Singles & Dating - 3 March 2007

Is she a lesbian ???????????

2007-03-03 15:18:29 · 14 answers · asked by its_whatever11 3

my friend and i hookedup once and i said somthing about it being a booty call, and he said no it wasn't and it ws a mistake and then we got back to normal...even though i didn't appreciate that dismissiveness about it.
and then it happened again, and this time he says he never meant for it to happen and he'd take it back if he could.
This hurts because it was enjoyable and i personally would not say something enjoyable is somthing i'd undo. I did tell him that i was staring to fall for him, and that's when he got all defensive. I wanted to discuss it maturely and he just closed up and would not tell me anything! he completely closed upand im rambling on like an idiot and he is mum's the word. he keeps saying "i dont know what you want to hear" or "i dont know what to tell u" and clearly states that he does not like me "that way" and doesn't want a relationshp. I said i understand that. is he a pussy? why cant he just say it was nice? why cant he be more tactful about it?

2007-03-03 15:17:59 · 1 answers · asked by Tammy L 1

I like this guy at church and i dont know how to show him that i like him. we talk but not a lot he says by to me and i say by back. he is 15 or 16 i am 13 but people say i am 14 or 15. i love ever thing about him
he is all i think about at night.i have a good relationship with him mom and dad. i will see him tomarow.i dont what to tell him how i feel cuz i am scared it will ruin the friendship and i have only known him for 4-5 months or so.

HELP what can i do to show him that i like him!!!!!!!!!!

2007-03-03 15:17:27 · 14 answers · asked by Home_Schooled_Girl 1

what makes a girl a "lady" or "ladylike"? how to be?
good manners, social class, manner of walking, talking, etc.. what gives? guys, are you attracted to a girl that is this way?

2007-03-03 15:17:10 · 7 answers · asked by wish4jellybeans 3

I'm saying just a boyfriend. I know you can't REALLY go out with someone until your 16 because you can't drive, but I would just like to know your opinion.

2007-03-03 15:17:02 · 5 answers · asked by IloveJesus 2

So I'm stressed out about a paper's due date--because its due Friday, and I wish aloud its due Mon. I'm so stressed out and miserable/sad. The prof already gave an extension and was pretty strict. So guy says he might e-mail the prof to clarify this. 1/2 hour later, we bump into each other in the library, he says hi to me and smiles. 2 hrs later in the writing class, the prof reluctantly announces the latest possible due date is Monday, and not Friday.
Guy is outgoing, tho slightly teacher's pet, but sweet nonetheless. We have two classes together and he always finds a way to sit next to me. He doesn't do facebook. My sister says he was trying to show off, but I'm not sure. Your thoughts?

2007-03-03 15:16:13 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

REPOSTED FOR MORE ANSWERS. BEST ANSWER GETS BIG POINTS. SERIOUS ANSWERS PLEASE!

Basically, I've been corresponding by e-mail with this girl that I am very interested in getting to know more for about a week now. The e-mails between us both are very positive, and she's said that she finds me attractive too, but when I offered to take things to the next level, by possibly her giving me her number, or me giving mine to her, she said that she'd rather just take things slow, no rush.

My problem is that I don't see why we couldn't take it to that next level? Should i just move on because her head isn't where mine is obviously, I mean, what's the big problem with giving a dude your digits or vice versa and talking to him on the cell, if you like him? Right? What should I do?

2007-03-03 15:16:02 · 9 answers · asked by Jeff C 3

Well im 11 years old and this guy at school keeps asking me out how do i get him to stop ???


Please Help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-03-03 15:14:54 · 15 answers · asked by A C 1

My g/f as been going through a very rough time lately with drug withdrawals and sleeping problems. It sas been very difficult for her. Since all I can do is basically let her overcome this by herself, I thought I'd do something for her to bring a smile to her face through these hard times. Won't be able to see her so something I can do to send her through text or email etc? I don't wanna fuss over her, just want to make her a little something that says I'm thinking of her and how much I care and love her. Any ideas? Thanks

2007-03-03 15:14:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

i know i cant get over him.....i love him..............can you cheer me up?

2007-03-03 15:14:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Any of you out there are fed up with guys/girls and relationships?

2007-03-03 15:14:11 · 2 answers · asked by enjoy life, u only get one try. 2

..this guy at work is annoying, like whenever my shift is over he always says "ur leaving already, man ur lucky". like i get off work at the same time everyday so obviously im leaving. and he knows that. like the first time he said it was okay but now he says it all the time. why? and he constantly stares at me. one time he purposely stopped and stared at me from a distance to see if i would stare back. like whats up with him

2007-03-03 15:11:53 · 8 answers · asked by chanoah_7 1

im am 18 years old, almost 19. ive never really dated to much. so ive fallen in love with this older man, he is 20 years older than me. anyways we have been dating for a while but i have never told my family. i finaly told my mom the other day and she said i need to talk to my father who is strict even tho he was a rebal in his day. i want to be my own person and be an individual but i feel that my family wont let me. i want to tell my parents about my boyfriend but im worried. so my Q is: how do i, at 18, tell my parents i want to date people. what Q's should i expect? can the ban me from dating at this age and if they do what should i do? can i be grounded? please help me!

2007-03-03 15:11:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend is 14 and is a bit more hairy then other guys his age. He already started shaveing so He doesn't have any facial hair. However his arm hair is pretty noticble. Do you think him being hairy will prevent him from getting a girlfriend?

2007-03-03 15:11:16 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am not beautiful or ugly...but average looking.


but the worst part is i have no personality when i am around other people....i jsut smile nod, and agree with whatever they say and move on. that's it ! seriously......i am a BORE HOLE!!

how do i fix this?? what do i do?? it is harder than you may think...

2007-03-03 15:09:37 · 13 answers · asked by ya ok....sure 2

my boyfriend for 1 1/2 yrs, & things use to be fine I thought, but there has always been problems, like no serious communication, but I would just brush it aside. Well, now I believe Im falling in love w/ someone else. It was kind of like a wake up call. And it's not about the other person and I, but how I must not be in love with my boyfriend if I have feelings for someone else. I also have lost all sexual attraction for him. There's times where I wish I could just end it, but hes a good guy and has done nothing wrong to me & I do care & dont want to hurt him & plus Im a coward when it comes to confrontation. Ive been acting more distant, & he has noticed, & gets mad, & then like i said, no communication happens, like tonight he stopped talkin, got ready, & left to his friends (which he never does), & now Im having second thoughts. Im scared that Im making a mistake. We've built our lives togethers for awhile now and things have worked, I'd be throwing away everything, any advice?

2007-03-03 15:07:55 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

when im home, my parents are all over each other and at school all I see is couples & people making out. I get so jealous :( what should i do ?

2007-03-03 15:06:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-03 15:05:52 · 5 answers · asked by The Inquirer 1

I'm a guy in late 20s, and go out on dates every once in a few weeks. I'm wondering, what do women expect on a first date? There are times when I feel I have a good time with the girl and others when I get the feeling during the date that the girl is getting bored, and distracted after some time ... my question is, what do girls expect during the first date? Does the guy have to be ON all the time -- in terms of conversation, charm, etc.? Is the guy allowed to make any mistakes at all -- i.e., if I'm charming for half the date and not so much for the rest of the date, how do girls take that? Also, isn't a date a two-way street -- shouldn't the girl have some responsibility to make the date enjoyable for both as well?

I'd love to hear the opinion of girls on this. Also, do girls expect a guy to call for a second date? Third date? When do girls start initiating dates? I've had mixed experiences with different girls, so just wondering if there are any "rules" of thumb I should know...

2007-03-03 15:05:26 · 1 answers · asked by riddler 1

Thats probably the 100 time I ask this question :). But thats because I know I am looking for an answer that I still can't find.
SO...give me that answer pleaseeeee :)

2007-03-03 15:05:17 · 18 answers · asked by Bobi G 1

When he first met mee, [ barely even knew me ] he was at my house chillin wit my brother and when my brother fell asleep he tried to jump right to 3rd base with me and ran his hand on my inner thigh and I pushed him away. But when we were going out, for 4 years we never even made out!!! We just did pecks and I always had to kiss him, he never kissed me. Why did he do that?

2007-03-03 15:04:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok. heres my situation. me and this guy have been working together for a year, and during the past couple months we have been getting really friendly. like hanging out , texting, and phone calls. well the problem is he has a girlfriend for a long time. but he says it doesnt seem they like each other anymore, and hes not attracted to her anymore. well we both have told each other that we like each other a lot. so i think he wants to break up with his girl for me? but what if we dont work out? should he break up with his girlfriend for me? would it be worth it?

2007-03-03 15:04:08 · 9 answers · asked by lalalalove 2

he is always really mean to me and nice to every one else. I hate it and is nice to other people as if he likes to rub it in my face that he is nice to every one else.why? I have never done anything to me. whats wrong w/ me?

2007-03-03 15:03:53 · 6 answers · asked by m 1

to not be walked on or taken advantage of or taken for granted

2007-03-03 15:03:43 · 4 answers · asked by smurf 1

2007-03-03 15:03:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-03 15:02:41 · 7 answers · asked by starla 1

What is the most "painless" way to get over shyness..I am a veryyy shy person, and I like this girl, but I am too shy to say anything...But, when I am with my friends, or with our team, I always have so much fun, and i can say anything that I want, with no problem...also, I am the mascot for our team, and I have no problem taking pics, and videos, and hugging random people, and just yelling non-sense @ the top of my lungs....is this normal to be shy, and not ...and why is it only around girls that I am shy???.....help

2007-03-03 15:01:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just broke up with my bf after being with him for about a year and five months. This was my first real relationship. He is not good for me and i know this, but i cant help but feel guilty. I have this bad feeling in my stomach. I just want to know the best way other people have delt with there break ups?

2007-03-03 15:01:27 · 3 answers · asked by vet/tech/turned/nurse 2

My relationship with a man has gone on for 5 yrs and its pretty obvious he is not going to comit here. He wants to call me 3-4 times a nite and wants to know where I am and what I am doing. He works all of the time, and calls me from work and believes I should spend my time off with him, but like I said, he isnt going to commit. He is still hung up on his ex wife who re married 5 yrs ago. He asked me to marry him 4 yrs ago, and when she found out, she cried and asked him how he could do such a thing without the kids knowing 1st and since then he totally closed off any future plans with me. No marriage no nothing here. I have heard every detail of their marriage problems. He is not over it.
Now I think I am ready to start with someone new. I have been dieting and actually have a very good job. I cannot seem to cut the rope here. He and I have been together at every single major event in my life. How do I start over?

2007-03-03 15:00:13 · 3 answers · asked by happydawg 6

i m going to a gym, working out obviously, ok a girl that works there attractive too, and much yonger than i. come to find out like 17 yrs, yonger. seemed interested in me, follows me around the gym a bit, went out of her way to talk to me a lot, and even told me i should dance nude ha. u know professionaly, imean im 45 shes 27, she is hot really, but whats up with that? ne 1 know?

2007-03-03 14:57:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous