i was dared to go out with this guy whos really popular and liked me alot( i knew this cause his friend blabbed it to me) and i knew he was gonna ask me any day now togo out with him but heres was the thang i didnt like him (i admit i thought he was adorble) so a couple days later he asked me out. of course i said yes(oh and part of the dare was to do whatever he wanted me to) and in a couple hours the word was spread and iwas imedianly more popular. couple days latr we were eating lunch and he told me to meet him behind the old school buildings.so i did and he was there waiting 4 me when he saw me walked up to me and real close to my face and said i had themost beautiful blue eyes hes seen and he got even closer to me and kissed me. its been a cuple months and im totally in love with him now but i feel realy bad that he was just a dare and i feel that this mite ruin our relationship and im starting to think i should forget the dare and breakup with him even tho like him alot
2007-02-27 10:27:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
any suggestions please help!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-27 10:28:41 · update #1
Be honest with him and tell him it started off as a dare. but that you really have grown feeling for him and you are not faking it. ask him to forgive you. and tell him that you are really sorry, and you don't blame him if he does not want to see you anymore. hopefully he will still want to.see you after all. good luck.
2007-02-27 10:33:01 · answer #1 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that dare could have been the best mistake of ur life. u got to kno him and then fell in love and thats a wonderful thing. if he finds out about the dare he mite be a littl emad but he should realize that because of that dare he got the girl he really liked so he should be greatful. besides its no longer a dare anyways, your still with him because u want to be
2007-02-27 18:33:51 · answer #2 · answered by vbolden88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you had not accepted the dare would you have even given him the chance? Would you have gotten to know him and find out what a wonderful person he is? Sometimes life hands us little unexpected coincidences like this that help us to realize what we might have missed out on or might be missing out on by not taking chances. So enjoy what you have right now and don't let it bother you.
2007-02-27 18:36:31 · answer #3 · answered by altariela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one said anything about dare ... but you truly in love with him and he truly in love iwth you...and I don't care about dare.. but I am glad it happen... you know you alreasy been with him cuple months now and you are totally in love iwth him and he is too and really looking back say dare wow... but you didn't think you will be meet him at the old school right but if you didn't then you won't be where you are now... pls, take my word... live with it and be happy... if you not in love with him for couple of months then I think you should break up with him but you are in love with him and if you break up with him you will never feel that way...
I think he knows you dare if rumors flying so fast then you shouldn't worry... what if he knew you doing is dare and he try to dare you.. who knows.. but been couple of months so that is a great thing.. keep on going never know you both really want to get married... smiling...
2007-02-27 18:36:19 · answer #4 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont break up with him...tell him aobut the dare but tell him its not about htat nemore and that u really love him a lot now and tell him how u really feel
2007-02-27 18:32:50 · answer #5 · answered by lalala 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got nothing to lose so go for it and see what comes of it
2007-02-27 18:32:12 · answer #6 · answered by wilo_chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he likes you and you like him don't say anything. just be happy you have someone.
2007-02-27 18:36:11 · answer #7 · answered by Robby D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋