it for sure shouldn't be planned. just let it happen as things fold out. start with a regular kiss...then see where it gets you, if the other person wants to french or make out then do it.
2007-02-27 10:45:01
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answer #1
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answered by lilhonyok5 2
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*How to kiss:
When your lips meet, keep them slightly parted and
press gently against his lips. Tilt your head
slightly to one side, so your noses won't get
in the way.
What do you do next? It depends. If it's just a
little kiss, a peck on the lips, move away but
(this is very important) don't move away all of
a sudden, as if you were disgusted by his kiss!
Just move away slowly, maybe while still holding hands,
and looking in his eyes.
On the other hand, if you're French kissing, read on ...
**French kissing
(or Frenching)
French kisses are kisses in which you also use your
tongues. (That's why you part your lips slightly.)
So, after you've started kissing, the next step
is that either he will slip his tongue into your
mouth or you'll slip yours into his. Don't let your
tongue go limp but move it around his, or playfully
push his tongue out with yours, then let him
push your tongue back into your mouth, and so on.
Repeat this until you get tired of it (which you never will!)
or until your annoying little brother starts taping you
with the camcorder and threatening to tell your parents. LOLOLOL
***Kissing with glasses or braces
If either of you wears glasses, just take them off
before kissing.
If either has braces, the important thing not
to press too hard agains this lips. Otherwise the
braces will dig themselves into the inside of
his mouth. Ouch!
If you both have braces, don't worry! During
normal kissing your braces won't touch, so they
can't get tangled up with each other!
****Kissing do's and dont's
A sure way to ruin a perfect kiss is with bad
breath. Carry around some mints or gum, and
have one a few moments before you kiss. Offer
him one too. Avoid spicy foods, garlic and
onions just before. Or at least make sure
you're both eating spicy food, so neither will
notice.
Non-smokers hate kissing a smoker! It's
as gross as kissing an ashtray!
You might be nervous, but don't giggle during or
after you kiss. The other person won't understand
it's nervous laughter. He'll think that you were
laughing at him!
I persoanlly think u should kiss llike at after skool or on date at movies
2007-02-27 18:46:43
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answered by Tell Mariee 7
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Ok The first thing that you should do is just lean in and kiss him. When you kiss him make sure that you are alone because then he might feel uncomfortable. I think that you should just give him a normal kiss before you do anything else. I hope that this helped you.
2007-02-27 18:47:40
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answer #3
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answered by Anonymous
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if you're over 14 go ahead and french.. if not then just a reg kiss first.
do it where you feel most comfortable. even though everyone wants their first kiss to be really romantic its best to do it in the environment you're most comfortable in. do it when you're alone, and you're making eye contact. start coming in and he should hopefully come into meet you. remember to close your eyes. after that you can decide on the frenching and making out part. take it slow.
2007-02-27 18:46:34
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answered by Monkey 4
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It will all happen at the right time and place. Once you have start kissing it will go to the next step, if bout you and the guy want it to.If your like 14 or younger don't get to passionate, it can lead to having sex.
2007-02-27 18:47:33
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answer #5
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answered by princesslookin4herprince 2
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Control your saliva! No man likes to really be drooled on. Keep your lips in good shape. Rough, dry, chapped lips are no fun to kiss. Break out the lip balm and use it. You hear it every day but I’ll say it again, the fresher your breath the better.
The correct lip tension for kissing is quite an art. Too loose and you feel lazy and uninterested, too tight and you feel mean and tense.
Don’t surprise a new man with a kiss of overwhelming force and passion. It works in the movies because it’s in the script, for you at home it may come across as attempted date rape. It usually leaves the man longing for the closest exit. Yes, you may be burning with desire for him but you’ve got to slowly and carefully get his libido up to the same speed as yours.
Kissing isn’t just for the lips. Anywhere a man is particularly sensitive he likes to be kissed. When was the last time you kissed the nape of his neck, his wrist, his ears, his stomach.
Don’t try and figure out how sensitive his gag reflex is with your tongue while French kissing! The goal is to enjoy yourselves, not see how far down the back of her throat you can get your tongue.
Mix it up. Kissing in the same way for prolonged periods of time can get really boring. This isn’t a marathon for how long you can keep your tongue in her mouth. Mix up the long deep kisses with short soft ones on his forehead, his cheek, and her neck…and of course back to his lips.
Learn from the acting pros and don’t forget your hands. Ever wonder why women still swoon at the mention of Richard Gere’s name? The man is an ace kisser, he puts his whole body into it, and he uses his hands to coddle and caress a woman’s face, he run his hands through her hair, and leans into her with his hips. Ever watched Bull Durham? Check out Kevin Costner’s lip action (no, you don’t have to tell anyone, do your own private research man). In last year’s Cold Mountain Jude Law gives Nicole Kidman such a dazzling kiss as he runs off to war that she literally goes weak in the knees. That’s the kind of kissing action I’m talking about.
Don’t work too hard. Kissing is for fun and pleasure, if you’re breaking a sweat from effort (not from chemistry) you’re working too hard. Sit back, relax and let him come to you at times…don’t always be chasing him with your tongue and your hands. Learn to give and take. See what he can teach you.
Don’t go frenching his ears unless you know for a fact she loves it. Some women adore big wet kisses in their soundboards, but too many others HATE it. Don’t ruin a great mood by doing something that will gross her out.
Do tug gently on his earlobes with your teeth (again gently) when you kiss his neck and while you’re at it why not whisper a compliment or wicked suggestion?
Be brave enough to ask for pointers when getting to know a new man. Remember kissing is a matter of personal taste, what one man likes isn’t going to always work for another, but if you hear a particular suggestion more than once you know it’s something you’ve got to work on.
Leave him wanting more. Don’t kiss him so much that her lips are raw and his face aches – leave him wanting more of you, not less (especially in the beginning). Hope this helps you out.
2007-02-28 11:29:09
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answered by Army Boy 2
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WHOA WHOA WHOA!!!!! Chill.
trust me you won't know where you won't know when. It will just happen.
I'm pretty sure God won't let anyone get freaked out about it. Like, "Okay how do you want to do this? Do you wanna french or whatever? What do you wanna do?
*smiling* It just happends...
No joke.
When the time is right you'll know what to do.
It's just girl instincs. We're born with 'em.
2007-02-27 18:49:33
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answered by ☆ Sarah ☆ 4
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Kiss the person randomly, don't french, don't make out. just smile then say someting like "I'll see ya later then, k?" say it realy cutely, with a cute smile and walk away don't look back.
2007-02-27 18:45:46
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answered by o_0 2
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Whatever you do dont think about it. Take it slow. Slow down breathe and enjoy. There are no maps for these things. If in doubt do one thing at a time and build up over time. Its best that way.
2007-02-27 18:44:38
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answered by Sepiatone01 3
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Soon as yall go to kiss yall are going to be going mouth to mouth.
Then you stick your tounge in his mouth and he do the same.
You are not suppose to plan a kiss any ways. It just happens.
2007-02-27 18:47:37
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answered by Shaq Daddy 1
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