ok. heres my situation. me and this guy have been working together for a year, and during the past couple months we have been getting really friendly. like hanging out , texting, and phone calls. well the problem is he has a girlfriend for a long time. but he says it doesnt seem they like each other anymore, and hes not attracted to her anymore. well we both have told each other that we like each other a lot. so i think he wants to break up with his girl for me? but what if we dont work out? should he break up with his girlfriend for me? would it be worth it?
2007-03-03 15:04:08 · 9 answers · asked by lalalalove 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's his decision. Not yours. let him choose. If he decides to break up with his current girlfriend, then great. If not, then oh well. Let him break up with her or not, and whatever the outcome is is supposed to be the way it is. You can't make him break up with her.
2007-03-03 15:08:25 · answer #1 · answered by Traveler 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's impossible for you to know what will happen with you guys if you do get together. He probably found you more interesting and became increasingly unattracted to his girlfriend. You always want what you don't have, you know? Anyways, if you guys have mutual feelings for each other, and his relationship is dissolving, I say go for it. Good luck.
2007-03-03 15:09:27 · answer #2 · answered by pericles_attack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First ask yourself do u love him and is it worth it? Then if u think it is and he is willing to give up his gf 4 u than thats good because he must not really like his gf! Also it would'nt b your fault all u want is love right?
2007-03-03 15:09:16 · answer #3 · answered by Nikki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Patience is the best medicine. Just wait for him to fall and then catch him. It casts you in a much better light and will strengthen your bond. being the safety net is better than being the person falling.
2007-03-03 15:10:13 · answer #4 · answered by zelgadiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay umm if someone was going out with you and broke up with u for someone else i think you mite feel somewhat betrayed... and another thing... if he can leave someone that he has been going out with for a long time just like that then he can do the same to u.... i dont think u should, but i guess it is up to him.... think about it.. if he didnt like her for the year they have been going out then he would have broken up with her already... i mean seriously they are going out for a year... good luck
2007-03-03 15:16:19 · answer #5 · answered by Kimberly R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it's more of his decision than yours.
2007-03-03 15:07:45 · answer #6 · answered by kins80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just know that if he leaves his girlfriend for you, he'll leave you for another.
2007-03-03 15:07:30 · answer #7 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's sure he doesn't love her anymore than go for it baby!
2007-03-03 15:07:17 · answer #8 · answered by anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No risk, no reward.
2007-03-03 15:08:08 · answer #9 · answered by nostromobb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋