My boyfriend of one month just lost his grandmother. I was in touch with him today, several hours after it happened, and I told him that if he wanted to talk, or wanted company, to call me, because I know we all handle pain differently. It seems redundant to be constantly asking how he is, what's going on, how I can help etc., especially if wants his alone time as a way of coping. But on the other hand, I do want him to be sure I am supportive and to that I'm not running from this tough situation in his life. My question is, now that I have let him know I am here for him, should I give him his space for a while and just wait for him to contact me when he feels ready, or should I continue to text him every so often to check in and remind him I am here for him?
2007-03-20
13:32:37
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Kim
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