I have liked this guy since i was 7 and our dads and moms are friends. i want to tell him that i like him but am soooooo shy to. i have noticed that he has started liking my friend. i used to think that he liked me before but now im not so sure. i want a specific answer on how to tell him i like him without stabbing my friend in the back. all i think about is him....sometimes i find myself in my own world which nobody ever understands,my grades are getting HORRIBLE cuz in class im only thinking about him. . i dont know what to do, my life is now like complete HELL. im crying everyday cuz my heart is broken.im afraid he likes my friend more than me.....WHAT AM I GONNA DO TO GET MY GRADES UP AND TELL HIM THAT I LIKE HIM!??!?! PLZZZZ HELP ME!!!!! I FEEL LIKE A NOBODY!!!
2007-03-25 16:06:51 · 21 answers · asked by Sara 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all does your friend like this guy too? Because if she does, you should talk to her first. Friendship is more important than any guy. If you both like him maybe you could just both decide not to do anything about it. If she's not interested than just tell the guy - you've been friends for a long time & you think he's nice (great, cute, fun, whatever). Ask if he'd like to go out sometime.
But, on the other hand- you need to be careful. No guy is worth failing school, getting into trouble, or loosing a best friend over. So, make priorities & stick to them. You sound young- which means you'll meet plent y of cute guys in your lifetime :) Make yourself focu on what's important. Save the daydreaming for afterhours LOL
2007-03-25 16:14:05 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs.know.It.All 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can assure you even if he is now with you, your grades will NOT be better. how you achieve in studies deeply depends on how you deal with yourself as well as dicipline. You think you will not think of him always even when you are already with him? Don't be that silly. On the other hand, be frank and tell him how you feel about him, for at least you'll have no regret. be prepare for the worst since you know that he has feelings towards your friend. Hey, you are still young so there's nothing to lose, girl! Just be sporting and be yourself.
2007-03-25 16:25:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
During class you are probably thinking how you should tell him you like him so maybe if you tell him that will be off your mind thats what i did.But you could write a note asking him if he would go out with you then if he says i already have a girlfriend then don't sit there and beg him just walk around with someone then he will get jealous and then ask you out then yall should make a great couple .
2007-03-25 16:16:54 · answer #3 · answered by Lil A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there a spring tolo coming up? Ask him. Otherwise think up an excuse for him to spend some time with you. Maybe he can help you with your backhand or golf swing? Maybe you could ask him over to listen to some new music that you've just discovered. There must be something besides pheromones that you have in common.
2007-03-25 16:12:06 · answer #4 · answered by Scott K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the best way to tell him about how you feel about him without hurting anyone is write him a letter and tell him how you feel about him and go from there. If your friend gets mad about it hey life goes on. But if they aren't going out as bf/gf then you still have a chance. So write him a letter and find out how he feels about you too.
2007-03-25 16:13:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you are shy you need to tell him by writing a letter, that way you can get your words together. Give it to him. If you are uneasy about him reading it in your presence. give it to him and run away. All you can do is wait for a response but at least he knows how you feel.
2007-03-25 16:13:45 · answer #6 · answered by nw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he feels the same about you and is too shy to say anything to you. I know you don't want to hear this, but nothing's worth letting your grades slip! Good luck to you. You sound like a nice kid!
2007-03-25 16:14:23 · answer #7 · answered by jresh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe hes taken an interest in your friend because hes been thinking the same thing about you and doesnt think you would be inteerested in a relationship with him i know being shy sucks but you need to tell him before its to late good luck
2007-03-25 16:14:29 · answer #8 · answered by fade7887 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If things are this bad then you cant let him destroy your entire life that mens -TELL HIM!!!
seroisly frm gurl 2 gurl we all have our crushes but thiz iz way morr than a crush
it soundz lyk ur totlallee obsessd ( no offense)
If you dont say antethng & keep it bottled up then thngz will onlee get worse
2007-03-25 16:16:37 · answer #9 · answered by CoutureCitten(: 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG i am the same way. crying and sad. parents are friends and the whole bit. just learn that there are other fish in the sea and the right one will come around eventually. dont worry you have your whole life ahead of you to find your perfect person. :0)
2007-03-25 16:11:49 · answer #10 · answered by huskie5652 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋