why do men believe that sleeping with alot of girls is great, if a girl sleeps with lots of guys she is dirty?

Question

in this world us girls sometimes are left to feel like we are dirty... men think that sleeping with guys should not be of any enjoyment for us, only for themself, if a guy sleeps with lots of girls and has a good time.. he is the man...but if a girl dare to try it (as we too need fun) ....she is branded some horrible names..so anyone with any answers or thoughts on this please let me now

Answer 1

It's my body, why can't I do what I want with it? The government says it's OK for me to abort babies, but not OK for a grown woman to sell her body for sex? I say, if you're an adult, doing WHATEVER you want with another adult, (or several,) in the privacy of your own home, the world should keep it's nose out of your business! (Larry Flint thought this way, also.) so I guess that makes me "dirty", pass the soap, and...get my back, please.

Answer 2

Ok bring this one back to cavemen times. Back in the cavemen days the men would go around whacking the cavewomen on the head and dragging them back to their cave right? The reason for this is for a little cave loving and to create a little cave boy or girl. Now if you have two cavemen and one cave woman only one can have some cave love with her at a time and only one can produce a little cave boy or girl with their genetic history at a time. Now cave women on the other hand need to find the biggest, strongest, smartest etc. that she can find because she doesn't want to create a baby to a cave nerd that wont be able to look after them all when a dinosaur wanders by. This means that the biggest and strongest of the species survive and the genetics of the best keep going forward.

Now think about the animal world where if you don't create a baby (whatever your species) your genetic information will die out...

And here is the point. Men instinctively need to go around and try and nail everything they see to try and get their genetic information reproduced and going forward. It's only society that imposes the rules that you shouldn't have 45 kids to 45 different mothers.

So, the reason that women have a bad name is not due to anything other than society that says you should only find one partner...and seems society was primarily run by man up until recently when it became equal, the man is given a "pat on the back" for sleeping with a lot of girls...

Answer 3

I think it's all a man thing. Each man would like to fool around with a lot of women, but when it comes down to the one he wants to be with, she's supposed to be inexperienced. I believe that it goes back to the roots of men and women. Men were supposed to spread seed and make populations grow, while women were supposed to be there for only their man and no other. I know it's neanderthal, but it kind of applies to today. Men want to have these "girls gone wild" but if their lady was to have been that crazy it's another story. It's kind of a good point.

I am a believer that women can have as much fun as the men do, but don't downgrade yourself in the process. Don't become only a sex object that is merely used for pleasure. Be sure to leave something to the imagination, while also having the time of your life. Just enjoy life, but don't do it on video. How shocked would your kids be if one day they come across something while being "exploratory" and it's starring their mom showing the goods? Have fun ladies, and guys watch out!!

Answer 4

fatsauge you're an idiot

If that were true this world would be way over populated then it already is and every person would have an std

We aren't animals, we're humans

Nature intended for one man and one woman to be together and raise children. Get married and such. Look in the bible

Stop comparing us to animals

And D_Khar you're a complete idiot
Cavemen didn't exist with the dinosaurs, wow is your brain the size of a peanut? Stop reading children stories and look into real history

And men that sleep around with a lot of girls can keep their nasty discusting worthless used body

I love my virgin boyfriend more then anything and he is more of man then you'll ever be

Answer 5

As long as its not a contest and you as a woman do it with self assurance and self respect you should not worry of what others think. They will respect you eventually and if they dont theyre closed little minds arent worth worrying about. They have some serious problems. Now if a guy wants ONLY you, then make sure he is the right one and forget all the rest. One good man is all us women really need.

Answer 6

Because thats society. It sucks sometimes. Like in other countries men marry MORE THAN ONE woman. Do women marry more than one man? Nope. So lets just enjoy the guys that DON'T sleep around... the nice ones that respect you for who you are and is loving, caring, compassionate, and light-hearted. The golden men. They're probably hybernating somewhere yonders. lol =P

Answer 7

Modern society has confused Nature's basic intentions.
Nature intended for the woman to be at Home 100% of the time, cook and raise children. Nature intended Man to go out and Hunt for the food and impregnate as many females as he possibly could.
Women's Lib and women going out to work has upset the Apple Cart and the Women are getting the backlash.

Answer 8

If you disregard the name calling and ask "Why do men think that them having sex with a lot of women is different from women having a lot of sex with men", then the answer is "Because it is different".

Whether or not you like that answer, it is nonetheless true. When a woman has sex with a man, the man enters her body with a part of himself. The woman doesn't enter the man's body with a part of herself. Also, if he ejaculates inside of her, then he is leaving part of himself behind. So it is physically more intimate for women, and men know this. Add to this the fact that women can become pregnant from the act of sex and men can't, then it makes the issue of physical intimacy greater.

So what it comes down to is, men see it as the woman allowing a lot of men to become far more intimate with them then they are allowing a woman to be with themselves when having sex. The woman appears as being far less discriminating concerning sex, then, in perspective, and as having a far less regard for herself, since she chooses so easily be with a lot of men in this intimate fashion. And when she does finally settle for one man, if that happens, trust issues can enter the picture because of her past sexual behaviour.

Answer 9

I don't think girls are Dirty or anything... I think Guys are Stupid becasue I notice that guys like to make points if pop one girl cherry get 1,000 points if that girl what ever it is for points and Guys really enjoy having sex but notice that no respect for women.... Women have respect for men... but I am glad that women are clean, smart, sexy, with out women we all men doomed... we might end up being gay.. smiling...

Answer 10

Men on the whole are pigs as you ladies will testify I am without doubt the biggest.The reason men like to sleep with lots of ladies is because its fun.Men like to think they are the first to sleep with you therefore making them the best.This is of course rubbish but that's how a man thinks trust me on this I am one.The best example I can use to put this into Lady speak is in the film Grease when Danny meets sandy after there summer hols(like to point out Cad has never seen this film but has heard you ladies talk about this film ok) realising his chums are around him, turns into a moron.This is because men like to act all big.Hence the nasty name calling.....You go girl if you want... Remember Cad is always their, to listen to you drown, on and on. Cad cares.Ladies you are quite safe to come to Cad tower.I only want to be your friend trust Cad......I say

Answer 11

I totally agree, guys sleep around with a bunch of girls and they are saints and are respected. If girls sleep around then they are trash and totally disrespected. I am not a girl that sleeps around, but I believe that there is a big double standard between the sexes!! I think that it will always be this way because guys are always going to be "macho" and "I slept with this girl," and the other guys that he tells are going to praise him!