Okay, So I didn't have a problem before I got involved with one of my ex's. Him and I got together when we were 18, on and off a couple times, each dated someone else while we were off. We almost got married, but after 5, almost 6 years together, we had to break it off. We weren't going anywhere. Right after that, I totally had a rebound guy. And right after that, I met an awesome, wonderful guy. We were like best friends and we were getting serious. Well, he left for Iraq and came back different and broke my heart (he didn't mean to) Okay, so that was 1.5 years ago. Ever since I haven't really dated. I'm not sure what's wrong. But I have no idea how to even do this anymore I don't think.
2007-06-06 01:10:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just talk to guys as friends for now. Don't worry so much about having the perfect relationship. Have fun. Don't constantly think about all the old stuff. Relax. If a friendship develops into more, that's great. If not, then you still have a good friendship. Don't stress over the possibilitles. Let things happen naturally.
2007-06-06 01:18:19 · answer #1 · answered by men_so_totally_suck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. You are brave. All I can say is to put it in the hands of a higher being/God/The Force, etc. When one is NOT looking, is when one usually finds someone. Just live your life, smile, talk to people, do things with others, stay away from bars/pubs, and for heaven's sake DO NOT TALK about old loves with anyone new--let the past stay in the past, concentrate on the here and now. Be positive. Good luck.
2007-06-06 08:16:41 · answer #2 · answered by Alea S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are woman. Getting a man is as easy as opening your drawer and getting out a pair of socks. Finding a good man is the hard part. Find a Conservative man if possible. He will be a hard worker and hopefully a dedicated and honest man to you. Any man in to the Hip Hop thing is probably no good and just looking for sex. Get someone who believes in God.
2007-06-06 08:23:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get out of the HOUSE!!!!!!! Do some activities such as working out at the gym, go to the mall, keep your hair, nails and toes done, stay positive, positive reinforcement, stop looking, go to bars, go to clubs and/or go online and chat. If you keep yourself positive and good looking, Mr. Right will find you when you least expect it. When he does find you, don't freak out, go with the flow.
2007-06-06 08:17:46 · answer #4 · answered by L J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing has changed in the dating scene in the last year and a half!
2007-06-06 08:15:26 · answer #5 · answered by Patty G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My grandmother always said that when her boys went off to war, they came back home different people.
Be patient. Smile, and enjoy your life.
I hope you find what your looking for. :)
2007-06-06 08:19:34 · answer #6 · answered by no cutesy name : ) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋