Singles & Dating - 27 February 2007

Okay I have a strange situation. I met my boyfriend 7 months ago, and since then we started living together right away and we love it. The second week of us dating he told me that he had a one night stand (before I knew him) with a woman, and she has let him know that she is pregnant. He has no feelings for her it was a one time thing at a party. He does however intend to be a good father and she lives about two hours away. He intends on seeing the baby often, and I do support that. He doesn’t lie to me, however scared, I have never been in this situation before. I guess like any other woman I feel scared that he will leave me for this other woman, I feel scared that I may not be welcome, I feel scared that I will loose him, and I'm scared that I'm being selfish. I am always supportive and I really do want what is best for the baby. She will have this baby any day now and as selfish as this sounds I'm scared how this will impact our relationship. I'm scared to be in the way I guess. Please Please give me some advice.

2007-02-27 10:44:17 · 16 answers · asked by Lenka 3

i live in cali, and the only girls that i have come across are the ones that want to wait a lifetime to have sex. Is there such thing as a girl that lets loose, and opens up quick, with out a care in the world......or are they all into the whole, "i want to fall in love".....
basically, are there girls out there that are willing to just have sex buddies?

2007-02-27 10:43:46 · 3 answers · asked by slick_gti 1

2007-02-27 10:42:54 · 3 answers · asked by adam h 1

there is a guy in some of my classes, everyone says he likes me but everytime i try to talk to him to see if its true, he'll change the subject or find a way out of talkin about it. but while im im a class we dont have together, his friends give me notes, and gifts and stuff from him. im pretty sure i dont like him, but i want to know why he doesnt want to talk to me!

2007-02-27 10:42:08 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

My bf went and tried to hook up with his ex.gf.I dont get it why would he go looking as in driving around her block for her at 7 a.m.?He works nights and drives through that area sometimes on his way home but would'nt he be tiered?.Six months ago i forced him to severe all contact and he did till 2 days ago?She called him back and said she changed her mind and they had sex!I am so upset i practically live with him and use his phone more than he does how could this happen ? Can he still have feelings after all this time?

2007-02-27 10:41:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

But when I try to talk to him I get all choked up and end up a mess

2007-02-27 10:41:27 · 17 answers · asked by wilo_chick 4

When and Where should it happen? I don't know what to do after a regular kiss. Should I French after, then makeout?

2007-02-27 10:41:13 · 18 answers · asked by Fumbelina 1

I've been on and off with this guy for 2 years and he cheated on me a couple of times and I still love him. He said that he loved me and he wants my forgiveness and we had sex last night.

2007-02-27 10:40:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've started a 1 day per week lecturing/tutoring job at a local college. Some of the girls on the course are real stunners and flirt with me a lot. I know it's illegal for teachers to have affairs with pupils at schools, but what about college lecturers. The girls are all 18-21. It would be very easy to invite them round to my place for some extra tuition etc.

2007-02-27 10:39:26 · 24 answers · asked by superscorer2003 2

2007-02-27 10:38:43 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

There's a boy at my school who I've known forever but I'm newly friends with and it's obvious he's crazy about me. I'm not at all interested in him like that. It's hard becuse I'm nice to him and I think it comes off as I'm flirting with him. He's really touchey and stuff so he always puts his hands on my shoulders. I can tell everyone knows he likes me, including his family :( I can tell he's going to ask me out soon and I don't no what to do!

2007-02-27 10:38:18 · 3 answers · asked by thatonegirl 2

Whenever a girl comes to me, it is often for help with homework, a lab report, etc. How can show that I don't just want to be someone who is used and then not appreciated?

2007-02-27 10:38:14 · 7 answers · asked by ask.joseph 2

im 16 and am 5ft 8in do you think that is to tall or short.

2007-02-27 10:37:58 · 11 answers · asked by Grace W 4

Well so basically this is my life story.

I start to really like a boy I meet. He finds out or I tell him, but " he doesn't have those feelings for me " . I get upset and kinda forget about him and give up hope.

One month later I have found another boy i like. Meanwhile my previous crush realizes he does like me. He starts flirting with me and such.

Yet i have no feelings left for him. I start feeling bad cuz i feel pity for him.

Am i the only one that this happens too? I feel like everytime i like a boy the same thing happens.

Well thanks
xoxo

2007-02-27 10:37:40 · 6 answers · asked by cutie.pie_xo 3

im 4"10 & have been turnd down because of my height told im to short ... others loved my height saying that "im the perfect height" what do you think to short or not?

2007-02-27 10:37:03 · 6 answers · asked by lilash 2

I know this question is lame and that I personally think not but it would be nice to get other perspectives. I have been talking to this guy for about four months on the phone. We have only met twice and I asked him if he wanted a relatinship or not. He told me yes but he has to have physical. I am a 20 yr old virgin but I think he does not want a relationship just sex. He told me that he can't talk to me because I turn him on. I told him in the beginning that he was expected sex he would be disappointed. However, when we first met I could not help strongly flirting with him. I stared into his eyes alot and when he rubbed my hand I did not object. He held his hand out for me to touch so I began running my fingers up and down his hand. I did not intend to behave the way I did. I felt comfortable around him. I feel bad because I must have sent mixed signals. I feel like an idiot to believe I turn him on too much but he did go to an all boys school from 7-12, then to an all men's college.

2007-02-27 10:36:59 · 2 answers · asked by aisha r 1

There's a boy at my school who I've known forever but I'm newly friends with and it's obvious he's crazy about me. It's hard becuse I'm nice to him and I think it comes off as I'm flirting with him. He's really touchey and stuff so he always puts his hands on my shoulders. I can tell everyone knows he likes me, including his family :( I can tell he's going to ask me out soon and I don't no what to do!

2007-02-27 10:36:41 · 1 answers · asked by thatonegirl 2

I've been single for 3 years. and i hate it, i feel like i'm not good enough to get someone. everytime i meet a guy i like they like someone else. and they go after that other person. what's a good way to be able to accept that im going to be single for awhile? thanx in advance

2007-02-27 10:36:01 · 7 answers · asked by ashie 1

really need to know now

2007-02-27 10:34:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

feel in the spot lol.

2007-02-27 10:34:50 · 7 answers · asked by ҉Single Chick~a~Dee҉ 2

For the past two years i have talked to this guy. he has become a good friend and even though he moved out of state last year we still talk everyday. A few months back he told me that he was inlove with me but i didnt say it back. which he said was fine. He is always talking about how much he cares about me and how i am everything he could ever hope for. he said he would even move back here if i would just be his girlfriend..he has pretty much stopped dating because he says he can only think of me.
i like him i do. but the thing is in my life right now im not ready for a relationship. i go to two different colleges and i have a full time job. i really want to work on my career. He is also 5 years older than me.
So i guess my question is. should i stop talking to him so be can maybe find someone? i want him to be happy.
But what do i do?

2007-02-27 10:34:23 · 2 answers · asked by Atllas 3

First off I think I'm crazy but heres my story.. i'm 14 and i was shopping and I saw this girl and she saw me and we kept looking at each other and she must of liked me beacuse she turned back around to get one more look. Heres the problem. I don't know her and I don't live where she would probably live... Its been 2 months since that day and everytime i see another girl i think of that one girl... What should i do?

2007-02-27 10:34:09 · 10 answers · asked by guy 1

in this world us girls sometimes are left to feel like we are dirty... men think that sleeping with guys should not be of any enjoyment for us, only for themself, if a guy sleeps with lots of girls and has a good time.. he is the man...but if a girl dare to try it (as we too need fun) ....she is branded some horrible names..so anyone with any answers or thoughts on this please let me now

2007-02-27 10:33:57 · 29 answers · asked by man_eata1 1

2007-02-27 10:33:21 · 6 answers · asked by soulja boy 1

cuz i was a bit envy cuz she trys to get me jelous and now she wants me to go out with that girl and her go out with a nother guy and we still like each other i think i hurt her felings help plz

2007-02-27 10:32:47 · 3 answers · asked by LIL Mike 1

So there is this girls, my friend always invites them to the club with us and I have danced with one of them about 2 times. I really like her but I can't seem to talk to her. I'm kind of a geek and I am very shy so I have never asked a girl out. I don't know what to do or say to let her know I'm interested or that I would like her number. She doesn't have a bf and we are both 21...help!!!!

2007-02-27 10:31:09 · 11 answers · asked by Gus 2

2007-02-27 10:29:27 · 15 answers · asked by **??** 2

2007-02-27 10:28:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-27 10:27:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was dared to go out with this guy whos really popular and liked me alot( i knew this cause his friend blabbed it to me) and i knew he was gonna ask me any day now togo out with him but heres was the thang i didnt like him (i admit i thought he was adorble) so a couple days later he asked me out. of course i said yes(oh and part of the dare was to do whatever he wanted me to) and in a couple hours the word was spread and iwas imedianly more popular. couple days latr we were eating lunch and he told me to meet him behind the old school buildings.so i did and he was there waiting 4 me when he saw me walked up to me and real close to my face and said i had themost beautiful blue eyes hes seen and he got even closer to me and kissed me. its been a cuple months and im totally in love with him now but i feel realy bad that he was just a dare and i feel that this mite ruin our relationship and im starting to think i should forget the dare and breakup with him even tho like him alot

2007-02-27 10:27:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous