all men i am dating want to screw me on the 1st date an d point that in a more direct or indirect way! That is souch a turn-off!!! what happened to "getting to know eachother better?" I don't expect do date them months before i have sex, but at least 5 dates. ladies, do you go through the same thing?
i'd have to state that i am always decently dressed and i don't do more tha kissing/hugging ont the 1st date.
2007-08-11 01:52:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh...and one more detail... i'm really hot (not boasting or anything :P) could that be the reason why they act like that? i am not very flirtacious or acting in a sexual manner (precisely becos i look great)
2007-08-11 02:08:41 · update #1
I think you are picking the wrong guys to date. Not all guys are like that. Try dating a type of guy you don't normally date and you might have a pleasant surprise. I know the bad boys sound exciting but the nice guys can give you plenty of excitment if you give them a chance!
2007-08-11 02:01:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Many men have insecurities that their parents instilled in them and think that having sex makes them adult or mature.
Many guys are just charged sexually and love the way a woman feels.
We were meant to be together but if you have a problem with this more often than not I would reassess what you say or do, it is very likely you are contributing something in some form or fashion.
Now, another thing is you may want to look at the type of guys you are dating, why are you dating them?
Not everyone on Earth will be this way but you continuously run into this kind of person.
2007-08-11 02:08:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't ever expect intimacy within at least 5 or more dates.
Those who think you'd be that way on the first date are morons. Take a look at the type of guy you're attracting, and then maybe change your approach. You are obviously attracting the more sexual hit and run types...........
2007-08-11 02:02:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been through this quite often and have moved passed it. my advice is, stop giving it up! No kissing on the first date coz this gets men excited
2007-08-11 02:02:32 · answer #4 · answered by Christine B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i bet u must b 1 hot babe! other than that, u could b sendin all d wrong signals to em. men (i'm proud 2 say am 1 of them) arent particularly smart interpreting body languages u know. they have trouble knowing who wants them 2 make a move or just want good, old fashion romance. if u kiss em, they believe u r wanting it all. so, i'd suggest u avoid sendin em the wrong signals by just kissin em politely on their cheeks.
2007-08-11 02:05:09 · answer #5 · answered by hisham d 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What can I say We are DOGS and once we get A new bone we just want to bury ours in yours. The way I am I must lick my new bone untill she creams . Then i dont quit till she beg 4 me to make love to her .I tell her no we make love together not me making her its we do it together or nothing.
THIS IS WHEN THE PASSION IS RELEASED.
Very intense Excuse me I have to take care or A tent pole
2007-08-12 00:04:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO! Not all guys are like that. Your attracting that type or giving them the feeling that your easy.
2007-08-11 02:03:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont do it with them just tell them no,maybe you should try dating a differnt type of guy
2007-08-11 01:59:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
what kind of signal do you give them before your date. if you are real flirty some gay think its a sign for sex. plus men think sex know matter what you do . i know
2007-08-11 02:03:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋