2007-08-11 01:21:46 · 21 answers · asked by Eric Chua Yanshan Maynas 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it was a combination of things, not just the relationship that made that person cry. Initially it was lack of vitamins and minerals, that's what makes people's body so vulnerable and always crying. Start yourself on those vitamins. These days the food we eat doesn't have as many nutrients in them as they did many years ago so we have to supplement. Specifically in the B's, like B12 you're probably missing.
A person can have too many things going on at once, travel, a move, new job, new contacts, new career and new area of experitse, maybe newly living with someone....and can have too much changing taking place or too much tolerating or too much trying to make the jigsaw pieces fit the puzzle. Sometimes if we sit back and look at the pieces maybe one of the pieces just was upsidedown and it still fits if we use perspective and if we don't rush things. But sometimes the pieces look like they fit but when placing them you need a hammer to make it fit. You sit back, determine what it was that didn't fit and you learn and grow, and go back and try again, maybe this time with different pieces. My answer is that because you were enthusiastic about other parts of your life you missed what was really going on. The puzzle has to be complete before you can hang it on your wall so take care of your health and look to the future. Substituting immediately without crying is a mistake. You need to heal. Every human being cries. Later substituting those memories is the answer.
2007-08-11 04:58:26 · answer #1 · answered by sophieb 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, it wouldn't surprise me in the least. Everyone has a breaking point, a so called "straw that broke the camel's back" and perhaps this person reached theirs.
Let me use my own experience as an example, Eric. I was in an extremely abusive relationship from the time I was 14 until I was 18. Through those 4 years, I never once cried. Even when I was thrown up against a wall which sparked a miscarraige, even when my arm was broken...I didn't cry. At the age of 18 I woke up one morning and decided I'd had enough. I packed my bags and drove back to my hometown. I walked in the door of my grandmother's house, and the floodgates opened...I had reached my limit.
Everyone has their own limit, some people cry at the drop of a hat while others take years for everything to build up. And you know what? That's perfectly alright because everyone is different.
Hope you get to feeling better soon, my friend.
Love,
Misty
2007-08-14 03:54:10 · answer #2 · answered by keeperofusedshadows 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Should I forgive her? well.. yes everyone deserves a second chance, if there are screw ups well just dont date with that same person for a 3rd time. 2. Which feelings can I expect should I forgive this and try to make it work or not? well you might feel sad, depressed but give it a shot.! 3. How can I deal with the pain? Talk to very close friends about this, 4. How can I make it work? Be with them almost every day. spend time together make memories! 5. Is it fair to ask her to tell me everything she is doing? Well not too personal. Just here and there say ilove you and ask her if she would ever cheat or anything. 6. Is it fair to ask her to end the close relationships she has with guy friends and just focus on me? Its really her descision.. If she keeps messing around with another guy just brake up. Hope this helps!
2016-05-19 21:19:00 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not surprising at all. CRYING is a therapy.
It is no longer a big deal to see men cry when they are beset with problems or are faced by circumstances beyond their control.
TEARS are not a sign of weakness, but are emotions coming into a formed life.
TEARS are heartbeats of pain.
CRYING is the best way to unload anger or failure.
I am sure...SMILE…is just waiting around to try those tears…
NOBODY CRIES FOREVER
PARI716
2007-08-11 01:40:10 · answer #4 · answered by Helen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would be surprising to see I imagine. Perhaps other things were going on...the person would certainly be crying about more than the end of the relationship. Fears, loss, failure, etc. It pretty healthy unless the other person was being mean to illicit the tears.
2007-08-11 01:41:00 · answer #5 · answered by Delay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it doesn't surprise me at all. It is very healthy to cry. crying helps in the healing of a broken heart. It helps to release stress and anxiety.
2007-08-11 11:24:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex was one of those very macho guys from a tough culture in Lebanon. we were together a few years when I ended the relationship because his family didn't want Him to Marry a American he cried like a baby. It was very sad
2007-08-11 01:27:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either they are truly devastated, or they are faking it b/c they are trying to win over that person and they know that by crying it'll look like they're truly devastated. I never cry, but if I have to fake a good one, I can do it.
2007-08-11 01:25:33 · answer #8 · answered by Pat Smear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
emotions play a great role . even strong people give in. you are shattered when some one deserts you when you've no clue. this is not the end of the world. you got to be happy. move on .let go and divert yourself.
2007-08-11 20:03:17 · answer #9 · answered by sandhya p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it doesnot. A person who crys rarely has a high emotional IQ.
2007-08-11 01:27:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋