Singles & Dating - 22 January 2007

I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months now and I love him so much. The problem is , his boyfriend still lives with him and has been interfering with our relationship. He has suicidal tendencies and my boy feels responsible if anything bad happens to him.
The ex lost his job because he tried to kill himself at work and now he is totally relying on my boyfriend- financially.
The ex is abusing and using my BF just because he CAN. I am hurt (not jealous) that he let th EX do this type thing to him. Helping a friend from time to time is acceptable but abusing ? I dont approve.
I am not a jealous boyfriend, I am just bothered by the whole situation.

Please advise.

2007-01-22 09:41:56 · 13 answers · asked by Vegan 1

I am dating a few guys now but i dot know who to take seriously because they both offer different qualities. One is real attentive and i like him for that but he can at times overwhelm me. the other is awsome a nd i feel real comfortable with him but there are times when he seems not to care like he doesn't call for days but when we are together i am his number one priority. Yet even though he does this i am drawn to him and still call on te other hand with the other guy i like his way of being but i think that he is "bothers me " too much but i think he on the other hand is ready for a relationship what should i do????

2007-01-22 09:41:12 · 2 answers · asked by chiquis_mata 1

2007-01-22 09:39:59 · 59 answers · asked by creamy k 2

May seem stupid I know, but Saturday a female bartender I talked to very briefly, sent a drink to the table I was eating at for me on her dime. When I went to thank her, she had left her number with the other bartender. That was 2 days ago, should I call now? What do I talk about? Help!

2007-01-22 09:39:51 · 23 answers · asked by Jay P 1

Girls always talk about how guys only think about sex but when they meet a guy that they like and he doesn't bring up sex then they start to think his gay and they'll probably stop seeing him. If a guy is bad in the bedroom and this is the only problem in the relationship, the girl will usually leave. So why do girls say sex is not a deal breaker when it is to most of them?

2007-01-22 09:39:04 · 36 answers · asked by jason j 3

my friend and i got drunk and had sex and now shes pregnat and i think its eather late in the eight month or early in the 9th.
she thinks she should eat alot of vestable.
and i say she should eat alot of soup with meat.
but shes been craving alot of nachos. even though shes pregnat she still eats less than me and before she was pregnat she was about 123 or somthin.
i eat alot of soup infact i think thats all i pretty much eat.
and she eats alot of vestables.
but what would be best ?
i want my baby to be healthy and big.
but not fat.

2007-01-22 09:38:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my ex were going out for 2 years, (both 19 now) we both cheated on each other and finished the relationship. we got back together about 6 months later but he had started going out with the girl he cheated on me with and they went out for about 4 months.

anyway, so we got back together, but it was sort of on and off, and then finished it again and i left it that i couldnt trust him because he see's that girl every day.

but i've just realised today that i think i can trust him again, if he can trust me after what i done.

i keep thinking about him but i dont know if its because i actually want him, or because i just want someone who i cant find.

he is interested in going out with me again but he has changed quite a bit now.

im so confused, should we get back together?

2007-01-22 09:38:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am doing a school project! hope you can help me.

2007-01-22 09:38:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have known brian for five years now

we are BEST FRIENDS
its wierd to most people cuz im a girl he's a dude.. but its totally amazing for the two of us

im mean we both have our separate friends but we love eachother ya know?
well i think i might just love him a little more than i lead on..

the problem is, he has a girlfriend. but she is all wrong for him and it is so obvious!

what do i do?

2007-01-22 09:37:38 · 24 answers · asked by gigi 2

As you may guess, I haven't had it yet.. so Is it?

2007-01-22 09:37:25 · 17 answers · asked by SoldierSide 1

okey so one day it was this boy he asked me out and i said yes because i liked him to so he had a friend he liked me too. but now the boy i said yes to doesn't even feelsa liike we are bf and gf please help me?????????????????????????????

2007-01-22 09:37:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and i had sex for the first time this past weekend when we got drunk together. Although he had no problem actually getting an erection, he didn't maitain it for long, and then he didn't even finish. He swears it wasnt me, but I've never had a problem with anyone finishing before, so what was the reason? Would I have to kiss him more, or entertain him with more foreplay?

2007-01-22 09:35:44 · 16 answers · asked by NestleGirl 2

I"M YOUR FRIEND

Im your friend no matter what

Through thick and thin I"M HERE

Never will I harm your mind

Or take away my care



Some words you say are hurtful

Imperfect yet we are

Inside Im cut, BUT YOU CAN"T SEE

The words which wound and scar



Im loyal to you always

An everlasting friend

One day you`ll know just what it means

To journey to all ends

''True friendship is rare to find, yet closer than a hearts desire''

2007-01-22 09:35:19 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is calling too many times needy or sweet?

2007-01-22 09:35:18 · 26 answers · asked by dab1121 2

Ok i am with this guy but i dont see him everyday but always talk to him online but he hasnt been online since Friday and Im very worried he didnt tell me he had to go any where and he wont respond to my messages whats going on??

2007-01-22 09:33:56 · 20 answers · asked by xASHx 2

2007-01-22 09:33:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met this guy on the bus yesterday, and have tried to get rid of his interest ever since. We have absolutely nothing in common, and we talked about a wide range of topics. Secondly, and this is the biggie, his breath smells like smoke and his teeth are completely yellow, my dad smoked for 20 years and quit 3 years ago, I am utterly repulsed by smokers. Third, he kicked my seat over and over until finally talking to me, he is just irritating in general.

I tried to sound like the most boring person today, and yet he continues to be interested in me, and I don't see why.

I have no other form of transportation and he follows me where ever I sit. Oh, and this is high school, I'm 15.

Any advice? =[

2007-01-22 09:33:22 · 5 answers · asked by Katie 3

do they feel better than condoms?

2007-01-22 09:33:09 · 4 answers · asked by qwerty 3

like what does he do....is there anything spacific?...and how can u make sure that he likes u likes u and not only fooling arround?

2007-01-22 09:32:50 · 6 answers · asked by silver_star 1

I've stopped talking to her for 5 weeks because I lost my confidence. Yesterday, she just began wearing different clothes (before she used to wear the same type of colors everyday). Now she would wear red or white instead of black. She even painted her nails. Is she trying to attract me? We aren't in a relationship and I think she likes me. Should I talk to her everyday to show her I like her?

2007-01-22 09:32:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend is dating someone living on the other side of the country but never met him and claims she is in love with him. How does that work?

2007-01-22 09:32:24 · 7 answers · asked by Lila 1

I'm a college student and I don't have a place to stay and alot of bills to pay, (personal loans, credit cards) I need 1 more year of college and Im done so I can go get me a job that pays well. I'm living in my van, it's pretty nice van--has bed, tv, air, and a small table to do my homework. I have been living in this thing for a few months now. I take showers at the local gym.
I'm pretty lonely, but I pray and it gets me through the day.
Anyone has any uplifting words to give me?
thanks.

2007-01-22 09:30:39 · 10 answers · asked by dreamer 1

2007-01-22 09:30:13 · 17 answers · asked by The Inquirer 1

If so.. how much $$$ would you ask for?

2007-01-22 09:29:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

some people tell me they don't like my walk b/c it makes me seem overly cocky. I don't even realize how I walk. So, how should I walk?

2007-01-22 09:29:07 · 4 answers · asked by str8trisor 2

2007-01-22 09:28:30 · 24 answers · asked by ? 6

Ok last night my bf came over. I had to be to work at 5am this morning so he couldn't stay to late. But he asked me what time he should leave, I said 11. Then he said that means 10. So why ask...anyways. Last night I wanted to get intimate with him, which we call "play". So we watched the big football game last night & after that was over I wanted to "play". He said that he needed to go home because I needed to go to sleep. I was totally upset because I wanted to play & he felt like he knew what was best for me, sleep. I thought that was my choice hell I am 26. So I reminded him of what he told me. He dated someone & she would tell him when they can play & when they can't. He hated that. But yet he was doing it to me. Although this is the first time this has happened it has just really upset me. I wanted to play
& he wanted me to go to sleep. I'm trying to be considerate that he cares that I get enough sleep but can't I decide for myself?? Hell I wanted to play. Should I be mad or no

2007-01-22 09:28:05 · 7 answers · asked by browneyegirl 3

Is it?

2007-01-22 09:27:21 · 4 answers · asked by Danielle is a HOT blonde 2

If you meet a shy, quiet woman. About 5' 5'', short brown hair with avange looks. Would you go up to her and chat, get her phone number or not.

2007-01-22 09:26:54 · 16 answers · asked by vicky 3

i just found out that 3 guys like me... one of them is a year younger, but i've known him longer... another one is just a flirt, but i don't know my feelings from him... the other is really cute and he seems to like me alot... i guess i'm cute, but do they think i'm just easy to get, or do they like me for my personality.. i don't want to be one of the easy girls

2007-01-22 09:24:07 · 4 answers · asked by tissna 1