Singles & Dating - 19 January 2007

My ex-boyfriend dumped me a year ago, yet last week he called me and asked me to go see a movie with him. I went with him, he picked me up & after the movie he just took me home.On the drive home, when I asked him why he wanted to see me, he said that he wants to see me 'every once in awhile'. Why does he wanna hang out and see me once in awhile, when we only dated for one month? By the way, we never had sex during our relationship cuz he knew that I wanna save myself for marriage. We would cuddle, kiss, hug, & hold hands, it was a pure & beautiful thing. Even AFTER he ended it, he would still say hi to me on msn, so we did communicate during this yr. albeit only by msn. We just never met up & he never called me until that day he asked to go see a movie, after the yr. Did he just miss me or does he have bad intentions? He's in Asia now, but comes back in one month. Should I ask for coffee one time, but just as friends? He's 26 & more experienced while I'm 21 & he was my first bf.

2007-01-19 14:36:05 · 5 answers · asked by Hottie 1

He sits on the toilette instead of standing up!

2007-01-19 14:35:21 · 7 answers · asked by K 2

anyone have tips on what guys like in "getting to know eachother" ? like what exactly do they want?

2007-01-19 14:35:06 · 4 answers · asked by shopaholic612612 1

I broke up with him a week ago A couple of days ago I heard him talking to his friend about this girl he liked, I thought that they were kidding bc while we were going out he kept saying, I love you so much that I wont go out with another girl til 7 grade if we break up! I OBVIOUSLY believed him, I also forgot to mention that this kid lyed to me, cheated on me, and flirted with every girl that he met. He also broke ALOT of promises that he made. yesterday on the bus home my friend ben said that my x told him who he liked , i didnt believ him. That night i talked to my x online and he said that he didnt like ANOYONE but me even tough were not together. Today at lunch he asked out another girl, but he DID ask my permission, I said that I didnt care and I hated him (but I still like him!) and he asked ehr out and she said no. Im in 6 grade and today at lunch I was crying and cursing and trying to hide it from my friends and finally told them, then my x ignored me the rest of the day!

2007-01-19 14:32:08 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-19 14:31:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do beautiful women get sick of being hit on? Do they wish that average guys would just leave them alone? Do they appreciate their own sexual power and know that others envy them? Do they appreciate the fact that they can get laid anytime they want while most people, especially guys, just dream of such opportunity?

2007-01-19 14:29:31 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend has been mad at me for a long tie and i want her to forgive and i do not even know what i did. plz help

2007-01-19 14:29:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, so we are both 15, and we mostly see each other at school. Thing is, we don't have any classes together now. So basically we never see each other. he doesn't really make much effort to call me or anything. Sometimes I call him, but we usually have awkward silences and the conversations don't last long. I do believe him when he says he really cares about me, though, and I know he wants to be with me. My question isn't about that, I just needed to provide some background. Because now what i want to do is talk to him about the effort going into the relationship and how we can make more time. But I really don't want to do this over the phone, or email, obviously. Where do you think would be a good place to go to just talk to him, face to face? And how do I tell him I need to talk to him without worrying him? But mainly the first question. And neither of our houses are an option. His mom is overprotective and won't let him here and at his house we would not have any chance to talk.

2007-01-19 14:28:19 · 5 answers · asked by Kesie 1

omg i hate my boyfriend when hes around his friends! he tryes to grab my *** and he swears, and is just an ***!! hes so sweet when its me and him or even with my friends around but he shows off in front of his friends. i know hes a good guy so why does he do that in front of his friends. Hes even told some of the 'jocks' thats hes 'done' me! i yelled at him and hes stoped but why would he say that? i know it makes him seem really really bad but he really is a good guy!

2007-01-19 14:28:11 · 3 answers · asked by Sumer 2

Well, this guy likes me and well hes kinda a jerk in school and im pretty popular. He said im beautiful and asked me out 2 days ago. We went on a date and today at school classmates and other friends were kind of making fun of me that im going out with a jerk like dat. But i kinda do like him. Also today, i broke up with him because i couldnt take the teasing anymore, and to my friends i lied that i never liked him i was just trying to be nice to him by going out. But what i feel is not waht i say. In my head, i still like the guy a lil. Should i tell him to start over or just ignore him?

2007-01-19 14:27:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have always (and will always) believe that there is no excuse for cheating on someone your in a relationship with. This past week i found out that a co-worker was the cheater. After talking about it with him he told me how he wasn't really interested in the relationship anymore. He said that "it just happened" and later said that he wasn't sure if he was really interested in his partner anymore but didn't have the heart to tell her face to face. She was blindsided when she found out (the other woman confessed) and is devestated becuase she had no indication that anything is amiss. She wants to try salvage the relationship but he is finally gonna end it because he realized that she can never really trust him again and doesn't really want to be in it anymore. I know if i were to ask my partner if he is satisfied with the realtionship, he will say yes because he doesn't want to hurt me even if he does want out.

2007-01-19 14:27:57 · 1 answers · asked by ? 3

Ok, I've been with the same guy for 3 years now and he shows no signs of ever wanting to get married. He's 31 and I'm 26, so there is no great hurry or anything and I'm certainly not in the business of pushing someone to marriage. If the topic even comes up, even if I'm not the one to mention it (which I rarely do) he freaks out and goes into the whole "stand up funeral" bit. I just don't understand his deal because being an EBG (everything but girl) I figured he would have left a long time ago, whether he loved me or not. (not that I want him to go away, don't take that wrong, just I know the average guy - 3 months and they are gone.) So what's his deal, guys? Is he just lying to me about the prospect of ever getting married (not that I'm in a hurry!) or is he just playing mind games with me. How long am I supposed to wait? I'm not getting any younger here!

2007-01-19 14:27:37 · 2 answers · asked by DebEgirl 3

thers this guy i really like, but he can b such a jerk sometimes I mean we talk in class and flirt and he smiles at me like no other, but he i such an a** the rest of the time, like Il walk up and I will say hi and he will b like: what do you want? and other stuf like that. I never get 2 talk 2 him out of classes then cause he just idk is different. what does this mean, I dont understand him.

2007-01-19 14:27:10 · 1 answers · asked by Lindsey S 1

should i just give up?

2007-01-19 14:26:24 · 3 answers · asked by sofia 3

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2007-01-19 14:24:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I broke up with him a week ago A couple of days ago I heard him talking to his friend about this girl he liked, I thought that they were kidding bc while we were going out he kept saying, I love you so much that I wont go out with another girl til 7 grade if we break up! I OBVIOUSLY believed him, I also forgot to mention that this kid lyed to me, cheated on me, and flirted with every girl that he met. He also broke ALOT of promises that he made. yesterday on the bus home my friend ben said that my x told him who he liked , i didnt believ him. That night i talked to my x online and he said that he didnt like ANOYONE but me even tough were not together. Today at lunch he asked out another girl, but he DID ask my permission, I said that I didnt care and I hated him (but I still like him!) and he asked ehr out and she said no. Im in 6 grade and today at lunch I was crying and cursing and trying to hide it from my friends and finally told them, then my x ignored me the rest of the day!

2007-01-19 14:21:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

See, I like this girl alot but I'm way to shy to talk to her. HELP!!!!!!

2007-01-19 14:21:08 · 11 answers · asked by skarface 1

2007-01-19 14:20:48 · 24 answers · asked by B 3

2007-01-19 14:19:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-19 14:18:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Be honest! Considering that some girl was the nicest, sweetest, friendliest, funniest person you've ever met, would you ever date her if she was:

a) obese (meaning at least 200lbs)
b) really ugly (like, very unnattractive)
c) was butch (pretty defined biceps and dragged you to the gym to a bench-pressing contest)

Just want to know the honest answer b/c a lot of people would say, "Yes, if they had a GREAT personality!"

2007-01-19 14:18:37 · 23 answers · asked by Christy J 1

when nice guys like us are all over the place,
virtually ignored.

2007-01-19 14:16:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

The last 5 girls I either dated or slept with were cute to me. But, after meeting them or seeing their pics, my friends and family tell me they thought she would be better looking. What does that say about me? That I'm into ugly girls now? One friend told me she thought I'd be with hotter girls. WTF?

2007-01-19 14:14:18 · 8 answers · asked by Dick Richie 2

Let me first start off by saying: I'm Confused!!

There's a guy I met not too long ago at my church who I befriended. One Sunday, we were designated as the primary organizers of the annual "Nursing Home Visit" program [Hence, this is how he got my number]

To make a long story short, any time we talk, we can go on from as little as 30 minutes to hours--just talking. In fact, recently we were both coming from a church program and happened to be getting on the same bus ----and we BOTH missed our bus stops because we were so focused on our conversation with one another. Any time we talk, it just -flows.

He's not drop-dead gorgeous or something out of a magazine, but he's certainly Not ugly.

Any advice?

2007-01-19 14:13:13 · 25 answers · asked by What gives? 5

ok, there is this guy that I go to school with, (we'll call him "Z") and he was going with this one girl "C". Well C cheated on Z a few monthes ago and they broke up, but then got back together. they've been together for like 4 months now and they broke up today, and I feel like it was my fault.....
Z's a flurt, and I love him to death as a friend, and we were going to go out, but I didn't want to loose the frindship. well the other day we skiped school together (me, him, his bro, the bro's GF, and B and M) and we were hanging out. Well C's friend said that she saw me and Z making out or something like that. So C broke up with Z (with a letter BTW!! Chicken-****!) and that was it. well, I'm kinda happy they broke up 'cause she was a beach and always talking crap about anybody that EVER talked to Z. well, I broke up with the guy I was going out with today too (Z didn't know about that at the time) and now me and Z are like talking on the phone right now and he said that he wants to

2007-01-19 14:12:30 · 4 answers · asked by ♥femme fatale♥ 2

a lot of my friends have dates to the formal already and they are always talking about it and i feel so left out. i don't want to ask a guy myself but i'm afraid that i won't get a date and miss out on all the fun. what should i do :(

2007-01-19 14:09:49 · 9 answers · asked by that girl♥ 1

i know i keep asking about the same topick but i need to know why the guy i like is doing this
i already asked if he likes me bc he teases me, and most said, yes but i'm tired of waiting for him

anyways
i was @ school at a desk on a laptop
and he came and sat down on my chair, and just watched me
now, he did ask if i was down, bc he was on the laptop, but
he wasn't rushing me like he normally does to others
he gives me some, this might sound cheesy, but smiles that he just is hiding something
how should i give the que as to i like him
i do already do smiling, i sometimes approach him, and go along with his teasings

I think he likes me but hasn't really been serious about asking me out
I CAN'T figure this one out
ps, i've liked him since he teased me first 2 years ago

2007-01-19 14:09:40 · 7 answers · asked by cjkdi l 1

2007-01-19 14:09:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-19 14:07:57 · 26 answers · asked by marlene 1

There's this guy I work with. I just found out today he's got a huge crush on me. At first I was interested (he seems like a nice enough guy and he's very, very shy), but found out he has a kid.

Now, I love kids and want kids one day, but I don't want to date a guy with a kid. Selfish, I know. When I said I wouldn't date him because he has a kid he called me "shallow." I've never been called shallow in my life. It's just my preference to not date a guy with kids or an ex-wife.

Another coworker told me I crushed this guy and he was depressed for the rest of his shift.

What would you do in this situation? Should I give him a chance or stick to my guns?

What would you do in this situation.

2007-01-19 14:06:25 · 7 answers · asked by Misty Eyes 6