Singles & Dating - 23 February 2007

I have this problem - This guy & I were really interested in each other but we were always too shy to speak to one another. He would just look at me out of the corner of his eyes, then when I caught him he would turn his head fast. He was too shy to say hi to me.He would talk to others about how much he liked me but he wouldn't tell me.He always wanted to come see me but when he came, he wouldn't say anything...same routine over and over. Anyways, a month later someone told me that he said he was going to start talking to me this time. I didn't believe it b/c he always said that but nothing ever happened. So he asked me out when I saw him,when I said yes, he immediately started rubbing on me and askng to have sex with me. I didn't want to his excuse was 'this is what lovers do.' I said no so he stopped and said he wasn't mad but he was really quiet afterwards. I dumped him for that but I really miss him. Should I try it (the relationship) again or not? Please tell why.

2007-02-23 15:51:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've recently been talking to a guy that I work with who is several years my senior. I've learned we have a lot in common, even having the same unusual sense of humor; we seem to really "get" each other. We flirt pretty often and have a lot of fun trying to make each other laugh or smile. In the past few weeks he has been very open with me, disclosing very personal details of his life - his dreams and ambitions, fears, his past, very personal things that I probably wouldn't feel comfortable sharing with someone that I haven't known for too long. Normally with the flirting and the self-disclosure I would think, "hey, maybe this guy is interested in me" - but he has a girlfriend, and oftentimes in our discussions he will bring her up, even if just to talk about her briefly.

My question is pretty simple: what type of relationship is he attempting to form with me? A friendship? A brother/sister bond? Or something leading more towards romantic ties? How can I tell? Any advice? Thanks.

2007-02-23 15:50:41 · 5 answers · asked by Not so glamorous 2

So I like this boy!He said that he likes me too a little bit but i dont know how should i ask him out?

2007-02-23 15:50:12 · 3 answers · asked by Priscilla 1

Ok, so I liked (...lets call him Bobthing...) Bobthing for, like, almost a year now, and I have a friend who is named... Lasu... lets say... and ALL of my friends know I like him and he is STRICTLY OFF LIMITS to my friends (besides, he's really ugly...) and Lasu started dating this 1 guy... and I noticed that Lasu and Bobthing started hanging out a lot all of a sudden. And it turns out THEYRE GOING OUT! Lasu never liked Bobthing, infact, she hated him till I told her I liked him. Thats about when they started hanging out.And Bobthing accually likes Lasu, and I dont want to see Bobthing's heart broken finding out that his gf hates his guts! I was about 2 ask him out b4 this happened 2... what do I do???

2007-02-23 15:49:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I havent seen him in 3 months. The only contact I have with him is through letters.

2007-02-23 15:48:30 · 3 answers · asked by RiahRawr 2

2007-02-23 15:48:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was walking pass this guy sitting down at a table, and I noticed at the corner of my eye that he was staring at me, and so I looked back at him and we made five-second eye contact. Everytime I see him now, he'd stare at me. We don't know each other at all. What does this mean?

Would you stare at a girl if you didn't find her attractive?

2007-02-23 15:48:00 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am recently single after a 14 year relationship. He gets the kids everyother weekend. Here's my problem. When he has the kids I think that I have to go out and meet people, put myself out there. No one is going to come looking for me. And I am ready to meet someone again. But on alot of weekends, like tonight I just feel like staying home and watching movies in my p.j's. Is it normal to be so conflicted about that?

2007-02-23 15:46:42 · 3 answers · asked by Teslajuliet 4

2007-02-23 15:46:12 · 9 answers · asked by kyla_bean 4

He is 17 and im 16.. we are in high school he is an exchange student and things are going great because we have developed a good friendship. He waits for me, walks down the halls with me, stares alot!!! and most of all he likes to tease me! today when i suggested that he should come to the dance because it would be fun he is like oh i dont want to... and he said that he finds them boring....
is he not interested to be more than friends?
thank you!

2007-02-23 15:45:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anna G 1

we're a perfect match for each other, and i know we both like each other. when i asked her out, her reason why she didn't want to go out was, i'm her best friend, she can tell me anything, but doesn't want to ruin our relationship. so do you think she just wants to wait, or that there's no chance we'll date?

2007-02-23 15:45:04 · 22 answers · asked by redreturns31 2

My boyfriend and I have been together for a while now and i absolutly adore him he's sweet funny cute smart just completly amazing all around. Recently he started calling me pet names and I wanna come up with one for him. But I cant think of anything that isnt too cheesy. Please help. His name is Alexander Scott. But he goes by Alex I need some help if you can think of a great nickname for a sweet shy amazing rocker dude named alex please help me!!!!!!!
Thanks!

2007-02-23 15:44:20 · 7 answers · asked by music is love 2

Where would I find a free site to meet singles. They all say free but non of them are.

2007-02-23 15:43:55 · 6 answers · asked by angeleyes 2

i know him since 1 year i know he likes me, we just met 2 weeks ago the second time i met him he was very normal with me, suddenly from 3 days he has stopped calling, i dont know why, even i did not call him yesterday he text me i didnt reply when i got online he messaged and asked why my mood is off, after insisting i told him that i felt he was avoiding me he said ohh i was busy i said i know even if u were too busy you used to give me short call, now what happened, i said just decide what you want from me, he said its good you are sharing everything he said he dont have words, he is confused, cant make any decision right now, everything needs time, I DONT MIND WAITING BUT whether he will leave me?? or what?? after our chat at night even he didnt call just text me how r u what u had thats it? what is he upto??please dont suggest to forget him its nearly impossible, i really care for this guy,dont know why, he was drug addict but he is not taking them for so long, he is trying toqui

2007-02-23 15:43:49 · 7 answers · asked by Ashiii 1

youir boyfriend tells you he hates you and breaks up with you, But the next day, he says he loves you and is sorry and wants to get back together with you?

2007-02-23 15:43:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

They seem to want to just rush in and do it, no passion what so ever. I mean, like spending an hour kissing someone from head to toe and massaging them, sensual stuff like that. Any ideas?

2007-02-23 15:39:52 · 10 answers · asked by lilybell 2

I resently started going out with the girl of my dreams, but I had a blonde moment and got her mad at her best friend. It was entirely a mistake, I had miss heard and so on............ Well I straightend it out and everything shes not mad at her and vice versa but now her friend is mad at me and I think my girlfriend is mad to (or at least a little ticked). I said I was sorry many times and asked if there was anyway I could get her to forgive me and she just said "I dont think so bub" and said "that if I was not new to the school she would have sacked me and beat the **** out of me". I am not sure what to do and I really need help, I really like both of them and dont want to lose my girl.

2007-02-23 15:39:48 · 2 answers · asked by Badger 1

Not that I just want to go ahead and just do it. I want to get to know her go out and socialize and talk and get to know each other.

2007-02-23 15:39:30 · 3 answers · asked by Eli 2

ok i have a 5 ?'s. y do ppl like sex,what do boys and girls like out of it and and y do boys like in a girls things and y do girls like boyes things and what do boyes things look like?

2007-02-23 15:39:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, so me and my ex-gf were together for over a year. We hung out in the same group, and we were pretty good friends with another guy, but he always made me uncomfortable. So, she broke up with me, saying that I did not have enough time to commit to her... after a year??? anyways. I should mention why he made me nervous, I guess. It started when she went to the park, and he was the only one from our group that could go. So, i persuaded parents to let me go, and I can't get ahold of her for like a half hour. They wind up not being where they sed they would b, then he stays at her house after I leave. Few months later, he takes her to the movies. Who else is there? His older sister and her fiance. Another time our whole group was at the movies, and she got mad about something. I try to get her to stay, and she blows me off... i tried for like 5 minutes b4 he tried. He has her persuaded in less than a minute. So we break up. Something like 2 weeks later, and they're together. Wut wud u do

2007-02-23 15:39:04 · 2 answers · asked by pish_01 2

i went out with this girl named sandra for like 2 months then she broke up wit me but i still havent gotten over her cause i still really like her alot well i see her evryday cause she lives on my street but sometimes we really flirt alot with eachother and have fun but recently shes been really mean to me and i dont know why and even her friends dont like me they say im mean but ive been nuthing but nice2 them. i havent done anything bad to sandra EVER so i dont kno wat its about. i dont know wat i should do?


PS were both in high school

2007-02-23 15:38:35 · 2 answers · asked by born to live, bred to die 3

My Ex and I haven't spoken in 4 months and I haven't seen her in 7 months. I couldn't get her outta my system so I emailed her, I didn't expect a response because she has a new boyfriend but she did. It was small talk but it was a start. I just wanna know should I take things slow or let it go. Another question is that why would she email me back if she has a new boyfriend?

2007-02-23 15:36:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 23 and have never been asked out by a guy. There have been a few that I was intersted in at school (at a university in Arizona). I approached them first, and we would talk throughout the semester but that was it. I tried to be obvious that I was interested without coming on too strong but it's never reciprocated. I'm friendly to everyone, and I like meeting people, but guys don't approach me. My friends will tell me that there are guys who think I'm attractive, but I don't know who they are because they won't talk to me. Every day at least a few random people (mostly older men or women) will comment on my looks and say that I'm beautiful. I don't think I am, and now I'm starting to think people feel sorry for me and that's why they say it. Anyway, I know it takes more than looks to attract a guy...I think I have a good personality...I'm not stupid, I study a lot and I like to learn...Seriously do you think I am the problem? Any suggestions?

2007-02-23 15:36:45 · 13 answers · asked by trenchwatch 2

I was supposed to call someone the other day and I just remembered what should I tell them?

2007-02-23 15:36:16 · 16 answers · asked by lizziemoffles 4

i met this guy a few weeks ago. we hit it off real fast...we spent every moment together for 3 weeks. then he stopped talkin to me i spilled my guts to him a few weeks ago over a message in myspace bout how i feel i wanted him to know how i feel just in case he didn't speak to me again. well we spoke on and off. but not much at all. last night i sent him a message saying i was sorry for acting so clingy && that i did care about him but i understand the stress he's being going through. [he inlisted in navy] in that message i said i support anything he does and that he was my hero. well...he called me today...and tonight he came over...i don't know how it happened but we ended up having sex. he called me sweety...he kissed me a lot...and he held my hands. he tickled me a lot too which is what he did when we first started talking..we also do this thing were we blow into each others noses its kinda cute && we did it tonight. is that a good sign that hes into me.

2007-02-23 15:35:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-23 15:34:41 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

6'2'', 162 runner type.
Darker complexion, dark hair, dark eyes.
I go to the U.S. Naval Academy and I'll be an officer when I graduate (probably surface Navy, sorry won't be a marine officer)
I'm shy and reserved
I can dance well
Unfortunately, I don't usually make the first move
Like to read and watch movies, running, and love to watch sports on TV
I'm 19 years old and a virgin (tell me your feelings about this)
I've only had one girlfriend

Would you consider me inexperienced and say, "no"! If someone told you these facts, would you give this person at least a shot? Thanks for the feedback.

2007-02-23 15:33:56 · 16 answers · asked by Brandon P 2

2007-02-23 15:32:47 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

i mean i think its crazy! but yet and still, guys still do it...why??!

2007-02-23 15:30:26 · 19 answers · asked by luvyabf2 1

like just hanging out talking sports playing a video game once in awhile not like the 22 year getting the 17 beer or stuff like that two guys is this a big age gap

2007-02-23 15:30:15 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous