Singles & Dating - 25 March 2007

ok so I have been seeing this guy for a few months..and he seems to be great...I am very comfortable with him and I dont want to see anyone else..I am not sure if I love him or not simply cause its too soon...HOWEVER....he tells me all the time that he doesnt want a commitment...which means to me that I am fair game for anyone else that comes along..I am not seeing anyone else..nor do I want to...but...even though he treats me like I am his girlfriend...and makes comments about other guys...what is his deal?? I mean...how hard can it be??..I dont get it...HELP!!

2007-03-25 16:19:15 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Dear participants,

I am in a very difivult situation. I started to date this girl around 5 months ago. I wanted to break up with her after the second month. She did not recieve aproval from my family, neither my closest friends. i am only 20 and i feel that she thinks about marriage although she does not admits so. She allways talk to me about the future and we fight practically about everything every day. She even gets angry when i meet with my oldest friends. Furthermore, she starts crazy arguements because i can meet her only three or two days a week. The first time i broke up, she came and talked to my parents! the second time, she came to my office without telling me. each time i want to break up she cryes histerycaly and i accept to restart the relationship. I love her as well, however things are not working out, and it is the best for both of us to split. we fight every day, she cries every day... How can i do this in the way i would not hurt her? forgive my spelling...

2007-03-25 16:19:11 · 8 answers · asked by vincenzog01 2

i just finsh find out i have been see is gay is name is ken win been see etour for about a month now what shood i do

2007-03-25 16:18:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and me dated then broke up (complicated family order to) and now are dating again while we were broken up he dated someone else and while they were dating we still talked all the time and she encouraged him to because he had told her he loved me. They both saw their relationship as nothing important and when i talked to her she told me how she never cared for him. Yet i can't just be happy again because i know that they were together in the way i think people in love should only be. any advice?

2007-03-25 16:18:09 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I definitely know that I'm in love with my boyfriend and that he's the person that I want to be with, but is it normal to have relationship problems? In which the person can truly get on your nerves? Has anyone ever felt like they love the person they are with, but they just need space from them..and not even break up? Just not so much talking and all that stuff(we talk every day...all day).

2007-03-25 16:17:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Everytime I get into a relationship it goes bad sometimes really fast. I dunno if its me or what? I am truly faithful to the girl I am dating. I open doors for her . I always try to make her feel comfortable and wanted and if it is serious loved. I always so treat her with respect. I listen when they talk, Because I want to be there for her. I show manners to her parents when I meet them. I always treat a girl really well. But one girl told me when she broke up with me that I was to nice. I don't get it or maybe I am just dumb. I am trying to get back into the dating game. Nothing serious just wanna get back into the Dating Game. Please help. I need some advice.

2007-03-25 16:17:10 · 20 answers · asked by paco_46 1

ok this guy @ my skool like me i also like him he turns me on and he asks pesonal questions like did you ever get layed and i told him no did you and he said no he also said i want ot do it with someone special like you i told him i know now me too but its like he told me that he likes me but if my friend said do you like her he said no. myquestion is if i hook up with him would that mean that my couldnt know ? or if i hook up wit him and told my friends wouls he break up with me? is this relationship worth it ? i need 2 know what 2 do help me?

2007-03-25 16:16:58 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

My crush is very afraid of my Dad and i dunno why...My crush is 22 and is supposed to be a man but is very afraid of my Dad...On saturday nite my dad asked me if i wanted to go out to have some drinks with him and his girlfriend i said sure...I asked if its ok to bring Jesse and he said yeah sure so i did and everything was going ok. The bar that we went to my dad has lots of friends there and when my dad and his women went home i stay there with jesse. I kept trying to kiss him but he was scared that someone would tell my dad...After i got some beers in him to get him relaxed he felt a little better...We started making out and i gave him a big hicky on his neck and he freaked out ...Saying that my dad will find out and now he is all paranoid ...When someone asked if i was his girl he said no thats my sister because he thought they would tell my dad if he said that i was his girl...what is up with him?

2007-03-25 16:16:17 · 3 answers · asked by I_luv_my_kids<3 1

ok me and my boyfriend were disscussing crying he is a pretty cold person and says he dosent cry he works with the elderly and they pass away somtimes and its like he dosent even care and he has tyaken care of them for awhile or in his family when somthing tragic happens its like he dosent care i know he dose he can express verbally but cant cry is this normal is it like real men dont cry cause he said he wouldnt even do it byhimself cause he would feel weird about it its like taboo dose anyone know someone like this why is this

2007-03-25 16:15:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

and i dont know how to talk to guys...i dont want them to think im stupid...anyone have any suggestions to approach

2007-03-25 16:14:50 · 6 answers · asked by popsicles09 1

a great orgasm every night or money. explain why please.

2007-03-25 16:13:37 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

approaches you at work , introduces himself, and after one single conversation tells you he likes being around you and a few other things. he also keeps flirting with me. Does it mean he likes me?

2007-03-25 16:12:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Recently, I started talking to my ex. It all seemed to start out very romantically, and he called every day for a week, and I thought we were talking about getting back together, but he didn't call one night when he had said he would, and I texted him wondering what was going on. He called and started yelling at me--I took it all, thinking it was good to get this kind of feeling out in the open, but then, the next thing I knew, he was pulling back and calling at his convenience only. I tried to be nice and say how happy I was at the positive things he was doing, but he seemed pretty upset. He encouraged me to talk about the past, and we got some very important things out in the open, but then he said something about not wanting to feel obligated to call. Later, he wrote an email in which he talked about wanting to stay in touch but on his terms, and also basically saying that he didn't feel the same way as he used to on the phone. What happened? Does this guy have issues?

2007-03-25 16:12:00 · 11 answers · asked by Christina V 1

this is the poll, this is what i want.

how often do you like love letters from your significant other.

what is your age

what is your current status (single, married, whatever)

what would you like out of your significant other (affection-wise)

{if you dont want to put your age, give the decade you are in.}

2007-03-25 16:11:55 · 10 answers · asked by SwordDancer 5

i like this girl and im pretty sure she likes me. how do i find out if she does? and if she does like me what do i do ask her out or what? help would greatly be appreciated thanks

2007-03-25 16:11:47 · 2 answers · asked by THEguy 1

he and i are both sophomores in high school and we hooked up at a dance a few weeks ago. we have been friends for about a year. i had kind of liked him before, but had never thought about my feelings and actually realized i had a thing for him. after i made out with him i began to realize my feelings, and he and i talked it over and he said that he didn't think "it would turn into anything serious, at least not right now" which i understood to mean, basically, nothing would happen.

what bothers the hell out of me is that i cant shake liking him. i've complained to him about it, and hes not much help.

he frustrates the hell out of me and i really dont want to like him.

what do i do? i'm up for any suggestions

2007-03-25 16:11:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi im a 8th Grader who has been talking to a girl for some time now. Well she always flirts with me when she has the opportunity though ,on the internet, about school,about our lives,etc. with her still flirting with me at school. Whenever we're in our 6th hour classes she would stare at me (Usually turning away if I saw her) asks me to join her in group assignments,talks to me when the teacher isn't looking (Using so many girly gestures that it's hard to describe) poking me just for fun, talking with me all the way to my 7th hour class.Now we talk on the phone pretty much every day ever since I gave her my phone number (She ALWAYS calls me about every 2 hours or so)She laughs and giggles at my every joke BUT In spite of all this she has a BF that she always complains about and he treats her like crap,well I want to ask her out but seeing how she talks to me alot more than him Im wondering that even if I did become her BF What makes me think she won't talk to other boys

2007-03-25 16:10:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i need help in this area

2007-03-25 16:09:54 · 18 answers · asked by Mad 2

I want to seduce someone without being to forward. Any suggestions?

2007-03-25 16:09:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-25 16:07:53 · 17 answers · asked by Some Dude 3

ok so theres this one guy i really like. but he is a buddhist and im a christian. can i still like him?

2007-03-25 16:07:10 · 4 answers · asked by ohsnapp 2

I have liked this guy since i was 7 and our dads and moms are friends. i want to tell him that i like him but am soooooo shy to. i have noticed that he has started liking my friend. i used to think that he liked me before but now im not so sure. i want a specific answer on how to tell him i like him without stabbing my friend in the back. all i think about is him....sometimes i find myself in my own world which nobody ever understands,my grades are getting HORRIBLE cuz in class im only thinking about him. . i dont know what to do, my life is now like complete HELL. im crying everyday cuz my heart is broken.im afraid he likes my friend more than me.....WHAT AM I GONNA DO TO GET MY GRADES UP AND TELL HIM THAT I LIKE HIM!??!?! PLZZZZ HELP ME!!!!! I FEEL LIKE A NOBODY!!!

2007-03-25 16:06:51 · 21 answers · asked by Sara 2

2007-03-25 16:06:13 · 12 answers · asked by kilbo49 2

There is a realy cute guy in my math class who use to talk to me all the time. But after a while they move me from seats and now he does talk to me like he use to but he sees me b4 class and after and during lunch. But the only reason he ses me is b/c he tries to be around were i am but does he like me or just wanna be friends? should i ask him ? some advice will be nice

2007-03-25 16:06:10 · 2 answers · asked by ♥Princess♥ 2

I'm tired of the who likes who game, but i want i gf.....HELP

2007-03-25 16:05:52 · 10 answers · asked by keithr2003 3

What would you do if you were best friends with someone for about 6 years and spent every single minute with eachother...Then one day she calls you and lets you know that she's going to be moving to a different country in a week. So she gave me a number where I can reach her at, and I called for about the first 4 times. She never once called me to ask me how I'm doing here. Before she moved she told me that it was expensive to call from there, so she insisted that I call instead, however, her parents send her thousands of$$$ every month. It's been over 5 months we haven't talked. Do you think I should call her or not?

2007-03-25 16:05:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

On fri nite my crush and i went out to a bar had a few drinks then we walked on the beach and layed in the sand and held eachother it was great ...His kisses are so sweet it knocks me off my feet and i am neva gonna forget that nite but the next day my crush said he doesnt really reaember all that happend because he was a little drunk and now i feel like crap ...what do i do ?

2007-03-25 16:02:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Am I wrong for feeling this way?
My boyfriend smoked pot when I met him. I also smoked awhile ago when I met him(about 3 years ago). I only smoked for about 3 months and then quit completely. It has been 3 years of me and my bf being together and I can't stand him smoking anymore. When I smoked I use to do it for fun. He says he smokes so he is calm and can just chill. He does smoke like 3 times a day. but only alittle at a time just to calm him down. I just feel like he should not have to smoke when I hang out with him. I try to make him feel comfortable and just feel like I don't make him feel good enough and he needs a drug. When I went over his house last night, after a hour of me being there he asked me to drive him to get some weed. I was only staying for 3 hours. We fought about it, He said he just wanted to be relaxed while I was there....wtf, he was not smoking when he was alone.. I came there to make him feel better. we only chill like twice a week.

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We ended up breaking up. Am I wrong for flipping out over him smoking? I just can't take the smell..him acting high and stupid...What if we had kids and they saw him smoking.. I don't know..

2007-03-25 16:01:48 · 7 answers · asked by CrazyChic86 3

2007-03-25 16:01:47 · 15 answers · asked by dwforce 3

I am 11 years old and everyone at my school has a boyfriend and i really want one and i already like one his name is steven he is really cute and i dont know how to get him to notice me or how to inpress him, and i admit i am a bit fat. what do i do? please help me.

2007-03-25 16:00:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous