i met this guy a few weeks ago. we hit it off real fast...we spent every moment together for 3 weeks. then he stopped talkin to me i spilled my guts to him a few weeks ago over a message in myspace bout how i feel i wanted him to know how i feel just in case he didn't speak to me again. well we spoke on and off. but not much at all. last night i sent him a message saying i was sorry for acting so clingy && that i did care about him but i understand the stress he's being going through. [he inlisted in navy] in that message i said i support anything he does and that he was my hero. well...he called me today...and tonight he came over...i don't know how it happened but we ended up having sex. he called me sweety...he kissed me a lot...and he held my hands. he tickled me a lot too which is what he did when we first started talking..we also do this thing were we blow into each others noses its kinda cute && we did it tonight. is that a good sign that hes into me.
2007-02-23 15:35:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's kinda hard to tell(Aren't guys so confusing???).
It looks like he might be into you but there's a chance that he is a jack*ss and used you. I think you should keep talking to me and maybe even ask him if he likes you or not. It's something you have to figure out yourself....but I"m almost positive he likes you!
2007-02-23 15:43:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, I don't think so. I think you were "just a booty call". Just because a guy has seX with you and does all those things does not mean that he is into you. If he is into you he would of asked you to be his girlfriend. However, now that you slept with him and contacted him first...doesn't look good. Read that book "He's just not that into you". Then you won't make the same mistake again. Don't make it so easy for him! Guys want a challenge..don't put your heart on a string....Be assertive..you don't need a man in your life to be happy. You are independent and have a life outside of a man. Have hobbies, spend time with family and friends, do something for the community! Live and learn. A man can not complete you. You complete yourself! Guys will have seX whenever with whoever..they do not care.
2007-02-23 23:45:01 · answer #2 · answered by asiansmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure if he's into you or into the sex! Did you ask him why he stopped calling you and then called again and then you ended up having sex? A man that is interested is not going to blow you off -or think you are clingy--He'll enjoy the attention----What is your relationship based on at this point?
2007-02-23 23:44:32 · answer #3 · answered by DJA30 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That totally is a good sign. But I have to warn you, getting involved with military guys isn't a good idea. It won't be steady enough and you have to prepare yourself in case he doesn't come back. Good luck though.
2007-02-24 04:11:49 · answer #4 · answered by Meeeeee! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
those are the things that i would do to a girl if i was really liking her so maybe you are hitting off. if you were dating me i would say that those are good signs,that just my opinion. who wouldn't be into you anyways im sure you're a pretty girl and he is a very lucky man
2007-02-23 23:48:42 · answer #5 · answered by JFiya24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard to say...it seems like hes into you...but he could just be using you for sex...i say confront him about it and ask him what you mean to him. he owes it to you to tell you how he feels about you cauz you just let him have sex with you. but i think he likes you...all those cute things you describe that he was doing with you..i dont think many guys do that unless they like you.
2007-02-23 23:46:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it just means you're a suIT
2007-02-23 23:40:19 · answer #7 · answered by __ 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No he's not.
2007-02-23 23:44:38 · answer #8 · answered by Atheist Eye Candy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋