i am not beautiful or ugly...but average looking.
but the worst part is i have no personality when i am around other people....i jsut smile nod, and agree with whatever they say and move on. that's it ! seriously......i am a BORE HOLE!!
how do i fix this?? what do i do?? it is harder than you may think...
2007-03-03 15:09:37 · 13 answers · asked by ya ok....sure 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Here is the trick to un-bury yourself from the bore hole.
Find something you are passionate about, any subject: photography, gardening, cooking, sports, decorating, music, dancing, working out, nutrition, fitness, anti-aging recipes etc.. etc...
Go and study in depth this subject, for example by researching it in the net.
Then you will mesmerize the guys with both your passion and with your knowledge. Even those who don't have the same interests respect and listen when someone else speaks with knowledge about something (those who don't you can discard because they can be classified as fools, and those you can leave without).
Go for it girl. Before you know you will be the queen of the party! Smart guys love a girl with a passion for something. The fools, you just leave behind in the dust.
2007-03-03 15:19:57 · answer #1 · answered by Roberto B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your probably thinking what if you make a fool of yourself am i correct? start off slow start talking and soon enough you will feel more normal around people. i used to be the same way up until 7th grade and then i got my act together and was like m tired of being shy and i cracked out of my shell and before i knoe it i was talking up a storm. try to look at yourself posativly love yourself the way you are try to enjoy life and you might be able to find your own anwser to your question
2007-03-03 23:18:24 · answer #2 · answered by Grace W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something for yourself. Get a manicure, get your hair done, tings of that nature. Get dressed and go out by YOURSELF. It's nothing more attractive to a man to see a woman strong enough to come out by herself. Don't get drunk or anything like that cause remember u r by yourself.
2007-03-03 23:14:38 · answer #3 · answered by Mizz Peni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the heck is a "BORE HOLE" lol
anyway, I am sure there is someone out there that is madly in love with you. you just dont know it yet. in the meantime be yourself and try to be more optomistic about the whole situation. i am sure that youll find someone, or they will find you :)
2007-03-03 23:14:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself...what things do you like to do? What are you about? Talk about that! You don't have to agree with what everyone is saying, you can find something to argue about. They like girls who can do so!
2007-03-03 23:14:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was just like you very kept to yourself!!!! but then people started to wlak all over me and it pissed me off so I let my true personallity shine through!!! But be true to yourself and the right guy will come around!!!
2007-03-03 23:20:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok now this my be difficult to do but start to talk more bcz the more u talk to more ppl like u trust me i talk all the time to new ppl. u know wat dont worry about stupid guys stick w/ ur girlfriends they r who u need the most trust me all a guy will do is wrip ur heart out
2007-03-03 23:15:14 · answer #7 · answered by I luv Lindsey kaemmerer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself that's what life is all about and if they don't like you for who you are then oh well their lose
2007-03-03 23:15:07 · answer #8 · answered by deliverance380 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol avg looks with no personality is a pretty awful combination
i really dont know hwo to help
2007-03-03 23:18:40 · answer #9 · answered by joey 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
let loose a bit.....stop worrying about what people might think of you ...people like to be around other people who dont care about what other people think of them
2007-03-03 23:17:01 · answer #10 · answered by elisabeth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋