Singles & Dating - 6 June 2007

I have a heart condition, where I cant have sex. I've been with my girlfriend on and off for three years, we broke up twice over some problems we had but we've always found our way back to eachother. I love her very much and she loves me to, even though I cant have sex I try to find ways I can make her "happy" but sometimes I really worry its not enough I know she has needs I cant meet. Sometimes I get really worried someday she'll be tempted and date someone else for a while and sleep with them. Shes not a slut at all, shes only slept with her first boyfriend who used her after that all the other ones she has dated she hasnt slept with. Then theres me. We plan on moving out together in a year or two. How do I get over this fear? Should It even be something I should get over or is it something I may have to accept one day?

2007-06-06 01:46:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I´m 19y/o and so is she...We have been together for 4 years.. and we have been friends our whole lifes... she was my first gf and i was her first bf..

but now.. three weeks ago she dumped me.. used some stupid "I´m doubting of the love i feel for you" reason for me to break up with her.. she knows i cant stand doubts... cause such a thing doesnt exist when love is the matter... there´s always someone else...

and indeed.. yesterday i found out she was hanging hands with another guy(the one she told me she liked, her classmate)... but i´m still in love with her.. and i´ve been trying to get over her.. looking for new people.. but i have these encountered feelings.. hate for the betrayal and love cause of our relationship.. she didnt respectd the fact i was still inlove with her.. and neither respectd our full time relatioship... i´m just guessing.. if she tries to comeback(cause she does feel guilty) should i reject her cause she mite do the same thing again or just welcome her back?

2007-06-06 01:40:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been going out with my boufriend for months and i dont know whats wrong with him. whenever i tell him that we should go out he tells me that he has been invited to a party and he is going there. we hardly talk or go out and be together, whenever i tell him to come home we talk he gives me excuses that he is very busy. is he really for real? i really love him and want to be with him but he is very cold doesnt really care how i feel and since we started dating we have never gone out. i am tired of being treated like this and i want to tell him that i dont want to be his girlfriend anymore. what do i do?please help.

2007-06-06 01:24:17 · 13 answers · asked by kisher 2

does anyone put weight on when theyre on holiday ???? And does drinking make you fatter ?

2007-06-06 01:16:09 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-06 01:14:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, So I didn't have a problem before I got involved with one of my ex's. Him and I got together when we were 18, on and off a couple times, each dated someone else while we were off. We almost got married, but after 5, almost 6 years together, we had to break it off. We weren't going anywhere. Right after that, I totally had a rebound guy. And right after that, I met an awesome, wonderful guy. We were like best friends and we were getting serious. Well, he left for Iraq and came back different and broke my heart (he didn't mean to) Okay, so that was 1.5 years ago. Ever since I haven't really dated. I'm not sure what's wrong. But I have no idea how to even do this anymore I don't think.

2007-06-06 01:10:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

like with your friends and family you know when there just grumpy all the time and they tell you to do stuff inthat mean tone.

2007-06-06 01:06:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My bf and I want to get married. In my country parents are deeply involved in this issue. Also, over here the groom's parents help their son no matter how old or young he is with buying the ring, furniture and apartment since these things are extremely expensive. Both families are disagreeing on the cost of everything and now my bf's father decided that he is against the marrige. My bf's mother who lives abroad with her husband, proposed to help us by buying an apartment and furnish it but write it in her name.
My bf and I want to make our master degree, he has the option of travelling to his mother's country, stay in her house, make his degree, work part time and buy me the ring and save for the furniture then I'll follow him in a semester or two.
The problem is my parents would not agree that we get married without his father's blessings, if they did they are against me travelling with my husband. This is something my dad made clear long ago.

2007-06-06 01:03:51 · 7 answers · asked by she 2

And now he has told me that he loves me & wants to change & do everything he can to win me back. I love him too. He was constantly doing things behind my back, going out with his ex & lying about it, leading other girls on, although he didn't actually cheat on me. He just lied to me. ALOT. I caught him out & dumped him, even though it was the hardest thing I have ever had to do.

We met up & I told him that IF we were to get back together he would have to chow me he has changed, he'd have to show me he means what he says when he says he loves me. That was last night. I have heard nothing from him at this point (1pm). Am I just wasting my time in trying to give him another chance? What do people think? Perhaps he is just giving me space. I want to speak to him DESPERATELY, but I don't want him to think this is trivial. I want him to miss me, to think about what he wants & really mean what he says. I think it's the only way, but I LOVE him so much & just want to talk to him.. thoughts?

2007-06-06 01:03:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do some of you find it almost impossible to say I love you to someone?
If you cant actually say it but you think you no you do love them, do you think it means you dont love them? Or you just cant say it but you really do love them.

2007-06-06 00:56:35 · 20 answers · asked by Bonnie B 4

my guy and i have been in a relationship for 3 years now. we both are faithful and very committed towards each other and have discussed marriage in great detail.

recently we decided to break the news of us being committed to our respective parents. my parents gave in after some convincing but his parents are not ready to say yes because i have spinal scoliosis.

because we do not stay in the same city, my guy and i keep in touch through phone and internet. of late i sensed that he has changed somewhat owing to his parents who have been emotionally blackmailing him. they are threatening to disown him if he gets married to me.

in the beginning he tried to give it a fight and we also discussed court marriag but now he is scared of losing his money and business. his mom is also not keeping too well so he is all the more worried.

i dont know if i should be angry with him or be supportive.am suffering fom mood swings and am scared.i am scared to lose him!!help!
thanks in advance

2007-06-06 00:49:09 · 9 answers · asked by sun 2

i've known women who give oral sex on first dates as they don't see it as bad as going the whole way . I see oral sex more intense than the full act itself - but what do the panel think ?

2007-06-06 00:38:11 · 44 answers · asked by sd_lewis2003 1