theres this guy and i lik him and he knows i lik him. at a dance he asked me to dance cuz one of my friend asked him to. and while we were dancing he seemed really happy and ....lik... u know... lik he acted as if he wasn't being forced. lik he laughed and smiled.but after the dance lik when we were at skool he wouldn't smile or lik do anything. he just acted lik nothin happened. he is a shy guy so i thoiught i need to go up to him and make the first move if i wanna get anywhere wih this. the only problem is tat i have absolutly NO idea wat to say or how to act or wat to do when i tlkto him. lik i know nothing.pleez i need advice on EVERYTHING bout how to tlk to guys
2007-03-13 13:53:27 · 7 answers · asked by hollerbaby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he probably doesnt like you.. cuz usually people just dance with other people.. its not like anything crazy.. like he all of a sudden likes you.. ya know.. maybe?? i dont know your situation.
2007-03-13 14:02:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be very friendly and subtle, say you had fun at the dance and that you two should do something again sometime and suggest (if he agrees on the spot) that he call you and plan something out.
IF he calls you back then hes interested and just a bit shy
IF he doesn't then I'm sorry sweetie, he was just going with you to the dance, so you shouldn't start planning out your two's marriage
2007-03-13 14:02:45 · answer #2 · answered by Ammie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont make the first move...that just puts the whole relationship in a skewerd position. plus guys appreciate a girl who lets them make the first move....cuz afterall, guys at the core=pursuers
u can- however- begin w/ a friendship, cuz thats the first step in making a lasting relationship
find stuff u have in common, and maybe try flirting w/ him...just a little bit, to let him know ur interested
2007-03-13 14:04:54 · answer #3 · answered by ~002~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow!!! you sure so like the word like. Anyway. what did you two talk about when you danced. That would be a great start. The rest will just happen from there
2007-03-13 13:58:03 · answer #4 · answered by btjuana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay first, stop using the word lik so much, and if you must use it spell it right-likE!
Now, i wouldnt really pursue a relationship like this. If he doesnt like you now, why would he change his mind later? And if he were to change his mind, it'll probly only be bacos you changed your image....you need to be with a guy who likes you for who you are.....
2007-03-13 13:57:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he is going to be a jerk and not act the same what is the point of going out with him! think bout it!
2007-03-13 13:58:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
play hard to get...
if no response find someone else
2007-03-13 13:57:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋