I have a heart condition, where I cant have sex. I've been with my girlfriend on and off for three years, we broke up twice over some problems we had but we've always found our way back to eachother. I love her very much and she loves me to, even though I cant have sex I try to find ways I can make her "happy" but sometimes I really worry its not enough I know she has needs I cant meet. Sometimes I get really worried someday she'll be tempted and date someone else for a while and sleep with them. Shes not a slut at all, shes only slept with her first boyfriend who used her after that all the other ones she has dated she hasnt slept with. Then theres me. We plan on moving out together in a year or two. How do I get over this fear? Should It even be something I should get over or is it something I may have to accept one day?
2007-06-06 01:46:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should never accept a situation, where the partner has the right to sleep around, because of your medical situation..she knows the problem, and if she loves you enough to marry you, then she must know what it intails...and that means, if it is abstinance, then that is the way it is...so she should really give this some thought..as she probably would really feel horrible, to be sleeping around on you to get sexually fulfilled...this would also be adultry, and fornication..so please, just tell her, that if she can't be loyal, there is no reason to stay with her, and then find someone who will...there might be a girl out there with a similar problem, who would understand, and be so happy to have a man who loved her and didn't expect her to perform...I just know that all will work out,..but don't tie her down either, ..she might mean well, but she just might not be able to do it..as she is human. Good luck and God Bless darling.x
2007-06-06 01:53:09 · answer #1 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's so sweet that your thinking about how she feels... Well ask her how she feels. Tell her how you feel and tell everything that your feeling about this subject. She will be even happier at the fact that you are considering her rather than most guys and only thinking of them selves
2007-06-06 01:53:40 · answer #2 · answered by ladii2k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, that sucks, im sorry to hear about your problem... you can take medicine to slow your heart down if that the problem,,, but , u know theres always toys and everything else,,, good luck dude
2007-06-06 03:25:25 · answer #3 · answered by wvstud22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she truely loves you then i don't think she would leave you. Besides she can always have oral sex and use a dilldo or something.
2007-06-06 01:53:58 · answer #4 · answered by Jessie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just lay it to her. What better way to die. You can *** and go at the same time.
2007-06-06 01:50:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
simply just ask her does this bother her?
2007-06-06 12:11:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋