What should I do?

Question

So this amazing girl that seems like she was kinda leading me on was just talking to me on msn, and she pretty much just asked me if I was planning on asking her out. I told her no because I heard from a friend that she told him that she didn't want me to ask her out. She told me that she had told him (lol) that it would be weird if I asked her out since I knew that she only wanted to be friends... which I didn't until just then... I really like her... possibly love her, she was actually my first kiss. I'm not stupid I know I need to get over her, I just don't know how. I actualy feel like crying right now lol. Anyways the last few days Ive been sitting and talking with her on the bus. Normally she reads on her way to school. I just had wanted to hint to her that I was really truely interested... now I dont know if I should sit with her on the bus tomorrow or just take my own seat and smile as I pass by... it was an aqward conversation, but hopefully one day I'll get over it... =*(

I'm afraid she already new that I liked her.. alot... I told her that while I was talking with her. I'll just have to face the fact that she doesn't how I do...

Answer 1

Dude, you got it bad!! But here is what I would do if I were you:

1)Stop talking to everyone about her. Big mistake. Someone else could like her and purposely give you bad info.

2)Stop being scared. Rejection is a part of life. Now is a good time to learn how to deal with it.

3)Stop confusing attraction with feelings. Sorry to disappoint you but people do not fall madly in love over a kiss. You are very attracted to her, yes. But feelings take time to develop and that comes from getting to know someone.

4) Be a man of ACTION. Talk to her, let her know how you feel and ask her if how she feels. You never know, she's probably waiting for you to make the first move, so MAKE IT ALREADY!!!

Good luck Bro!

Answer 2

Thank *** I'm past puberty.