I've been single for 3 years. and i hate it, i feel like i'm not good enough to get someone. everytime i meet a guy i like they like someone else. and they go after that other person. what's a good way to be able to accept that im going to be single for awhile? thanx in advance
2007-02-27 10:36:01 · 7 answers · asked by ashie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think you are asking the correct question. I think the question needs to be: How can I convince myself that I am worthy of someone else's attention, and that I am as good as those other women?
You are good enough, and you just have to let yourself feel it. Until you do that, you will not ever accept the attention of another guy. Don't settle for the fact that you will be single for a long time.
You have to understand totally that you are worth millions!! You must understand that because one person hurt your heart, that everyone else isn't the same, and that you DESERVE the best. As you come to believe this, others will, also. You WILL find that person that believes the same, and your hearts will open up. But you have to believe it first.
If you don't believe it, you will put off anyone who tries to show you affection or attention. You won't believe that he is sincere, because "you are not worth it."
Believe that you are, because the Universe has accepted you, you are a child of Nature, and you are beautiful!! Believe it!!!
2007-02-27 10:44:05 · answer #1 · answered by luvmelodio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well guys seem to love confidence. believe in yourself and keep your chin up. don't let a few guys give the whole male race a bad name. your sweetheart is out there somewhere....
and if you start telling yourself that you'll accept being single for awhile then you won't keep your eyes open for guys. it's like you're labeling yourself as the "girl thats always single" and then you'll just live under that label.
2007-02-27 18:39:49 · answer #2 · answered by lilhonyok5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you feel that way becuase of past experiences ,but maybe life is teaching you a lesson.I would suggest evaluating myself as per attitude and self esteem which from the little you've said seems to be your #1 problem.If you have that mindset , you will end up alone and bitter.
2007-02-27 18:41:04 · answer #3 · answered by seialie (pronounced sally) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes it's better to have nobody, then have someone who will make your life a living hell. Just quit going after the guys let them come to you. Don't be really anxious. Men can sense an anxious woman. So don't act anxious.
2007-02-27 18:52:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be patient and stop worrying about meeting Mr Right. Enjoy friendships with males and females. It will happen you will meet someone but it can be any time not just here and now.
2007-02-27 18:40:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 years? wow its been a while but who says you hav to get use to it? theres someone for everyone you just hav to look in right places start going out more and grow out of being timid.when you see something you like go for it!
2007-02-27 18:42:37 · answer #6 · answered by jasmin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you keep thinkin like that you really won't.....be comfortable and confident and he'll find you. theres somone for everyone.
2007-02-27 18:40:34 · answer #7 · answered by **Taira** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋