And now he has told me that he loves me & wants to change & do everything he can to win me back. I love him too. He was constantly doing things behind my back, going out with his ex & lying about it, leading other girls on, although he didn't actually cheat on me. He just lied to me. ALOT. I caught him out & dumped him, even though it was the hardest thing I have ever had to do.
We met up & I told him that IF we were to get back together he would have to chow me he has changed, he'd have to show me he means what he says when he says he loves me. That was last night. I have heard nothing from him at this point (1pm). Am I just wasting my time in trying to give him another chance? What do people think? Perhaps he is just giving me space. I want to speak to him DESPERATELY, but I don't want him to think this is trivial. I want him to miss me, to think about what he wants & really mean what he says. I think it's the only way, but I LOVE him so much & just want to talk to him.. thoughts?
2007-06-06 01:03:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
DUMP HIM! He has already shown you how he is going to treat you. People do not change. He does not love you because he does not love himself. Actions speak louder than words. A wonderful person cannot come into your life if you are holding on to this guy. Be brave and trust that God has someone special in mind for you. This guy is just an example of who God doesn't want you to be with. A lesson of sorts.
2007-06-06 01:08:26 · answer #1 · answered by Alea S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did you even agree to meet him again? any man who lies, cheats , so you should move on. get over that so called love this dude will NEVER change. once a snake always a snake!!!! you deserve better and someone much more worthy of your time is out there you just have too look more carefully.
2007-06-06 09:40:45 · answer #2 · answered by Tante 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just forget about him as have lied to you alot and have cheated you and you have dumped him about 8 months....you dont know what he is doing this day right?? if you want him to miss you,just ignore him(he will miss you alot) or he maybe just forget about you too.See what happens and then you can make your moves.....
2007-06-06 08:13:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't back down. Make him come to you. If you call him and talk to him you are giving him mixed messages and that will be confusing to him. You are telling him that he needs to prove himself, but if you contact him then your actions are telling him another story. You will see by his actions. If he is very proactive in contacting you then maybe he is really willing to change. I would just be very cautious about the whole thing. Don't go by your emotions and what you feel about him. It may lead you down the wrong path. Go by your gut feeling and logic. Good luck.
2007-06-06 08:09:55 · answer #4 · answered by Moo Moo Mair 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i say u wait a little while longer that way he'll really want to talk to you. Whatever u do dont call him just wait until he calls u because if u do so, he will think that u want him more than he wants u and u should let him feel the other way!
2007-06-06 08:09:51 · answer #5 · answered by jelly1505 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep him in the dumpster. It will be a life of cheating and lying that you are asking for if you take him back.
2007-06-06 08:05:43 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a deep breath! you have a lot at stake here so don't rush things just relax and let it all happen...
2007-06-06 08:13:45 · answer #7 · answered by jeanned d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are wasting your time - move on and don't look back
2007-06-06 08:06:14 · answer #8 · answered by roadrunner426440 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋