Ok. I have a boyfriend and he is total complete love with me. He's nice and all, but when i'm with him i just don't feel special. And, when i kiss him there are no sparks or anything. It's like kissing my brother away to colloge. What do I do? Should i break up with him? And if I do break up with him, how?
2007-08-11 01:43:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no no dont break up with him. find things you can do to spice up your relationship with him and explain to him that you dont feel special- he'll probably think its all his fault but just let him know that you want to do more and experience more. its could also be the cause of that your so used to him and your routine together that its become, as you call it- like being with your brother, so see if he'd mind if you did something different together for a change and see how that goes. just because theres a hault in your relationship doesnt mean you should leave him. he loves you and you know you love him.
2007-08-11 01:55:28 · answer #1 · answered by bluetinkerbell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am wunderin how u got 2 know that boy in the 1st place. if there werent sparks flyin when u 2 kissd, thats bad! usually both can feel it. that dude must be really dumb not to be able to feel something is amiss. i'd suggest u be frank to him. he's a big boy, he can take it. if he cant, buy him a lovie doll. he'd probably wouldnt know the difference.
2007-08-11 08:54:55 · answer #2 · answered by hisham d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my god!just like what happened 2 me.i was with someone but not realy with him.i wanted something and couldnt find what it is.he did always told me the most romantic words but i coudnt felt anything.i am a warm and passion person but with him i felt im cold.i kept liying 2 myself everytime that:i do feel for him but realy that didnt work.and i knew after that i dont like this type of man,i dont like angel man.but i lived with this lie until my proffessor told us one time after the death of a freind that:we live this life one time.only one time so are we gona live it unhappy with a person who he seem perfect.but this perfect man doesnt make us feel the magic of love and the real hapinnes?when he sad that,i knew what i should do so i told him i want 2 break up with him and that he is so good for me but its not my fault that i dont love him.i can controle everthing but not my feelings.i told him that he is the perfect one which girls dreams about and i wish that i could be one of them.and i told him that he was so nice with me and i respect him and i will never forget such as a gentleman.i will not lie 2 u and tell u that he did accept it nicely but i would say that i felt so happy and satisfacted and released.and from now on i live like i want with the one i want and that what i call a life not a lie.and dont forget to tell him plus of all what ive sad that u appreciate him and u will never forget him and surely wish him the best ever and that he find hes true love with the one who value him and truly loves him
2007-08-11 09:10:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I feel that you should tell the guy the truth before things get worse. It is better to put it to a stop in the early stages rather than leave it late.
2007-08-11 10:09:42 · answer #4 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. let him go so you both find someone else. it's going to hurt, no matter how you do it. just be nice, and tell him that you don't feel the spark.
2007-08-11 08:49:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋