ok first off i have this boy friend. but me and my ex are really close we always talk and recently whent on an ag trip and people were asking us if we were back together,i still have fealings 4 him.well now hes talking to a girl that asked him to a dance at our school.and well 2 days ago he said that he still loved me and now he says that he has been lieing 2 himself...it really hurt cut i think that i still love him and actually thought of breking up with my bf to go back to him.i dont know what to do.i hate being a teen please help.
2007-02-12 17:30:48 · 12 answers · asked by <33 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't go back. He is using you as a as a backup in case he is stuck without a girl. Your only young and there will be many more opportunities for you. Don't waste your time going somewhere you have already been. Have no regrets and move farward. Be brave
2007-02-12 17:36:29 · answer #1 · answered by Professor Kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its so hard to be a teen right now! If you have to question a relationship at your age its probably not worth it! Keep your bf now! If he wants you back because of who you are you will one day be together, but right now have fun! Im not so sure that you or you bf really know what love is. If you have to question if you love him then you probably dont. So just be freinds and have fun with the boy your with right now! Good luck, and I hate to tell you it doesnt get much eaisier =0(
2007-02-12 17:36:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say... just talk to him, and be friends... of course the best of friends.. be there for one another. It will definatly makes no sense if you were to brake with your current bf just to be with him. Besides? If he really loves you, he will not break your relationship but encourage it.
Of course you can always be his partner, if your current relationship does not work out.
It will be good, if right now you are his best friend? Vice versa. Nothing beats like having a best friend if your circle of friends... who knows that he will still come to you. When you are really down and you are single again.
Talk to him that you will definatly go back to him. And be his partner if your current relationship does not work out. Be realistic.
Message me if you have any further questions.. =)
2007-02-12 17:38:50 · answer #3 · answered by THE ONE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, if you and him truly likes each other, the most simple answer is, Just break up with your bf, and have him stop talking to that girl he is ''talking'' to, if you guys both agree to do that, It will be fine. If you guys truly likes each other, than it shouldnt be a problem at all. It will be hard to break up with your bf but trust me, it you truly like your ex more, dont drag your bf along. You are taking him on a ride that he shouldnt be on. Just let him off to fine another person for himself. It will be hard at first, but later on, it'll be fine
good luck to you
saphire
2007-02-12 17:37:56 · answer #4 · answered by Saphire04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that has happened to most of us. your bf breaking up from you, and dancing with a girl means something,he either is a player and would drop you anytime or he is just holding you up waiting for his true girl. you said that you think you love him, think twice.
one more thing, what do you think of your 'new' bf. is he natural, ask him if he can go out with another girl. then pick your choice. good luck.
2007-02-12 17:44:55 · answer #5 · answered by bugz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did he treat you good, give you more than enough attention, not pressure you to do anything you didn't want to do, shower you with gifts and love
if so tell him how you feel and if not stick with the one you've got
ps what chaper are you in for ag?
2007-02-12 17:36:38 · answer #6 · answered by frosty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say if u like the guy go for him, but if he is being a jerk..then why go back w/him...and think of the guy ur with...if u break up with him he might feel like you feel right now
2007-02-12 17:36:31 · answer #7 · answered by dimps 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long do u really see your self with this new boyfriend. if your with another guy, and your still thinking about ur ex... lets just say... your really not into this guy as you thought, and should be with your ex.
2007-02-12 17:37:17 · answer #8 · answered by March Mommie 07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to study more in typing class.
2007-02-12 17:34:54 · answer #9 · answered by Debi in LA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit down and talk to your current boyfriend and just be honest. dont sneak around. follow your heart.
2007-02-12 17:36:28 · answer #10 · answered by Kimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋