I've recently been talking to a guy that I work with who is several years my senior. I've learned we have a lot in common, even having the same unusual sense of humor; we seem to really "get" each other. We flirt pretty often and have a lot of fun trying to make each other laugh or smile. In the past few weeks he has been very open with me, disclosing very personal details of his life - his dreams and ambitions, fears, his past, very personal things that I probably wouldn't feel comfortable sharing with someone that I haven't known for too long. Normally with the flirting and the self-disclosure I would think, "hey, maybe this guy is interested in me" - but he has a girlfriend, and oftentimes in our discussions he will bring her up, even if just to talk about her briefly.
My question is pretty simple: what type of relationship is he attempting to form with me? A friendship? A brother/sister bond? Or something leading more towards romantic ties? How can I tell? Any advice? Thanks.
2007-02-23 15:50:41 · 5 answers · asked by Not so glamorous 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to him and ask him
2007-02-23 15:53:18 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What ever you do, think about it very deeply. I was once in a situation close to yours back in 1999. He just left the company a couple of months ago. After he found out I was pregnant, he acted like he didn't even know me. MY son (he is almost 8) has never met him, and I plan to keep it that way. If you are involved with someone at the present time, don't risk that relationship. I don't want to hurt your feelings, but he might be just trying to sleep with you.
2007-02-23 16:00:12 · answer #2 · answered by princess froggie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 20:16:26 · answer #3 · answered by koguchi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can take this to the bank my dear. It is defiantly romantic to put it nicely. If thats what you want you got it. If not start the less is more concept.
2007-02-23 15:55:33 · answer #4 · answered by stephenmwells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like he is trying to get you into bed to me. If he has a g/f he shouldn't be flirting with you. It reaks of a cheater and if he is that way with her I cannot imagine he would treat you any better.
-NmD!
2007-02-23 15:55:04 · answer #5 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋