I have been with my boyfriend for 10 months. I have known him for 3 years total. We moved in together 10 months ago also. He takes care of my daughter and does everything for me. I also do everything and anything for him. But he hasint told me he loves me. I also am scared to tell him. But how long does it take for someone to really have feelings for you. I m also confused my self if i really love him or just like him alot. I have been in love before and i just got out of that 5 year relationship 2 years ago and I knew I loved him. But now im confused if I will ever love again . I am also constantly trying to fight my feelings for him cause i dont want to get too attached cause I dont want to be the only one. Im just a mess I don't know what the hell im doing..lol
2007-03-19 15:31:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-03-19 15:33:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats normal. Maybe he just feels that you already know he loves you and there is no need to tell you. You said yall live together and he does everything for you... Sometimes actions speak loader than words. If you feel that you should tell him you love him for him to know then tell him and maybe he will tell you back. For him, those 3 words may be kind of scary to use. If hes been in a bad relationship before maybe hes having a hard time admitting he is in love again at the risk of getting hurt. Good luck!!
2007-03-19 15:42:49 · answer #2 · answered by CountryGirlygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, when you love someone, I guess, you can feel it inside you. When he's all you ever think of, besides your daughter, and you want him happy, and that you're willing to do anything for him, you love him. But love takes time. Just because it's been 10 mths, it doesn't mean a person is certain that they love the other person. Love is patience, and it takes time to grow.
2007-03-19 15:37:42 · answer #3 · answered by Hanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It supprises me that you moved in with someone that you may not have loved to start with and allow him to take care of your daughter, perhaps your previous relationship has confused your judgement, but you may have been in love with this person for awhile and won't admit it to yourself. I find it unusual for a women to not have been in love and moved in with him, some times when you put the horse before the cart it takes a while for things to move naturally...I am sure he care deeply and perhaps loves you but it just hasn't been spoken...if your in a healthy situation, it is what it is and the words will eventually define it...good luck.
2007-03-19 15:43:36 · answer #4 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you don't love him. Like you said, you'd know it if you did - almost right away. Basically when you are still getting to know someone is when you would fall in love. I think if I were you, I'd just end it with this guy and enjoy being single for a while. Get to know yourself and Mr Right will come along.....
2007-03-19 15:37:26 · answer #5 · answered by Kim W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Im so sorry,,,, but when you really feel the need to let him know that you love him you will know until then just enjoy the time he ay be trying to figure out if he loves you too
2007-03-19 15:34:55 · answer #6 · answered by catherine marcrum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am a believer in Love at first sight but My husband and I were in love and our friends knew it before we ever dated or confessed it to each other.
If you don't know what you are doing and you are happy and comfortable relax. everything will be OK
2007-03-19 15:38:01 · answer #7 · answered by geekgirl33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmm....There is never an early time to fall in love. It happens when you're ready. Try talking to him and get his feelings and input.
2007-03-19 15:35:00 · answer #8 · answered by Chris C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, for teenagers, they always say they are in love the first month, atleast your real
2007-03-19 15:38:50 · answer #9 · answered by Mr_wall2005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋