I have this guy friend who is extremely shy but tries his hardest to over come it... but .. he confuses me alot.
I try really hard to not read into things.. but the signals he sends are just too complicated.
We went out for coffee last week and all he wanted to talk about was marriage!! The last time we were out thats all he talked about as well.. the weird thing is.. we're not that good of friends.. I was telling one of our mutual friends (who is a girl) that when ever we're out the subject of relationships gets brought up everytime! She said that was odd because she's known him longer and he has never talked to her about those kinds of things.
So guys... do you generally just want to talk about marriage? Or, is a guy trying to feel you out?? or is he just anxious and feels like he can talk to me?
2007-06-25 06:50:47 · 6 answers · asked by Hannah Leigh 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
something I wanted to add was..
I was shocked to find that we actually held alot of the same values..
He's some what older.. not like 15 years or something.. but he would have to wait till I got out of college.. and he kept mentioning that he wanted to wait .. and he also made a comment about his sister dating a guy who was older and paused for a reaction.. I don't think there's anything wrong with dating an older man.. so I didn't say anything..
2007-06-25 07:21:21 · update #1
In my experience the dude wants to date and have sex.
2007-06-25 06:54:32 · answer #1 · answered by b 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi There!
This is a guy that is obviously lonely and hopeful for a long term relationship.
He might be interested in you (most guys that have gals friend are interested in the gal friends they have).
As hard as this mioght be for you, ask him if he is intereted in you romatically. He obviously need the help. You can be more generic to start. Next time he brings up marriage, ask him if he has any candidates in mind - if there is a specific candidate.
Most guys do not talk about relationships. They talk about sex, and perhaps intimacy, but not relationships. This guy is special - and perhaps interested in you (or somebody). Help him along!...gp
2007-06-25 14:01:32 · answer #2 · answered by GP Large 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh no. I never talk about that stuff with a girl I'm not interested in. But the fact he's shy makes sense. He talks about relationships and marriage on an abstract/intellectual level(keeping a distance from it) rather than just asking you out on a date.
2007-06-25 13:57:25 · answer #3 · answered by LG 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think he is trying to feel you out to see how you feel. My guess would be he sees you as someone that he wants to date or be with for a long time and is trying to see what your feelings are as well.
2007-06-25 13:56:35 · answer #4 · answered by Yes I am here!! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I seldom talk about it. He may be sizing you up because he's interested and wants to see if you guys feel the same way about life. It may be a prelude to him trying to get involved with you romantically.
2007-06-25 13:56:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like he thinks you're the girl for him.
2007-06-25 13:54:47 · answer #6 · answered by Jabberwock 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋