he and i are both sophomores in high school and we hooked up at a dance a few weeks ago. we have been friends for about a year. i had kind of liked him before, but had never thought about my feelings and actually realized i had a thing for him. after i made out with him i began to realize my feelings, and he and i talked it over and he said that he didn't think "it would turn into anything serious, at least not right now" which i understood to mean, basically, nothing would happen.
what bothers the hell out of me is that i cant shake liking him. i've complained to him about it, and hes not much help.
he frustrates the hell out of me and i really dont want to like him.
what do i do? i'm up for any suggestions
2007-03-25 16:11:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on, you can't change his feelings, only your own...and he is not interested..at least right now!
2007-04-02 08:35:23 · answer #1 · answered by Boston Bluefish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You feel what you feel. If you're attracted to him, you can't just make that feeling go away. Since you have a good solid friendship with him, be honest but don't push him toward a romantic relationship. He'll either start to feel the same way about you (he DID make out with you after all), or at worst, you'll have a crush on your good friend for a while. If he has any class at all, he'll be sensitive to you and not talk about other girls to you until you get over the crush.
2007-03-25 16:18:13 · answer #2 · answered by cavyslave2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Considering your still in high school you need to keep looking around at the other thousand guys you see everyday...I'm sure you've heard it before but you're still young and should take advantage of being single and live your life...you'll eventually find somebody that'll like you as much you like them so keep your head up
2007-03-25 16:17:47 · answer #3 · answered by diplomatic88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well why don't move on without him and not worry about him anymore. Also talk with him and see how he will feel about you and you tell him how you feel about him and if you and him can't get in agrement just break up with him.
2007-03-25 16:20:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur a bout 15/16 years old... there will be plenty more guys like this in your life. back off of him because you may be coming off to him as being depsparte. back off of him a bit and play a lil hard to get and he may just change his mind...Guys want what they cant have...
2007-03-25 16:16:58 · answer #5 · answered by Finally his wife! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very simply stated hes not interested in a long term relation at this time.so unless you like the expeirance your feeling now i think you better find another.
2007-03-25 16:15:41 · answer #6 · answered by resigned 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time it takes time. I know it sounds cliche but thats the only thing you can do. Wait and soon you'll find someone else as groovy:).
2007-03-25 16:16:56 · answer #7 · answered by nw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him ..play hard to get. It always works. Say hi and walk away. This will get his attention..or maybe you have to stop hanging around him for awhile to get over your feelings for him.
2007-03-25 16:22:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn your lesson and quit hooking up with guys so that they will want a relationship with you !
2007-03-25 16:17:51 · answer #9 · answered by Kendra H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find another guy who treats u right, you deserve it, dont waste ur time with this guy, get out have fun froget about him, do it now before it gets harder.
2007-03-25 16:15:22 · answer #10 · answered by smarta$$ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋