So there is this girls, my friend always invites them to the club with us and I have danced with one of them about 2 times. I really like her but I can't seem to talk to her. I'm kind of a geek and I am very shy so I have never asked a girl out. I don't know what to do or say to let her know I'm interested or that I would like her number. She doesn't have a bf and we are both 21...help!!!!
2007-02-27 10:31:09 · 11 answers · asked by Gus 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just talk to her and tell her that you like her and that you think she is hot. Ask her can you have here number so that you two can talk to each other and get to know one another. She might like you to and just doesn't know how to tell you. But you are the guy so you make the first move, dont be scared just go for it.You never think that your a geek, that's not having confidence in your self. If she doesn't like you, then oh well, she wasn't the right girl for you. You seem like a very nice guy, so if it doesn't work out with her, email me.
2007-02-27 10:39:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.. since you are both 21, offer to buy her a drink or something. if she accepts, take that as a signal that she is at least interested in talking to you. strike up a conversation (it could be about anything as long as it isnt weird or creepy) and hopefully you guys will get to talking. if you have a good time, at the end of the night ask for her number!
2007-02-27 18:36:47 · answer #2 · answered by Laura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be confident! Dont call yourself a geek girls like guys that are confident and wear something nice and fix yourself up nicely as to attract the girl and not repell her. And if youve just net this girl then she doent know your shy so try not be, but be yourself at the same time, good luck!
2007-02-27 18:37:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Act your age. Talk to her before someone else does. If you go to a club its sooooooooooo easy to hit up on someone. Offer her a drink, then another one and another one and dance with her and tell her while you're both buzzed that you like her.
2007-02-27 18:35:41 · answer #4 · answered by Martin L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch. Twenty-one,eh? Seems you have waited quite awhile. Well, I think you've waited enough. Ask her out, and don't fear rejection; expect it. I'm not saying that you're ugly and stupid, so she won't go out with you, but I'm saying that most people who are shy and a bit geeky get rejected often. But when they get a smile and a yes, it's worth it. Best o' luck.
2007-02-27 18:39:31 · answer #5 · answered by jude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe after you go out again to the club and finish dancing with her you should write on a napkin your phone number then you should wirte "interested?" on the napkin. im sure she'll write her's back. you sound like a pretty kool guy.
2007-02-27 18:37:40 · answer #6 · answered by d-babeyy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well she dances with u thats a good sign. next time u see her just ask her nonchallantly if she would like to have dinner sometime.see where that leads you
2007-02-27 18:38:04 · answer #7 · answered by vbolden88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you being so shy? Just get your courage up and ask her! All she can do is say no. She's not going to kill you or anything! She probably wants you to ask her out. so just do it!!
2007-02-27 18:37:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just start asking her questions to get to know her better and then from there you'll find out if you have anything in common and you can ask her to do something based on a common interest
2007-02-27 18:37:20 · answer #9 · answered by yayaya 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi gus,
ur trying to do things too early. first get thoroughly introduced to that girl. pl. remeber introduction turns into friendship and among boys and girls it turns into love. let the girl know u and u know her well. things will take its own path. so wait. enjoy the life!
2007-02-27 18:38:34 · answer #10 · answered by amarnath 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋