Singles & Dating - 26 April 2007

Me and my boyfriend have been together for three years now... However, all of a sudden my attention is diverted into one of my close friends...yeah i'm actually falling inlove with him...i think im not falling..im inlove with him... But considering that me and my bf have been together for 3 years, i cnt just dump him... Now, i cant really determine whether what i feel for my bf is love or pity... Yes i do care for him a lot.... and i dnt want him to be hurt that much...most especially now for he is undergoing problems that concerns his family.

With regards to my close friend, though how i try to suppress my feelings for him...still it always linger to my mind...Gosh....im definitely confused.. What should i do...??? Can you please help me?

2007-04-26 16:03:51 · 12 answers · asked by yhen 1

2007-04-26 16:00:34 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay so I like to cuddle with my gf. We always tickle each other and love to play board games. I took my gf to a playground at 9:00 at night and we swung togetehr. We held onto each others swing handle and swung together. for dinner we went to a resturant in a dim litten room. We talked on the phone for hours. When we finally went to sleep we just got done watching pride and prejudice. we fell asleep on the couch spooning. We woke up to my mom cooking. (She comes over every sunday...) We had breakfast and she left. Am I romantic. Would woman like it if I did this for them? Please help!

2007-04-26 15:51:46 · 14 answers · asked by SuP3RmAn67 2

hours what should i do he still thinks i am his friend

2007-04-26 15:51:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

well a guy at school gave me an orange.. i barely knows him and he gave me an orange.. and a smile.. what the heck does that mean? weird thing is that the other day i was talking to my friend how much i love orange juice.. his he making fun of me? is it a joke? a prank? or am i over thinking things?

2007-04-26 15:47:52 · 23 answers · asked by i ♥ Food 3

If a boy's girlfriend is protective of him, fights for him, and hits the one who threatens him in any way, Is it bad? I know this boy by the name of Sam whos girlfriend will beat the crap out of anyone who has a problem with him. Is this bad? One time they were at a concert and some random guy accused Sam of flirting with his wife. She put her Sam on her shoulders ( getting him out of the crowd) and the man would not leave him alone, so she beat the crap out of the man in front of his wife and her and Sam walked away. Is this wrong?

2007-04-26 15:46:39 · 27 answers · asked by petite man 1

Is it wrong for me to look into a girl's eyes, if she has a b/f, for about 10 secs and slowly tell her that she looks gorgeous?

I'm not trying to break up their relationship but I kinda want to tell her. Would it be crossing the line as a friend? We always look at each other right in the eyes for about 10 seconds everyday, sometimes I just admire her eyes, other times I try to guess what she's thinking, and sometimes I just zone out.

So tell me if it's weird or if I'm crossing the line as a friend

2007-04-26 15:46:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

She seems to really like me...she doesnt know my age and when we met she gave me a huge smile ...sparks are flyin over here but I am concerned about the age difference. I dont care about age difference..obviously, cuz im the older guy..what do young 20 something women think about it?

2007-04-26 15:44:21 · 33 answers · asked by Pete 3

so I have a "date" I hope tomorrow night with a guy who I have known awhile, we made the plans Tuesday night for tomorrow. He hasnt called me yet, should I call him or send a text to confirm?? ( I need to know if I should prepare or not)

2007-04-26 15:41:50 · 5 answers · asked by Kelly K 2

None of them are boyfriends, just friends. They don't know about eachother either, is that okay? I would've never done this in the past but I'm changing I guess, I grew up in a conservative home and now I feel like Samantha in Sex in the City and I'm loving it... urgh, so confused

2007-04-26 15:40:11 · 17 answers · asked by jamie kat 6

This guy that i know from class told me he liked me, and he asked me out. He's nice, but I don't really have a "thing" for him. But I'm also really picky when it comes to guys, so I'm afraid that if I keep passing guys up, I will never find one. Should I go out with him, even if I don't like him in that way?

2007-04-26 15:38:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been seeing this guy for just over a month now, and I really like him. We have fun together & he's really a good guy, all my friends agree. But, he likes to drink, A LOT. While I don't mind a drink or a few here or there,heck I cut loose every now and then too, but I do not like the fact that he spent last Fri, Sat & Sun night pretty dang drunk. He is not a mean drunk by any means and I am not afraid for myself, it is just a bit embarassing and annoying to deal with on a regular basis. I'm not wanting him to stop, just cut back a bit. How do I bring this up to him? I'd like to consider stepping the relationship to a higher level, but this issue is standing in the way. I dont want to come across as demanding or as trying to change him, I just want to voice my concern over the issue. How do I do it appropriately & without possibly messing up the relationship? Obviously it is something that has to be dealt with and not just ignored.

2007-04-26 15:35:46 · 1 answers · asked by hickablue 2

She really wanted To be friends but I didn't because she ditched me. I sent her 3 emails explaining why we can't be friends but she said I was just trying to Punish her. She kept trying to talk to me and I snapped and called her a cheeky whore and filthy slut and and stupid ***** a lot of nasty things, she didn't reply. I feel so bad. We broke up 5 months ago and she still trys to be friends, and I just snapped and I feel bad about it. Idk what shes doing I bet shes crying or something? What do I do? Why does she insist on being friends? I'm moving on saturday maybe she felt bad idk what should i do?

argh!

2007-04-26 15:22:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-26 15:21:01 · 11 answers · asked by Stel 1 3

I have this big question. I try to talk to many girls....(Yes, I do it confidently, with smile )........but some how they dont seem to be interested. I wont say that I am a mirror cracking material but I am pretty much good looking, athletic body and highly educated person.
Any suggestions on how to go about this will be appriciated.......

* I dont want this question to be a racial hot point.......

Thanks in advance

2007-04-26 15:17:41 · 14 answers · asked by Fighter 1

He tells me that he still loves me and that he didn't intend to break up with me and that this new relationship he has isn't going to last long. I still care about him but I'm so sick of getting hurt by him. I have kinda found someone else but not too sure... I still care about him but he's so confusing..what do i do?

2007-04-26 15:16:45 · 23 answers · asked by Kay 1

Do I have something special ....or am I dreaming ?

It really happened to me .....we have been friends for 18 months.....I wasn't looking for anything more....but hey....I am a man...and when it was offered......I took it !

Wow ! But I didn't seek it....I still love my wife....and I don't want to further the relationship.....unless pushed......and then just to prove I can compete with any younger men.......what do you think ?

Stud ?

2007-04-26 15:16:04 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-26 15:15:16 · 1 answers · asked by cardel s 1

2007-04-26 15:15:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think im an ok dancer... but i just want some pointers from the girls who love to dance and are good....my gf is a singer/performer.... she can dance and were going to a dance for the first time and im nervous and i know she is nervous that i will be bad...so i just want some pointers from the ladys that love to dance... what do you like the guy to do should he move with you or back up and do his own little thing how much touching what would you concider a good guy to dance with thats all i want is a little help thanks!!!

2007-04-26 15:12:49 · 7 answers · asked by stiffler 2

2007-04-26 15:12:05 · 1 answers · asked by anderssonliz 1

ok this is sorta creepy! Every single time i get in the shower, there is a naked woman in there! and i was wondering how to get rid of her... but the weird thing is she is only in there when i am went i get out she does too! it's freaky!!!1 :(

2007-04-26 14:44:21 · 7 answers · asked by ♥Colie♥ 1

What was the worest line that someone has droped on you to get your attention ... !?

2007-04-26 14:38:50 · 4 answers · asked by Franko From the Bronx 2

with nothing but a feather

2007-04-26 14:36:28 · 7 answers · asked by Doona 5

hi! my bf of 2 years said last night that he wants to have sex on prom night. i'm scared because i'm not ready, but he says he'll tell his friends that we did even if we didn't.

i know what y'all are sayin, but i love him, i honestly do, and i can't imagine my world w/out him. he was there when my dad left us, and he's been everything for me.
i don't know why he's a jerk about sex.
plz help!

2007-04-26 14:32:34 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

There was a guy who really like me. We met and talk and at the time i taught this relationship would work. I kinda push him away, I really don't know why. We stop talkin because of me. Now years how pass and now feelings have come. Should I dwell on the pass and try make a relationship work again or try to supress these feelings and move on. What do you think ? Do I need help?

2007-04-26 14:28:38 · 13 answers · asked by tanlaask 3

Can someone tell me their most difficult adjustment and it could be anything like working new days or going to a hard class for the first time, etc.

What made this experience or adjustment so difficult?

2007-04-26 14:26:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-26 14:16:46 · 11 answers · asked by melody k 1

how do you have girl and girl sex cause me and my friend want to do id because its not like its dangerous or anything. it looks pretty fun... if you did, would you lick the v-a-g-i-n-a of the other girl? and how would you do it?

2007-04-26 14:07:51 · 3 answers · asked by stick the p in the v 1

If you are walking around and you grab or rub your girlfriends butt, is that sexual assault since she did not consent to it?

2007-04-26 14:07:20 · 1 answers · asked by whoa 1