Singles & Dating - 25 June 2007

I am 14 and never had a boyfriend before. I am kinda shy. I have ALOT of crushes on guys that I think are hott or just any guys that I like. I do think a lot of guys are hott by the way. But I feel more comfortable around girls......like I can be myself around girls more than I can around guys. And whenever I hold a guys had I feel nervous and uncomfortable.....why is that? I could never imagine myself being in a relationship with a girl or kissing a girl but whenever I get close to a guy like kissing I feel really nervous and VERY uncomfortable....am I a lesbian?? Why am I so uncomfortable around guys?

2007-06-25 08:01:59 · 80 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, How do you officially ask a girl out???? Every girl i ask out took it as "friend" I need to ask a girl out on a date. HOW? What is the best way to become "official with a girl?????

2007-06-25 07:59:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-25 07:58:56 · 8 answers · asked by Laughing Out Loud 1

not me i have blow my boyfriend mind a few times when he goes all blushy :>
but i would you say a girl is crap what must she been doing wrong

2007-06-25 07:56:47 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Right, I brought this girl home a week ago, but before we left she made it very public that we were going home together that night, i.e. lots of kissing and holding hands in front of lots of ppl. Thing is, I don't relaly want things to go further, but I don't really know how to 'save face' for her when i see her out tonight. I.e. most ppl would know she went with me and that we're not together becoz everybody seems to know everyone here

2007-06-25 07:52:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is awkward. A couple weeks ago, I noticed that my best friend who I sit with at lunch every day was sitting very close to me and her leg was almost on top of mine. When we had a conversation, she would keep just LOOKING at me and making me nervous. It appears that she likes me, and I like her a lot as well, but I think that being girlfriends would mess up the "best-friend" bond. What do you think?

2007-06-25 07:47:26 · 21 answers · asked by Jo S 1

if i am seeing one, does this mean i can't see anyone else?
is it possible to get away with having two on the go at once?

2007-06-25 07:44:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

this is first time i won a bet with him so i want to make it count so best ideas please by the way we made similiar bets before only he won in which case i ended up dress as a chicken once for a nite out

2007-06-25 07:35:51 · 10 answers · asked by mean girl 2

first thing u look at on a girl?
second thing?

2007-06-25 07:34:18 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

whats better:

good girls: smart, perfect, pretty
or
bad girls: fun, daredevils, confident

2007-06-25 07:30:06 · 16 answers · asked by x_LITTLE_RED_♥_MCR_x 3

Do you find them attractive or ugly?

2007-06-25 07:29:25 · 6 answers · asked by Steve C 7

After two weeks vacation and diligentley working on that matter, after only 4 days of normal life has once again made me the redneck chick that I am......siiiiiiigh

2007-06-25 07:27:53 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am not exactly the best looking guy in the world so I guess that is one of the problems. I've never even kissed a girl it is sad I know. I am wondering if there is anyone else out there that has this problem also.

I do not like going to clubs and walking up to a girl in the street you like might make them think you are a pervert or something and is a bit invasive especially if they are not interested.

No girls ever look at me so I know I am not very good looking. I have a good personality but it never seems to get to that because of my looks. It feels like I don't exist at times.

When I go out now I don't even care what I look like because there is no point in me wasting time trying to look good when it makes no difference.

Even when I go to the Gym it seems like girls actually try not to go on a machine that is close to me.

Do you have any ideas on other ways I could find a girl? I almost don't want to find one now because I have noexperience like I should for my age

2007-06-25 07:11:09 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Try to think deep about it.

2007-06-25 07:07:22 · 15 answers · asked by possessed Regan 4

One of my guy friends said "I wanna lick you in the nuts." Then he said he meant "kick." I'm grossed out.

2007-06-25 06:57:45 · 1 answers · asked by swbl89 1

Theres this guy in my neighborhood. He's really cute and one day he told me he liked me. Now i find dat hard to believe cuz he flirts with girls non-stop. But, NYWAYZ, theres this shortcut in my neighborhood and i use it to go home. And one day he followed me there and we started makin out. well, he tried to get me to go to his house 1 time but i couldnt tell him no. Luckily my dad called and i had to go in. What should i do??

2007-06-25 06:51:41 · 8 answers · asked by cutie with a bootie 1

2007-06-25 06:50:58 · 17 answers · asked by possessed Regan 4

I have this guy friend who is extremely shy but tries his hardest to over come it... but .. he confuses me alot.

I try really hard to not read into things.. but the signals he sends are just too complicated.

We went out for coffee last week and all he wanted to talk about was marriage!! The last time we were out thats all he talked about as well.. the weird thing is.. we're not that good of friends.. I was telling one of our mutual friends (who is a girl) that when ever we're out the subject of relationships gets brought up everytime! She said that was odd because she's known him longer and he has never talked to her about those kinds of things.

So guys... do you generally just want to talk about marriage? Or, is a guy trying to feel you out?? or is he just anxious and feels like he can talk to me?

2007-06-25 06:50:47 · 6 answers · asked by Hannah Leigh 2

He is divorced and had an affair during his marriage. He has not cheated on me, but did cheat on his last girlfriend (who was the one he had the affair with) who still wants him back. I caught him in a lie about her. Also, we live 2 hours away, but we see each other every weekend, and he has been really wonderful and open, but I just can't seem to completely trust him. Are some people just not trustworthy, or can people change?

2007-06-25 06:49:49 · 9 answers · asked by muffingirl 1

My bf has had to go to physical therapy(PT) and there he saw this girl that he thought would be a good girl for our roomate to go out with. He mentioned this to me today saying that she's cute, attractive. He said they have been talking when he's there b/c she's his PT.He also said that she's been flirting with him. I got so jealous when he told me this. I don't know why, he wanted to hook her up with our roomate not him. He also mentioned that she ask him if he had any plans for the weekend and she just moved here. I asked him if he told her that he has a gf, bc just asking her if she would like to go out with his friend might be a little weird. he said no! I don't know how to take this. he told me that he loves me. why am i so jealous?? Should I be?? This makes me sorta loose confidence in our love/relationship. HELP ME PLEASE!

2007-06-25 06:48:39 · 19 answers · asked by pink 1

ok there is this boy i went out with for 3 years and the only reason i went out with him was cause he was lame but kinda cute.i broke up with him 3 times to and the only reason we got back together was cause i felt realy realy bad he would go home and cry to his mom like all night.and now we are broken up for good but we are so called friend but he never wants to talk to me.he makes me feel so bad do i just tell him get out of my life and move on or will it brake his heart?

2007-06-25 06:45:18 · 38 answers · asked by TayTay 2

I just started going out with my bf and Ive met his friends and family and they are all really sweet. The problem is that now I have to introduce him to my friends. I was very shy in high school and didnt start making friends until college, its summer now so all of my friends went home far away so I cant introduce him to them. Even then, they arent like best friends cuz Ive only known them for a little while. I have a few friedns at home but they arent best friends either. I can introduce them to him, but Im worried that it will be ackward, or that my friends just dont care who I go out with or care about me at all really. I guess, since I moved a lot and I have trust issues its hard for me to get close to people. I wish I had more close friends to introduce him to. If any one else had gone through this, please tell me how you did it. Any advice will be appreciated. Thanks!

2007-06-25 06:41:08 · 28 answers · asked by Jen 2

2007-06-25 06:40:17 · 19 answers · asked by possessed Regan 4

He and I are both over 40 and the term "boyfriend" sounds like we're teenagers or 20 somethings. I don't care for "lovers" because it connotes an illicit relationship or the term "significant other" because it just sounds too cold and impersonal. The word "partner" is often used by homosexual couples which, of course, we're not.

Can anyone come up with creative ideas?

2007-06-25 06:30:19 · 24 answers · asked by susandiane311 5

every guy i like ends up just liking me as a friend and every guy that ends up liking me is nasty or scarey.is there still hope for me?

2007-06-25 06:29:25 · 11 answers · asked by Andy Terror 2

2007-06-25 06:27:27 · 4 answers · asked by ramramram m 1

like the young 14 15 16 year old girls.... i mean seriously thats soo wrong.... u hear about these old guys goin and producing child porn sites like gogomoms.com and stuff like that.... whats everybodys opinion?

and btw if anybodys wondering... im 15... so dont call me a pedo or somtim

2007-06-25 06:26:43 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

It's been 2 days, I added my crush into my yahoo messenger list (his email address is hotmail)...but why till now, I didnt receive any report from yahoo, whether he accepted or refused my invitation?
does it mean he ''ignored'' my invitation or he wasn't online till now? how do i know???
people...please tell me, I keep thinking bout it.
Thank you...
PS: he was my classmate, now our class is over...n he's back to his country..n if it's mean to be...in October we're going to study in the same town. I hope so...

2007-06-25 06:25:58 · 6 answers · asked by Vivienne 4

My boyfriend and I have been dating 4 1/2 years. We are high school sweethearts and go to the same college now as well. During my boyfriends junior year of college we got an apartment together because he needed to get away from his parents who use money to control everything he does. He paid for school and everything all on his own so they couldn't control him. This year I decided that the apartment wasn't working out because we were just spending too much time together and my grades weren't good enough so I am moving back home in a week and he has already moved back home. The problem is his Mom won't let him spend any time with me. He is 21 years old and a college student. I don't find it inappropriate to be going on trips and sleeping over his girl friends house of 4 years. If we were going to have sex we would just do it anyway. Sleeping over isn't going to make it more likely. His dad doesn't care about what he does as long as he's successf but his mom stresses his dad out

2007-06-25 06:24:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-25 06:14:52 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous