2007-08-11 01:25:25 · 9 answers · asked by Eric Chua Yanshan Maynas 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
At least two to three years. When I opened up to other friends, I still had no mind to get a replacement. Just mixed around. I forgot when it was my younger brothers classmate came into the scene (she used to visit us) and we started going out. Could safely said it was around 5 to 6 year when I could safely take on a second case. This time , I was careful not to commit too early. But it was easier. Only I was holding back. Maybe I have overcame the shyness and also knew what a man should do by then. Of course, alot of things were overlooked too. Just dont keep mentioning or comparing the first girl in her presence and you will be safe.
2007-08-11 07:52:13 · answer #1 · answered by Vico 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first relationship I had that ended took months for me to completely get over. I can't remember exactly how many, it was almost 10 years ago. The second relationship ended because I broke it off. It was still difficult but I was able to get over that one fairly quickly. The third was the same as the second and I'm now in my fourth and I hope I will not have to get over this one at all.
The healing process is different for everyone. Take as much time as you need to fully move on. It's not easy but you will pull through.
2007-08-11 01:38:39 · answer #2 · answered by Ersabette 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have a good memory (like I do) then you never get over it. You just have to put it to the back of your mind. My first boyfriend (when I was 11) I'm still not over.
Several years ago psychologists started to say that whenever there is a situation "there must be closure for someone to be able to move on"....but it's a fact that closure doesn't always happen, that it doesn't happen for everyone, that you can't even insist that the other person give you answers,
2007-08-11 05:04:02 · answer #3 · answered by sophieb 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Touch wood i have been blessed & not faced that pain but people can take a long long time because you have to grieve it just like when there is a death but depending how much you loved it can be more painful so time is different for everyone
you have to keep very busy so you dont have too much free idol time
go for long fast walk eack morning & night to help with stress
go to the movies etc to have fun
dont listen to sad music
listen to happy music
in time you will move on & love again honestly.
2007-08-11 16:23:06 · answer #4 · answered by ausblue 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think most people ever completely "get over" anything. It's what shapes our characters. There is a lessening of pain and a moving on, but we always leave little pieces of ourselves behind.
2007-08-14 03:57:54 · answer #5 · answered by keeperofusedshadows 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first time a year
the second time 2 months
the third time one week
guess you get better at it
2007-08-11 08:43:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have no experience but one should get out before commences. If he does not them remember that first was on sex basis or only on attraction basis
2007-08-11 16:08:02 · answer #7 · answered by baba 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't remember exactly. Its not how long it takes but what
you learn when you come away from it.
I Cr 13;8a
2007-08-11 19:37:12 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It took about a week or so..........
2007-08-12 01:30:44 · answer #9 · answered by Neo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋