My boyfriend and i had sex for the first time this past weekend when we got drunk together. Although he had no problem actually getting an erection, he didn't maitain it for long, and then he didn't even finish. He swears it wasnt me, but I've never had a problem with anyone finishing before, so what was the reason? Would I have to kiss him more, or entertain him with more foreplay?
2007-01-22 09:35:44 · 16 answers · asked by NestleGirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To KIB, We used a condom, and I have an IUD, thanks for the advice but I wasn't looking to share something special with him, not just experience an orgasm although that is always nice.
2007-01-22 09:55:08 · update #1
I think he is gay - sorry ,, oh yeah e mail me a picture of you naked - thanks
2007-01-22 09:43:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible that he had too much alcohol FOR HIM. This has nothing to do with you or with anyone you have had before. If the problem occurs without the alcohol, then it is time to see a doctor and find out whether there is some physical condition to deal with. The most likely thing is that he had too much to drink, and the effect that you described is common under those circumstances. It is even mentioned in Shakespeare's "The Merry Wives of Windsor" Don't worry, just try again sober. You both will certainly enjoy each other more that way. Good luck!
2007-01-22 17:43:42 · answer #2 · answered by no 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he still under 40 years old, he should not have a problem maintaning his erection. If that persist, he should conult a doctor. I am saying this because even though I am drunk, I still managed to get through the 'process' and it takes even longer.
Maybe next time, try not to drink too much and use a lot of foreplay to prepare both of you for the big 'fight'.
All the best.
2007-01-22 18:13:38 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know if he has finished wih anybody else. Do you know if he has exposed you to HIV? Do you know if you have exposed him to HIV considering there is a two year gestation period for the virus? Remember condoms do not stop HIV !! If you get pregnant then you will know he finished and then you must decide whether to keep or give you baby away or kill it. Are you ready to face those choces. Are you ready to get tested for HIV. You must every time you have sex with another partner. Thats why marriage is suppose to be reserved for sex. Sex is for multipling, not your expressions of love or gratification. There are other things to consider that are more important than your orgasm. Grow up, a lot depends on it.
2007-01-22 17:49:26 · answer #4 · answered by KIB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was probably very drunk. That happens to a lot of guys if they have been drinking a lot. I wouldn't even give it another thought.
Sorry I am a girl, but I just thought I could help
2007-01-22 17:44:15 · answer #5 · answered by tinytinkbell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alcohol was the problem. Probably too much.
Also, if this was his first time there could have been performance anxiety issues with that.
2007-01-22 17:40:09 · answer #6 · answered by crzyanl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drinking and then having sex isn't always a good combination.
Sounds like he was suffering from "whiskey dick".
How about trying it sober next time?
2007-01-22 17:40:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it was not you chances are it was the alcohol. and let me guess did this happen really late in the evening like at 2 am if so the guy was tierd...........PS not to be rude but another reason could be he took care of him self earlier not knowing he was going to get lucky
2007-01-22 17:44:29 · answer #8 · answered by Bruce B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hallo
i live from the india
drink is being good
drunk sex is being fun
i be give good boomboom
you want?
pussey
yes thats who the boyfriend be having
drink **** jew cant get bonar
that are never happened to i before
india be have good sex
wild thing
pussey with the no bonar
kick his **** as
be haveing funny
bye bye
2007-01-22 17:48:31 · answer #9 · answered by Patrick C 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Damn probably cuz he was drunk and 2 tired but i would say entertain him
2007-01-22 17:41:38 · answer #10 · answered by Chino 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him not to drink so much next time. He had a case of the whiskey d i c k.
2007-01-22 17:38:55 · answer #11 · answered by PS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋