What turns guys off?

Question

Is calling too many times needy or sweet?

Answer 1

very needy don't do this

Answer 2

Once while my guy and I were doing it I said "I wonder if we can have grilled cheese for lunch tomorrow!?"

Or the time we were making out and I said "Sorry if i've been drooling on you for the last 30 seconds, I was trying to figure out if you had socks on or not."

Yes, these are true.
While they may not have turned him off, they certainly stopped him from thinking about sex for at least a few seconds.

Calling too many times, I do consider somewhat needy. Guys don't really like it, they think of it more as nagging. When you get the urge to call and "checkup" or whatever, just find something else to do. Have a "go-to" hobby that you can do instead of calling him. I'm sure he'll appreciate it.

Answer 3

What's too many times? Like... 30 times? Thats a little much.

I think its important for people in a relationship to have space. No one wants to feel like they're being smothered by the person they're with. If you see each other every day, you really don't need to be calling each other 24/7. If you don't see each other every day, then 1 call a day is fine (and maybe some text messages to go with it.)

Another thing, if a guy is going out with his friends and his girlfriend calls him 8 million times to see where he is and what he's doing and yada yada yada - that just shows that she doesn't trust him and it gets old very fast.

General rule of thumb - distance makes the heart grow fonder. Don't over do it - or you'll loose your mystique. Make him wonder a little and he'll keep comin back for more.

Answer 4

NEEDY, OBSESSIVE, COMPULSIVE! (Gotta have a life!)

Relationship will burn out & get old real fast!

Guys are naturally drawn to what is called "the thrill of the chase" or "the challenge". It isn't about "games". It is about the way guys & girls are "wired" & we happen to be wired very differently from one another.

I've read these first two books cover-to-cover, and I can attest, THESE PRINCIPLES WORK LIKE A CHARM! The first title should not be taken in its literal sense. I've skimmed through the third book, which also has some good perspectives from me. I would definitely suggest putting these on your "MUST" list.

Answer 5

Needy. It is NOT sweet to be called a bunch of times to just chit chat. It is clingly and needy. It isn't only guys that gets turned off, women do as well. Guy or gal that calls a bunch of times has INSECURE & IMMATURE written all over them. I dump them fast.

Answer 6

Depends. If you are calling for no reason i.e. checking up on him, seeing what he's doing, what he did. It's needy. Calling him once or twice a day to say something sweet or trying to make plans is ok. Don't call every day telling him your whole day. It gets old really quick.

Answer 7

Truly, that depends on the man, but most times calling too much relays to needy.

Answer 8

Dats needy call him like 3 times a day but not everyday cuz he might get sick of datn u

Answer 9

Depends on the guy. If he's feeling overwhelmed, maybe you need to talk to another friend. "Too many times" is specific to the situation and does not apply across the board.

Answer 10

(Most Guys) tend to see a conquest as Old News. Just be yourself! It's an old saying. but it's the best way. Don't go overboard on ANTING. And don't let him convince you that he knows what to do. He's a Guy. Who wants to own you. Stick to your Guns. You know what's best for you. if you're that good for him. He'll play your Tune.

Answer 11

to tell u the truth anything cann turn a guy off... think what turns you off. But my best guess is self consciousness. guys like very confident gurls who are pretty inside and out