ok there is this boy i went out with for 3 years and the only reason i went out with him was cause he was lame but kinda cute.i broke up with him 3 times to and the only reason we got back together was cause i felt realy realy bad he would go home and cry to his mom like all night.and now we are broken up for good but we are so called friend but he never wants to talk to me.he makes me feel so bad do i just tell him get out of my life and move on or will it brake his heart?
2007-06-25 06:45:18 · 38 answers · asked by TayTay 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are the one being stupid. you broke it off, and then fell back on your word. redating him just so that he won't cry. You fell for the bait. Live life for yourself not for some sniffling cry baby momma's boy.
and quit judging people so much. I am a BOY and not by any means stupid. Keep the slurs to yourself
2007-06-25 06:49:24 · answer #1 · answered by Mercury 2010 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you into this guys anyway? He's a momma's bot and you said he's lame and knew it from the start. It seems like you could both do much better and should move on yourself. It seems like your pretty hung up on this guy since you put him down so much yet are unwilling to let him go. Find a guy that isn't lame and that suits you. Not all boys are stupid.
2007-06-25 06:50:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys are born with an extra gene called stupidity. If he cared about you at all he wouldn't be so dumb! Get off the computer, go to Macy's and get a makeover, get a new hairstyle, buy a new/hot smokin' outfit and find someone who's worth your while! Now!
Be the heartbreaker girls are meant to be. And remember! Women don't need men! If you want companionship, buy a dog! They're waaaaay cuter and smarter!
2007-06-25 06:51:37 · answer #3 · answered by Kellie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he goes home and cries to his mom... i'd guess he's probobly pretty new to dating... You're probobly his first, maybe second girlfriend... so i'm guessing he's not to used to being broken up with...
Not to mention you've been going on and off with him a little bit... so that just increased the tension of this final breakup...
You say that he doesn't want to talk to you, so i'd say that is a definite sign that he still feels bad about the breakup...
But don't pity him, thats the biggest mistake you can make...
and don't tell him to get out of your life... thats the second biggest...
My solution would be to just wait it out, don't really think about him... if he doesn't talk to you, then it shouldn't be a problem... and he will eventually just fade out of your life and both of you will move on...
OR, if he decides to start talking to you again, then you can possibly have a friendship there...
Just don't try and force things to happen, it'll eventually work itself out...
2007-06-25 06:57:56 · answer #4 · answered by vigorousjammer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are some girls so mean?? You might think you're doing someone who is "lame" a favor by dating them out of pity or whatever you think it is, but you aren't. In the 3 years he wasted playing games with you he might have found someone who genuinely liked him for him. Leave the poor guy alone.
2007-06-25 06:49:14 · answer #5 · answered by ♪ ♫Jin_Jur♫ ♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, we're not stupid, we're slow. Second off, either why he'll be mad and always reconsider everything you do. If you go back out with him AGAIN, the same thing is going to happen, only much worse. So I would suggest to move on, and he'll come around soon enough and want to be your friend again.
2007-06-25 06:50:13 · answer #6 · answered by brandon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time, make a better choice. Never go out with a guy because you only think he is 'cute' but his personality is 'lame'.
So sorry hon, but it's your own fault that it ended up like this. You got yourself into it.
And besides, boys aren't stupid. They make life interesting, hehe.
2007-06-25 06:49:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He needs to learn how to move on.
Tell him you've moved on and he should do the same..there are lots of girls out there that would be willing to go out with him. He needs to be a man..face the facts you guys r done and move on like an adult.
2007-06-25 06:49:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you dont have a choice, no matter what he will be hurt, so the best thing you can do is stop now or you will feel bad for longer
He will move on
2007-06-25 06:48:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um... the question is wrong.
"...i went out with for 3 years and the only reason i went out with him was cause he was lame but kinda cute."
That's just straight dumb.
Lord, why doesn't stupidity hurt?
2007-06-25 06:49:38 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋