him down....BIG TIME! The problem is, before all of this he was an asshole (sorry) and now he's a W-O-R-S-E!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ASSHOLE. He is just miserable because of all of this, but doesn't really blame himself for it happening, not that he should, but he never was one to admit responsibilty anyway. I try to help him do things (surg was 9 days ago) and he yells, and is just plain evil. Don't even mention counseling, he has a loaded gun, and will shoot anyone who suggests it or approaches him on it. Trying to quit smoking has a huge impact, on me as well...I'm trying to quit too, but he stresses me out, I feel like sneaking off and smoking. I'm just hating this situation right now. And sick of smiling in front of others about "How great its going".....Damn, Im tired. I cleaned the house for 4 days (he was hospitalized 6 days) getting rid of nicotine, and dust...yuk.
2007-05-15
23:07:02
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