Singles & Dating - 13 March 2007

I'm really confused about to give 3 different guys I am interested in second chances to date me.
I dated each of them 4-5 months ago, only 1 time each. Met each via MATCH.
I only had headshots on match so I admit now that they probably thougt I was thinner before meeting me.
At the time I was in the process of losing weight & getting in great shape.
I was wearing size 12 but didnt realise HOW big I still was. When I was done my date with the third guy & he didnt seem interested one of my very honest friends told me he probably wanted a thinner girl.
I finally weighed myself and nearly fainted. Even though I had confidence & felt in good shape i was still top heavy with bigger arms/chest/back, my weight was 169 ! At 5'5 WITH A TINY FRAME. I couldnt believe it.
So I lost the weight with 90 minutes exercise sessions and now weigh a healthy but thin 112-119.
I should add that Ive been thin most of my life. Had very bad accident last year and packe don the weigt from inactivity & depression. And being small with little metabolism.
I wear a size 2 now have so much energy, love the way i look again and am constantly getting hit on all the time.
I guess a lot of men prefer thin women.
Id be a hypocrite to criticize them though.
I myself want a tall, in great shape cute guy. We like what we like and can't really change.
So I recently put up new photos of myself and the 3 guys who were interested in me before now are showing major renewed interest.
Should I GIVE THEM SECOND CHANCES ? They each have a lot going for them and since I myself am super picky I feel tempted to give at least 1 of them another try.
1 of the 3 guys has remained a good online friend and is very interested in my life.
He lives pretty far away and has nothing to gain by being my friend, so now that Im thin and appeal to him I feel like trying with him again.
The other 2 are also still friendly to me, none of them were mean or jerky. 1 of them also tells me im pretty no matter what.
And all were too polite to say they were disappointed by my former size.
Should I try again or start from scratch with all new guys ?

2007-03-13 14:04:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

if u had to describe ur boyfriend in one word ...wat would it be???

2007-03-13 14:04:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

pleasee give me some quotes

2007-03-13 14:03:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 15. I have a friend and I don't know if she likes me or is just comfortable around me. I like her btw. See, we were laying in bed today watching a movie and she didn't mind being close to me and she was kind of lieng on me a bit and had my arm around her. Would she be like that if she didn't like me?

2007-03-13 14:03:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Really how come you guys are. I don't get it.

2007-03-13 14:02:34 · 19 answers · asked by Briann M 2

i have no clue what I want to do and need ideas.....HELP???

2007-03-13 14:02:24 · 17 answers · asked by cookie 2

2007-03-13 14:01:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-13 14:01:41 · 21 answers · asked by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3

Okay, so I've never really dated anyone, I'm 16. I've been asked several times, but by guys that I really didn't like. I for one am a Christian, and some guys just didn't seem right. Am I too picky? Should I let my guard down some when it comes to certain things? Will I ever date anyone? Am I too judgmental?

2007-03-13 14:01:28 · 22 answers · asked by prettysweet!_1609 2

Try to figure this one out

2007-03-13 14:00:51 · 3 answers · asked by Vegetto216 1

ok, so theres this girl that i really like, that is in the same class as me in school that has like 6 people in it. She laughs and talks/flirts with me in the class, but outside, she pretends like were just friends...what should i do?

2007-03-13 14:00:18 · 13 answers · asked by SoccerStar 2

and i have to go to school where my crush goes and sees me everyday. We are just friends but i want to steal him from my one of my friends who is her boyfriend

2007-03-13 14:00:06 · 6 answers · asked by BabyBoo 1

I met this really nice guy online and after quite a while of talking we finally met. Everything was fine and very romantic. Now he sends me a message asking me if I have any second thoughts, that has been on his mind. There are some things troubling him, and he is just totally overwhelmed. I really have no clue how I should interpret his message. I am confused.

2007-03-13 13:59:50 · 1 answers · asked by Shaylee 1

and i really need it b/c i need to know how to tlk to him with out him noing i like him

2007-03-13 13:59:45 · 1 answers · asked by Sheyenne A 1

i know this guy from basketball i see him at the weekend hesalways joking around and tlkin abouings to do wiv his lower end and i fink he tried to kiss me he was lookin at me smiling the ova weekend we wer sat down and he told me have a nice figure. wen were alone he sweet and his always smiling wen were wiv peepz he will tlk about other things but will b sure im the convo but i will always see him lookin at me do you think he dus like me

2007-03-13 13:59:03 · 5 answers · asked by Skittle 1

She hits me every time i see her and if i fight back she sprays me with pepper spray. Why does she do this??

2007-03-13 13:58:52 · 13 answers · asked by CaptainGuevara 2

well recently i came across a gal's profile on facebox(its been more than one month tho)n i really fell 4 her n i cudnt stop finking bout her till now!!!i knw its funny 2 hav feelings 4 sme1 u hardly knw but i do wana be wiv her n care 4 her...da fing is dat she dnt believe me n she finks am jus flirting...she even insulted me sooo much but i dunno y i cnt get ova her...well i neva met her or waeva but i jus saw her on facebox ...wat do u reckon me loverzzz???lemme hear from u lovvvvvvv peepz xx

2007-03-13 13:58:50 · 16 answers · asked by masive_attack92 1

She hits me every time i see her and if i fight back she sprays me with pepper sprey. Why does she do this??

2007-03-13 13:58:18 · 38 answers · asked by CaptainGuevara 2

2007-03-13 13:58:12 · 10 answers · asked by coolthemario 1

2007-03-13 13:57:45 · 2 answers · asked by Melissa H 2

One of my Best Girl Friends, fancys my friend whos a guy, who fancies me, but i fancy somebody else... who dosn't like me back, and my OTHER best friend likes him too! I know mates are better than boys, but it's getting on my nerves!

2007-03-13 13:57:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

will going out w/ someone you have a small crush on help you get over your ex?

2007-03-13 13:57:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

well....

2007-03-13 13:56:42 · 31 answers · asked by hersheybar99 1

What do you like to do after having sex? Do you just go to sleep, eat, whatever???

2007-03-13 13:55:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

We were seeing each other 3 or 4 months. We would get together, watch movies at his house, kiss for hours, have s e x, etc. He always wanted me to sleep over and would practically cling to me when I had to leave. He even drove hours to come to my house and would sleep over and cuddle all night and hang out the next day. He even broke plans with his friends to be with me. And when we were apart we would email back and forth a lot.

He said he was really enjoying it and he enjoyed my company and liked me and I really turned him on etc. Then when I wanted him to be my boyfriend he said no because we live too far apart and don't have enough in common. And he said there was another girl he was interested in.

So I'm confused. Did he like me or not??? His actions tell me he really really liked me, yet he was interested in someone else??? This doesn't make sense to me! Please help me understand this!!!!!

2007-03-13 13:55:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay yeah so this is sarie's best friend talking nd I think she IS obsessed with HP b/c she reads fan fictions that she knows arent gonna come true and if someone makes a bad comments or pronounces something wrong she yells..."your're a disgrace to the wizarding world" yeah its kinda crazy and she goes wayyyy over just liking Harry Potter man its crazy shes insane..shes always talking about it and she even has a book on what teh theories are as to what the seventh book is about! its crazyyy! haha yeah well wht do u think?

2007-03-13 13:54:55 · 11 answers · asked by Sarie 1

i mean...i am not ugly ( people have said that i could be a model), smart, and i have a personality and friends....

is there something wrong with me?

i have never had a boyfriend...i dont even remember if a guy has ever hit on me...

i just feel empty and sad...that maybe i am not accepted for who i am

could anyone guide me. please be truthful...i can handle it

2007-03-13 13:54:23 · 5 answers · asked by sexydivapopcorn 1

we're both in 8th grade now.i went out with this guy when we were both in 5th grade(his parents didn't like me and my parents didn't like him)and i broke up with him. we didn't go to the same middle school, so we didn't see each other for like 3years.now i see him everyday cuz we play sports at the same school.he called my dad and got my cell phone number.he called me and we talked for like an hour.he told me he never got over me from 5th grade.well at the time i had a boyfriend and now i don't.i think i like him and i've called and left voicemessages but he hasn't called me back cuz his phone is always off.so the big question is, should i go back out w/him???and if not, what should i do???thx for the help

2007-03-13 13:53:33 · 12 answers · asked by rock chic3 2

bi, wut would u say??
and if she cheated on u with a girl would u consider it cheating or would u be like "w/e thats hot"??

2007-03-13 13:53:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

theres this guy and i lik him and he knows i lik him. at a dance he asked me to dance cuz one of my friend asked him to. and while we were dancing he seemed really happy and ....lik... u know... lik he acted as if he wasn't being forced. lik he laughed and smiled.but after the dance lik when we were at skool he wouldn't smile or lik do anything. he just acted lik nothin happened. he is a shy guy so i thoiught i need to go up to him and make the first move if i wanna get anywhere wih this. the only problem is tat i have absolutly NO idea wat to say or how to act or wat to do when i tlkto him. lik i know nothing.pleez i need advice on EVERYTHING bout how to tlk to guys

2007-03-13 13:53:27 · 7 answers · asked by hollerbaby 1