Singles & Dating - 12 February 2007

I am not a religious person, and have in fact been sleeping with my boyfriend for the past 6 years with absolutely no regrets. I would like to hear from people who have and haven't waited for marriage:
*Was it worth the wait?
*What made you decide to wait/ have sex in the first place? If it's a religious choice, where and what does it say about sex before marriage?
*Do you have any regrets about not waiting/not having sex before marriage?
*Once you're married, do you have sex for fun and to express love, or is it simply only allowed for procreation?
*How is/ was your sex life after you got married and chose to wait (one of my friends decided to wait and said she had thought her first time would be wonderful and romantic but that it turned out to be a complete disaster - one that ended in tears and frustration. She maintains to this day that her sex life is sub-par because her and her husband have different sexual needs - in regards to frequency).

2007-02-12 17:31:51 · 14 answers · asked by Nat 2

ok first off i have this boy friend. but me and my ex are really close we always talk and recently whent on an ag trip and people were asking us if we were back together,i still have fealings 4 him.well now hes talking to a girl that asked him to a dance at our school.and well 2 days ago he said that he still loved me and now he says that he has been lieing 2 himself...it really hurt cut i think that i still love him and actually thought of breking up with my bf to go back to him.i dont know what to do.i hate being a teen please help.

2007-02-12 17:30:48 · 12 answers · asked by <33 1

My girl friend has been pregant for about 7 weeks,,,should I ask her for a abortion??? but i am concer about her health coz she already did once when she was 18 and she is 23 now.... I really want that baby but i am still going to school and i cant affort so many costs $$$$$$and her mon is so .......she would let me marrie with her unlst i got a lot of money ????

2007-02-12 17:26:22 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

ive known my best friend for 6 years weve always looked out for each other hes 2 years older than me im 14 and hes 16, well he has a girlfriend and i have a boyfriend but we talk all the time and r like brother and sister whenever we r on the computer or phone before we hang up i say love u pyro and hell say love u too shorty(im like 5 inches shorter than him and hes 6ft) his bro heard this one time and accused him of cheating well him and his gf worked it out but still i want to know would it be considered cheating if we say it meaning it like that and nothing more?

2007-02-12 17:24:09 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

Can guys fall for girls that they don't talk to a lot? Or he doesn't see her often.

2007-02-12 17:22:42 · 14 answers · asked by Friend 2

i really like this cute guy at school and i wanna ask him to sades dance but i dont think he has any fellings for me but i real realy like him the problom is he is one of my friends and i dont want to ask him get rejected and have our relationship as friends all screwed up i dont know what to do can you give advice on ways to hint that i like him without just going and asking him to the dance i dono what to do anything would help

thx

2007-02-12 17:22:20 · 4 answers · asked by frosty 2

I just broke up with my girlfriend of 4 years. its been about 4months, and i still can seem to get over her. i've tried taking up hobies and stuff but i still cant get her out of my mind. I've tried getting back together but it doesnt seem possible. Any body got some good advice?

2007-02-12 17:18:51 · 12 answers · asked by Nanook~Maybe I need a longer Name?~ 6

Ok I have never spoken to her but I want to go out with her is that ok or should I say hi or wave and then work up, please help.

2007-02-12 17:16:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so me and this guy were together since 10th grade we had our shared of mistakes, but then in senior year he ended up having feelings for my friend he broke up with me to try to get with her, i felt like crap now that we are in college he wants to get back with me ..i still love him and .....should get bck w/him?

2007-02-12 17:16:15 · 2 answers · asked by dimps 1

The kind that was SO controlling that he didn't want you to hang out with friends, fix your hair a certain way, wear certain clothes, etc.?

2007-02-12 17:13:41 · 10 answers · asked by purringout 3

I think that a man have to understand only his woman and not all the rest of the women around.

2007-02-12 17:07:24 · 26 answers · asked by Dani 2

how can one change to context of thier spiritual beliefs for another? And if you break up one day ...then what? Convert back?

2007-02-12 16:59:13 · 20 answers · asked by lowroad 2

I see that every day now. Our little chicks are about to hatch...

2007-02-12 16:58:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

At work theres this guy, and he was like, yeahi could have a fight with that girl, but notwith u , and i was like why and he says,, cos ur intimidating..then i waslike.. is that a goodthing.and he said.. it can be a good womanly quality.. blah blah. what do u think??

2007-02-12 16:58:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I live with 6 other people and 1 of which, while she has lived with me for less time than the rest, I really like, maybe even love. The problem is that she is all over in how she reacts to me. One week we spend a lot of time together and talk about everything and the next week, she will basically ignore me. I've done so much for the girl, I make her dinner all the time, she borrows anything of mine that she wants and knows that I will do just about anything for her. Yet still she is all over the place with her reactions. 1 minute she's hugging me and thanking me and the next week we go to the bar and she is messing around with one of my other housemates who she knows has a girlfriend and is basically ignoring me.
This is really causing me some serious problems, I spend hours a day trying to decide what do, I'm losing sleep, and I'm all over the place emotionally. I should probably move on, but I just can't, I really think I love her, and I would do anything for her. What should I do?

2007-02-12 16:56:38 · 5 answers · asked by what to do? 1

I met a girl that i fell like im useless with out her i think about her 24/7 i even cry sometimes thinking of her i wish i could spend the rest of my life with her but she dont feel the same which breaks my heart i dont know what to do.WHAT SHOULD I DO?

2007-02-12 16:55:57 · 15 answers · asked by Hartigan 1

2007-02-12 16:54:49 · 4 answers · asked by cookie 1

let's say you already have a g/f or wife and you meet a good looking woman who you know is single and has a nice personality and can't figure out why she is still single. For Valentine's Day, would you send her flowers with a card saying, "Even though I"m already taken, I just want to wish you a Happy Valentine's Day, secret admirer/anonymous

2007-02-12 16:54:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-12 16:52:48 · 3 answers · asked by Vijay s 1

why cant i say the girl that i like her ? why am i so sshy and when i see her i cant stop avoidig her and could not talk to her

2007-02-12 16:52:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-12 16:51:02 · 17 answers · asked by Sanjay R 1

Can u explain why?

2007-02-12 16:50:57 · 16 answers · asked by m m 1

I'm in a relationship with a wounderful guy that I love more than anything. I'm so madly deeply in love with him and we've been together for so long and I just love more and more. But the thing that makes me feel kind of guilty is that I still remember my first "true" love at times. I've dreamed that I talk to him and the other day. I was trying to say somebody else's name and said his accidentally. He was very special to me but I've moved on and I'm with somebody I want to spend forever with and so happy and in love. Why I'm I still remembering about him? I want to be 100% percent faithful to my man including mentally. Because he deserves it and I know he's the love of my life. But can you really have more than one true love?

2007-02-12 16:50:04 · 11 answers · asked by miley 2

i was going to invite him over on wed. morning and take him to my bed, and tell him to go to "sleep" and that I would be rght back, after about 2 minutes, I was going to come in with a tray of his fav. breakfast so he could have breakfast in bed, then after eating breakfast, I was going to have a little dish that was covered that was "dessert" but instead of dessert, it was going to be a first clue to a scavenger hunt. I was going to disapear, and then let him follow the clues, at each clue, there was going to be a little present: a box of chocolates, a cd, a photo, after a few, the items were going to get risque: some lube, a condom, etc. his last clue was to guide him to another bedroom that I would be in, dressed in sexy lingereeee...what do you think? is it to much or? keep in mind that for my birthday he got me a 200 dollar Tiffany's necklace, and then 10 days later for christmas he got me uggs and a very nice room heater..

2007-02-12 16:48:42 · 14 answers · asked by Tiffany H 2

Well here's the deal I hae this friend who's cool and everything, he's funny he makes me laugh and what not. But he buggs me alot bout where i go and with who, and the thing is were only friends. Like this weekend i was with my family for a birthday and he text me saying what i was doin'. And then I jus told him I was out and he kept bugging me about where I was and when I wouldn't tell him, he got mad and said fine don't tell me. The thing is, is he just acting like a friend or smething

2007-02-12 16:46:01 · 8 answers · asked by Hispanic Angel 2

okk. so i hav a bf. we wanna make out but im soo nervous and scared. everytime i think about us making out i always think im gonna mess up in front of him..ok. so my question is.. how do i make out? ive seen sites but i rele dont understand..plz give me sum ways 2 make out wit him! i wanna make his time worth while!

2007-02-12 16:45:43 · 4 answers · asked by HappyState™ 4

2007-02-12 16:45:35 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I personally am average in size, but always wish I was at least 7" or more. I here some women say they like the fullness of a larger man and yet others don't like the pain.

Do you base your experience on intercourse alone or is it the whole package.

How bout you....? If am man likes the size you like, how can he make up for it, or can he?

2007-02-12 16:43:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-12 16:42:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my ex have broke up over 20 times in 2 1/2 yrs. i have trust issues becuz of his lieing. well he wants to come back again. he says things will be different this time. he sayd he loves me wants to marry me, you know the whole nine yards. well i cant get him to understand that it wont work anymore. i hate to just cut him out of my life cuz he over all not a bad person, just not relationship material. he keeps coming on to me and making statement like im still his woman. he keeps trying to come back cuz i always gave in and let him come back in the past. what should i do ? like i said he not a bad person. he also use to gawk at women when we were together. i just dont trust him. how can i fix this problem. he just wont except that we can live together and make love anymore. what should i do?

2007-02-12 16:41:00 · 12 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4