I asked her out today and she sed '' no, can we just be frends".
being frends is cool but how do i chang that? i like her, i know i do but, im rejected by everybody. so help would be nice
2007-03-20 13:35:45 · 13 answers · asked by Hunter The Hick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you need to wait longer and talk more before you ask the girls out. you probably lost your chance with that girl... but if you remain good friends or if you change majorly then you could probably try again in a year or something..
but my advice is.. take it slower and girls will say yes.
2007-03-20 13:39:57 · answer #1 · answered by Monkey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only person you can influence is yourself. Take an honest look at yourself and decide how you can improve.
Do you have hobbies and interests that you can share with others either verbally or actually share participation wise.
Are you reasonably well read so that what you have to say is interesting or meaningful to people around you.
Don't go negative on yourself ~~~ she does to like you ~~~ she said she wants to stay friends ~~~ if you love her you will accept that and "just like her back".
2007-03-20 13:49:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though, she doesn't like you at least you can be friends. Then, once you are friends, you will be able to talk to her better and she might see you differently so she might go out with you. If she still does not like you, there are other fish in the sea. Go for someone else.
2007-03-20 13:42:18 · answer #3 · answered by lil genius 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends what grade you're in, cause it depends how many relationships she's had. like mayb she just had a hard breakup or she's had one in the past and doesn't want it to happen again, or mayb you guys are younger than high school, and she's nervous bout havin a bf. just talk ta her, make another move but not too soon, cuz you'll freak her out. if you're lucky, mayb she's just playin hard to get.
2007-03-20 13:42:42 · answer #4 · answered by dingle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably can't change it. When she says she just wants to be friends, that means she doesn't want to go out with you, but she doesn't want to hurt your feelings. You need to find a girl that is interested in you. Keep looking.
2007-03-20 13:40:33 · answer #5 · answered by rollo_tomassi423 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey take your time with her get to knowher, also spend alot of time with her maybe she will come to like you and maybe ask you out remember keep an poen mind
2007-03-20 13:42:49 · answer #6 · answered by m w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe she isn't looking fo r somebody at the moment but if u stick around she might change her mind well maybe
2007-03-20 13:40:31 · answer #7 · answered by Tex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur name is tyler then i think i no u ...
my friend says no to this one guy and its making him down... she tries to make him get her things and acts sweet then is mean when she is wit her friends....
if she only wants to be friends dont rush her...maybe make her jealous
or
you should do dlittle things 4 her and always smile and majke her smile too
2007-03-20 13:40:14 · answer #8 · answered by someebeooddyyy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop askin abt it n pretend like ur sooo into another girl
2007-03-20 13:40:09 · answer #9 · answered by Aziza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant tension her to love you cuz which will purely turn her away extra. dnt wutever you do shop pestering her approximately it have confidence ME ladies do unlike that its extreamly stressful and unappealing. yet in any case purely be your self if issues have been meant to be then they have been meant to be in the event that they don't look to be they don't look to be idk wut else to tell you yet solid luck =D
2016-10-19 05:11:50 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋