Singles & Dating - 19 March 2007

I know ive asked this once already but nobody answered and I'm having a lot of problems with this and its kinda hard to admit it. I just can't talk to girls. I can talk to anybody except the girl I like. People keep telling me to not get nervous, to suck it up, and not to show that I'm nervous when I talk to her. The bottom line is I just get flustered and things just don't come out right, and no matter what im going to be really nervous. How can I fix this?

2007-03-19 15:39:17 · 2 answers · asked by spacemanspiff091352 1

Today my boyfriend of 9 months now told me he wants some space.. he said he loves me and he doesn't want to be without me. He just wants a variety of friends and to be with other people besides me.. I feel this way to, because he and I are together every single day!! eek! The only thing that worries me.. is, is this the beginning of a break up? :( He and I have only taken 1 break before and it was for a couple days.. I'm probably thinking waaaaaaaay to much into this.. but any advice is appreciated.

2007-03-19 15:38:29 · 7 answers · asked by BeachGrl1985 2

some guys i knowwhen its the right moment guys talk about girls in front of me sometimes and their exes and then they ask me what i look for in a guy,i usualy tell them but then they ask how far would you go with a really hot guy you knew those questions.but i then ask them are you trying to figure me out and they say kinda or just admit it.i really get the vibe that when some of these guys talk and ask me about my perspectives on relationships i get the vibe that they are interested or tlike me,but then i get the vibe that they are just trying to figure me out by testing me if im easy or not.which one are they doing or is it both,why??

2007-03-19 15:38:11 · 1 answers · asked by emeralcoastsurfgirl101 1

A lot of people know the term friends with benefits.
Is it normal for friends with benefits to make out and then for one to ask the other if they can feel the other up? They might as well go out, no?

2007-03-19 15:37:47 · 7 answers · asked by R 1

ok so this guy i like thinks i needa be more flirty torwards him. I can flirt with any guy but i like him and he likes me so its hard. Got any ideas

2007-03-19 15:37:25 · 8 answers · asked by JESSICA 1

I'm in love with her, but I don't know how she would take it.

She was molested by her father when she was ten, so she has serious trust and intimacy issues. I'm basically the only guy, maybe the only person she trusts. I'm like her protecter. I don't want to lose that trust. She shuts everybody else out, but still opens up to me. She's never had a boyfriend because she's afraid of the physical intimacy. Should I tell her how I feel?

2007-03-19 15:36:26 · 22 answers · asked by Gary W 4

They always say there's someone out there for everyone. I don't know if that's true for me though. It never seems to work that way for me. This last guy in the beginning was the sweetest and kindest I'd ever known and I felt like it was worth going through all the other stuff to eventually find him and I was sure I could trust him. But he wasn't what he seemed and he was not to be trusted after all. And I think that's made it hurt the most of all . So I'm wondering if there maybe isn't going to ever be someone for me? Does anyone else ever wonder that too?

2007-03-19 15:35:42 · 8 answers · asked by Hopeful girl 3

Do you have any first kiss tips??
Any at all>...???? I really need some........

2007-03-19 15:35:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met a guy and he seems pretty interested- he tells me he has a gf- but is still trying to talk to me. What is going on?

2007-03-19 15:33:49 · 11 answers · asked by nerby79 1

2007-03-19 15:33:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

there is this guy....and he is practically my brother....thats what i call him....and he is always hanging around me....mostly in p.e. when its just our grade.....but in the halls.....if i talk to him....he will just ignore me if he is around the other grades....and i kind of like him.....and we both really liked each other last year.....but we never whent out.....and now i dont know if he likes me or not.....please help

2007-03-19 15:33:18 · 1 answers · asked by !♥*$ Bre $*♥! 2

do you guys like it when girls shave their ^down there^ or would you rather just naturally, however that may be??? lol awkward question, i know, but just wonderin! thx

2007-03-19 15:33:14 · 9 answers · asked by scarheadlovesferret 4

i want to date this girl but she said that she dosent have time right now what do i do. do i back off or what. i really like her

2007-03-19 15:32:11 · 8 answers · asked by javi 2

I have been with my boyfriend for 10 months. I have known him for 3 years total. We moved in together 10 months ago also. He takes care of my daughter and does everything for me. I also do everything and anything for him. But he hasint told me he loves me. I also am scared to tell him. But how long does it take for someone to really have feelings for you. I m also confused my self if i really love him or just like him alot. I have been in love before and i just got out of that 5 year relationship 2 years ago and I knew I loved him. But now im confused if I will ever love again . I am also constantly trying to fight my feelings for him cause i dont want to get too attached cause I dont want to be the only one. Im just a mess I don't know what the hell im doing..lol

2007-03-19 15:31:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

SO, I had P.E. with Whitney last semester and she made great efforts to always get her friend with her when she would ever talk to me IN THE BEGINNING!

Then, we just walkd around the track, just the two of us. It was nice! Now, that P.E. class was just a semester and this semester, we both have Health, but different teachers.

Now, when she found out I'm a Sophomore, she was a little struck and said, "OH." like I DON'T KNOW. --Kinda going from excited to calm.

On this myspace survey she filled out, asking do you like any friends, she said, "Yes, but only for a second..."

My guess is whenever we don't see each other, our feelings die down, but whenever we get to talk face-to-face and spend time with each other, our feelings explode for each other.

I saw her today and she was estatic. Of course IT HAD TO BE AFTER SCHOOL, so I didn't get to talk long.

Her latest myspace comment was...

Hey Jefffff =D

How was your spring break? =D

So yah, what do you think???

2007-03-19 15:31:37 · 2 answers · asked by ×ithurtsogoodØ 1

My friend is in love with this girl, but the only problem is that he keeps asking me for help and I dont know what to help him. He does'nt want to go out with her because he's in college and wants to concetrate on his education first. Help please!!

2007-03-19 15:30:52 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-19 15:30:40 · 8 answers · asked by Babydoll 1

what does that mean

2007-03-19 15:30:36 · 8 answers · asked by blonde_chick 1

....how easy or difficult is it to find a girl who will love you very much, accept u, and who wants to spend her life with u given the chance.

2007-03-19 15:30:35 · 14 answers · asked by ? 6

nce in a while. I mean she likes me and has known me 2yrs. She wasn't awkward toward my confession to her, but don't want to seem like i want to interfere, just want to say hi and touch base now and then.

2007-03-19 15:29:41 · 2 answers · asked by KID87 1

thanx sooo much! but i also have a feeling he likes me, my friends say they heard him say "u know the girl (my name)" but i think he was saying i like him because everyone in the school knows i like him... i also think he likes because he starts passing notes with me....and during a presentation for school around 6:00, he would try to talk to me ALOT.

ALSO: when he found ou by my x-friend, his reaction was a "ok and a blush" THANK YOU SO MUCH!

2007-03-19 15:29:26 · 9 answers · asked by Dezzi;Babbyy; 2

I can't deal with his friends anymore! One of them is moving on Friday, but I can't help but think even if he DOES leave, how will I deal with his other friends? They're obnoxious, and I can't think of one word to say to get them off my back!!

2007-03-19 15:28:23 · 11 answers · asked by ASIA :] 2

2007-03-19 15:28:14 · 11 answers · asked by buddafly 1

My mom recently gave me her Gateway Laptop for my birhtday. When I moved, I lost the charger, and have yet to replace it.

So the other day my mom sent me an email askiing if I had simply thrown away the computer.

I knew she wasn't trying to upset me, or upset with me herself. But still, I couldn't believe she would really think I would just throw away a laptop, or any gift she has given me. Yah know?

Anyway I'm in the middle of writting an email back. And frankly i'm stuck on this one line. Kind of retarded to use this for, but I want to get this perfect!

The Line : :
How you could ever think I would just throw away a computer, none the less ANY gift you have given me, >> blows my mind away. <<

The last three words are the words I am having trouble with. They're not sitting well with me, blows my mind, it's more than that, I just can't find the perfect words.

Lame, I know.

BUT HELP PLEASE!!!

Thanks!!

2007-03-19 15:27:26 · 1 answers · asked by BendersFloozy 2

I dated my ex for 2 years, it was going well unitl he made many more friends and basically forgot about him, since i left alone and angry with all the time, i cheated on him, once, and took breaks. He told that he would change but in the end he didn't. I broke it off with him. It's been two months and i think of him very much, cause he was my only true friend, but i know it was the best thing to do because he didn't love me like i did. I I met a new guy who is wonderful and everything i can ask for, but i always find myself missing my ex very much, and sometimes i fell like i want him back, why do i want him back if i know that i will end up with the same things that had always happened?

2007-03-19 15:26:54 · 11 answers · asked by LadyRose 1

2007-03-19 15:26:45 · 2 answers · asked by colejoe79 2

Okay, I really am starting to like this girl, but I don't know if she feels the same way about me!! She stares at me a little bit, but not very much. She smiles when I smile at her, but it's kind of a shy smile. She hardly ever talks to me, but she has been starting to more!! Does she like me and how do I not get so obsessed with her!!

2007-03-19 15:24:52 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-19 15:23:38 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

What are the signs that a partner is losing interest in you?

2007-03-19 15:23:29 · 19 answers · asked by colejoe79 2

So i met this guy online a few months ago and met him in person about 3 weeks ago. We have only met in person twice. He came over to my dorm the other day after he got off work and we hung out for awhile and just talked. Later that night we watched finding nemo (yeah i know ... were in college and watching finding nemo)... anyways, during the movie we were just cuddling and he had his head rested on mine and his arm around me. When the movie was over he tilted my head up and kissed me. When we were done with our little make out time he held me in his arms and kissed my forhead. Then we cuddled a little more and partially fell asleep ... i left the heat on and it got way to hot ... so i got up and turned the heat off and then we didnt cuddle for the rest of the night and on top of that i didnt get a goodbye kiss. Someone help me. What do i do? What does this all mean? Does he want a relationship? Or was he just using me? PLEASE HELP ME!!!

2007-03-19 15:23:25 · 3 answers · asked by confuzzeled88 1