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I like this guy at church and i dont know how to show him that i like him. we talk but not a lot he says by to me and i say by back. he is 15 or 16 i am 13 but people say i am 14 or 15. i love ever thing about him
he is all i think about at night.i have a good relationship with him mom and dad. i will see him tomarow.i dont what to tell him how i feel cuz i am scared it will ruin the friendship and i have only known him for 4-5 months or so.

HELP what can i do to show him that i like him!!!!!!!!!!

2007-03-03 15:17:27 · 14 answers · asked by Home_Schooled_Girl 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

14 answers

Be good friends with him 1st.. Try to talk more.. Like what are his hobbies...which school he goes to...

2007-03-03 15:20:25 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Butt3rfLyKis5ez 3 · 0 0

Well I can say that I understand how you feel, I was that way over about 4 or 5 different guys at once when I was 13! At least you managed to settle on one! :P
Anyway, as for telling him you like him - my method was pretty much just telling them that I liked them, outright (well, more so on instant messenger, I wasn't quite brave enough otherwise). It didn't really mess up my friendship because most of them were flattered to know that I felt that way, even if they didn't feel the same back. They were all super nice, so they didn't make fun of me about it or anything so it wasn't embarrassing or anything. Bottom line is, I think you should just tell him (while having a conversation, not just out of the blue), and if he turns out to be a jerk and DOES make you feel embarrassed and is rude, then he wasn't worth it to begin with and you can find better :)

2007-03-03 23:23:29 · answer #2 · answered by rivendellrose2005 4 · 0 0

First of all pntyrmvr2, your answer was unnessesary. This is a place for answers not foolishness!
Just find out more about him. (e.x what he likes, what he like to do, his attitude toward people etc.) And start acting like you are him in a way to show that yall have things in common.
Also ask him plenty of questions. But don't get annoying. Mostly ask him about his love life(but not in a freaky way).
And most of all ask if he has a girlfriend---because if you dont, its wrong for you to ask to be his.

Hoped I helped!

2007-03-03 23:31:32 · answer #3 · answered by !l0L! .. XD. ♥ 1 · 0 0

the last thing you want to do is come right out and tell him. a girl did that for me and things were really weird after that. just be very flirty and spend as much time around him as possible and if he likes you he'll notice. GOOD LUCK!

2007-03-03 23:25:02 · answer #4 · answered by robert h 1 · 0 0

you know if you love someone fight for him/her until the end..that you show how your love to that person..i also believe that the guys make start to do a step to court a girl..but before you love tha t person know him first whether his/her attention is good or bad..so you can avoid regrets..in addition try to put your self as anyone compare your goals and your status..

2007-03-03 23:27:04 · answer #5 · answered by efren v 1 · 0 0

You could be real nice to him by disappearing from his life. Just be realistic and accept that no guy wants a semi-literate moron messing up his existence.

2007-03-03 23:23:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

flirt with him
be nice, smile every time he looks at you
feel comfortable near him
treat him like a good friend
do things like moving his hair and telling him it wasnt well arranged
me as a man and as a 14 year old teenager i tell you to be yourself, smile, be happy

2007-03-03 23:22:04 · answer #7 · answered by rodrigo_deluna_l 3 · 0 0

let me tell you how i got my first boyfriend
i was surfing with his family and him
and after his family left i went up to him and said. listen nathan, do you like me or not? i really like you, and please just tell me how you feel

and he actully liked me a lot. but the major thing was. he was very impressed with my confidence...just if you do what i did...dont sound like a bi*ch. or mean or anything just ask him calmly

2007-03-03 23:21:01 · answer #8 · answered by i surf im hot 2 · 0 0

offer to hang out with him, movies, mall, mcdonalds. alone or with friends, bump into him or write him notes.

2007-03-03 23:22:52 · answer #9 · answered by that musican 2 · 0 0

mmm well wouldnt iit b ok to tell him straight out?

2007-03-03 23:20:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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