What is the most "painless" way to get over shyness..I am a veryyy shy person, and I like this girl, but I am too shy to say anything...But, when I am with my friends, or with our team, I always have so much fun, and i can say anything that I want, with no problem...also, I am the mascot for our team, and I have no problem taking pics, and videos, and hugging random people, and just yelling non-sense @ the top of my lungs....is this normal to be shy, and not ...and why is it only around girls that I am shy???.....help
2007-03-03 15:01:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because they are the opposite sex. Of course I do get shy around guys too. But if you really like this girl, what you must do is give her hints like be somewhere around her all the time well perhaps not all the time but make her notice you. Then after few notices, you try to smile at her or something. She would certainly smile back for sure I gurantee you! If not then she might be a shy person too..
2007-03-03 15:06:48 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Butt3rfLyKis5ez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only shy around girls because you are afraid they will reject you. Just think about it this way, if you ask a girl out the worst thing she is going to say is no. Start by just being friends with some girls.
2007-03-03 23:05:59 · answer #2 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay man, you just have to muster up the courage to tell this young lady that you like her. And afterwards, you'll feel much better, even if the answer isn't the one you'd hoped for. From one shy guy to another. Hope this helps.
2007-03-03 23:05:19 · answer #3 · answered by pericles_attack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls man, girls, try and...hmmm... hmm, try... oh just try and pretends shes a friend, don't hell and stuff, but just take a really big *** deep breath, and at least say hi, or acadently bump in to her walking backwords and say hi or something and mabye get the kerage to start a conversation
2007-03-03 23:06:15 · answer #4 · answered by McRichy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will take awhile but soon(if you like her enough) then slowly do crazy things that she likes around her
or get close to her and become her friend (a girl likes when she has guy friends) then come closer to her
it works
2007-03-03 23:06:15 · answer #5 · answered by Killacam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a girl and REALLY shy arouns guys so i just wait for them to make a move but oddly, it hasnt happened yet
2007-03-03 23:05:54 · answer #6 · answered by monkeyfarts6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i see it in two ways
you're insecure- so you put your shyness in denial and act actively in hopes that girls will have a second thought about you
you're insecure with girls.
2007-03-03 23:05:27 · answer #7 · answered by joey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go for it does she ever talk to you i would just say hey and try to start a convo
2007-03-03 23:06:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋