Singles & Dating - 11 August 2007

I've been seeing this guy for 5 months, and I just realised not once did we discuss why or what we were to each other. We haven't had sex yet, and although he's made it clear he wants to, he knows Im not too keen. When we meet we kiss for 3-4 hours, and I always say No, and he says 'that's cool'. He calls me daily, replies to my msgs straight away, and so on! He'll come over to my place (which is a 1hr train ride) just to kiss and hang and watch movies. When we watch movies he wants me to lie with him, and then he hugs me and touches my hand and piches my cheeks...(god i sound lame :P). Im a really perceptive person, and I don't wanna be naive at all. Are some players aware that in order to get sex from a chick who's not easy, they have to try the 'boyfriend' tactic, in order to gain her trust??? Pls if someone has had a similar experience, let me know...

2007-08-11 02:54:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-11 02:48:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

she asked me and i came up speachless, what are somethings i should say?

2007-08-11 02:42:57 · 3 answers · asked by Tim M 1

Last night my boyfriend left me saying I killed all the love he felt for me but he asked me to not get out of his life, be friends with him no matter what. I sent him several SMS and in the last I asked him to talk. When I called him to his cell phone the first time it did ring but after it was off. I feel so empty. On Monday I start to work again after several years without working because I was taking care of my mom (she got cancer) and my sister (she needed me because she was studying medicine and needed so much support)...I need to have a smiling face because it is customer service...how could I smile now? I can't. I took this job thinking about going to him and now it doesn't matter anymore...

2007-08-11 02:14:21 · 16 answers · asked by C6 7

with his friend more then i see my boyfriend im always jumping in his friends arms i see him more then my boyfriend im always flirting with his friend am i screwing with my boyfriends heart my boyfriend seems to have given up on even trying to express any feelings to me should i just end my realationship with my boyfriend and makeout with his friend :/

2007-08-11 02:06:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

all men i am dating want to screw me on the 1st date an d point that in a more direct or indirect way! That is souch a turn-off!!! what happened to "getting to know eachother better?" I don't expect do date them months before i have sex, but at least 5 dates. ladies, do you go through the same thing?
i'd have to state that i am always decently dressed and i don't do more tha kissing/hugging ont the 1st date.

2007-08-11 01:52:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

this cousin of mine; i dont know whether he likes me or not but he's into sexual contact with me.when i was a kid, he wud takes my hands n rub his penis with my fingers. he wud slip his hands thru my dress n squeeze my breasts . once , when i was changing clothes , he somehow got thru the back door & saw me naked. he stared at me like a hungry dog . i got scared & ran into the bathroom.
he got married for almost a year n has got a 11 month old son . i wanted 2 tell about him 2 my parents but the problem is my mom treats this cousin as a son.both of my parents love him a lot .my cousin addresses my parents like his own parents. if i tell my mom,she's not gonna believe it . i used 2 look at him as my brother but now things changed .in front of everyone ,my cousin is going 2 treat me like his own sister.after having his son ,he stopped abusing me in private .wat do u think -did he change?is he sorry 4 his deeds?I dont trust guys anymore.I dont think i wl b able to ve any relationship.

2007-08-11 01:43:15 · 20 answers · asked by winged d 1

Ok. I have a boyfriend and he is total complete love with me. He's nice and all, but when i'm with him i just don't feel special. And, when i kiss him there are no sparks or anything. It's like kissing my brother away to colloge. What do I do? Should i break up with him? And if I do break up with him, how?

2007-08-11 01:43:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

this iranian girl whom i had problems with bordering on racial,(i'm asian american,so perhaps there were some cultural things that caused both of us to react in harsh manners)will sometimes look at me when i'm not looking(the lookaway)gaze at me from a distnce,try to get my attention,etc.....We were pretty harsh to each other(again racial things,)and i only had 1 good conversation with her last month where i was pretty much respectful,restrained my temper,etc....and refused to lose my temper and banter with her.I ignored her after that because i didn't trust her and didn't want to give my cards away to her.Why would she still act like this?

2007-08-11 01:41:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-11 01:25:25 · 9 answers · asked by Eric Chua Yanshan Maynas 3

2007-08-11 01:21:46 · 21 answers · asked by Eric Chua Yanshan Maynas 3

Hi, i allways smell really bad and i allways put deodrant on. My friends say it smells like ketchup, what shall i do.

2007-08-11 01:15:18 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a guy problem i like this guy and he doesn't go to my school but theres also a guy who i like that goes to my school and i think they both like me wha should i do if i'm scared to ask one out because people might make fun of me

2007-08-11 01:07:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i know he used to like me but does he still like me?

2007-08-11 00:54:40 · 7 answers · asked by kierajanee 1

i know this question not all about dating but it pertin to singles and what im gonna do with my life an i just look for a little advice. here the situation, im live at home with my family oldes of seven child (im 18). its very rural part of philippines and very traditional. im not allow to date. the way of the oldes girl is to help mother with chores an raises the other child. there no money for me to go to college, but my brother is 16 an very smart. so im think about take a job sewing so i can help send him to college after he graduate hs. with my money an then my dad maoney may be he can go. then after college he can help the little ones with the tuition. if im go to work, i cant help my mom so much. an after my bro graduate it to late for me. so my only option in life really is get marry. but for now the choice is stay home or go to work in cloths factry. nether choice is to excite for me but if im go outside the house may be i can meet some one?

pls. no rude answer.

2007-08-11 00:50:35 · 29 answers · asked by happy_pinay 2

did the oldies suddenly 4get the last 60 yrs?

2007-08-11 00:37:07 · 1 answers · asked by Goanna Dundee 4

im going out with this one guy (kinda). we've talked on the phone quite a few times, sometimes hours at a time.. but hardly any of those "meaningful" deep conversations... we met about a month ago and we're still trying to get to know each other.

and when we're together in person i always feel a friendly vibe. i'm not sure how to get closer to him. i don't want to be just friends. we've gone out 3 times and he's a sweet guy but i think he's scared to make the first move. we both like each other, but we've never held hands, kissed, or anything physical. and i dont know how or when to make the first move, but i dont want to wait for him to! lol. and i can't really tell him how i feel just yet because i'm waiting it out, i think this could turn into a bf/gf relationship but it's too early to say how i feel just yet...

what should i do?

2007-08-11 00:35:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Interest in male friend (younger) with potential to enter relationship, he needs time to think over the age difference, is this an issue?

2007-08-11 00:20:21 · 15 answers · asked by bunny13 1