See, I like this girl alot but I'm way to shy to talk to her. HELP!!!!!!
2007-01-19 14:21:08 · 11 answers · asked by skarface 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well its OBVIOUS that you should talk to her, im in 7th grade right now, and im SO not interested in guys that just look at me, it acually gets annoying when guys do that. well anyways first ask her questions that need an acual response not like something that would just need a yes or no. i recommend something like askng her what her classes are, when you know that then ask her what you do in the next class you have, that she already had. if its a mean teacher then ask her if she likes him/her. if she says no then bad-mouth him a little (not much, over-doing this can result badly) make her laugh and try to continue the conversation with anything. dont do this during class when the teacher is talking or when you are suppose to be doing something, during class when the teacher doesnt really care about talking is the best time, dont bug her when it looks like she is doing something. or try before class, lunch or after classes or walk her to her next class if its on your way (only do the last thing when you strike up a conversation with her and its clear that she likes you and if there isnt a big difference in height because she might be embarrsed by it a little, but if it doesnt seem to bug her then go for it) if shes only half listening then dont talk to her out of class if she's with her friends. it might be a while. one guy was trying to talk to me like the way ive explained and it took me 2-3 weeks to get to my full myselfness with him. just be your self when you get her to be herself and it'll all be o.k
2007-01-19 14:37:05 · answer #1 · answered by Candy!!!!!!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the first and best thing to remember is to be nice, and be yourself. It's okay to clam up, because it happens to the best of us, but my advice is to keep it simple.
First, if you really like her, let her know it in a small way by complimenting her on something. Tell her you like her shirt, or her shoes. Or if she's done something particularly well in class, compliment her on that.
Just strike up a conversation with her from that. And go with the things you have in common. If she's in the same class, talk about the class, and let things go from there. You'd be surprised, I think, at the things you probably have in common.
Just remember that if she's really stuck up, she won't want anything to do with you, and honestly, do you want to like someone like that anyway? I would say probably not. But if you take the time to get to know her, and you find that you have some things in common, you'll probably wind up liking her for who she is, not just for what she looks like.
But at the end of the day, just remember to be a gentleman. Don't put up a front, and definitely don't be macho.
Keep your chin up; you'll be okay. Best of luck to you. :)
2007-01-19 14:31:02 · answer #2 · answered by White Dude X 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all don't be ashame of being shy. That's very normal at your age. Don't try to be 'cool' or 'suave'. Its way too difficult to pretend something you're not. Instead do you best to work up the courage to just say 'hello, my name is...what's yours' or 'hi'. Don't say things like 'I think you cute' or 'I like you'. This is way too much pressure for girls at this age. Ask questions about the easy stuff like 'what is your favorite TV show'. And if you get nervous and mess up...Let it slide and be yourself
2007-01-19 14:29:30 · answer #3 · answered by lostlatinlover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I like a dude straight up with me, but if you shy start just being friends with her then maybe ask her to be your girlfriend when you have built up enough courage.
2007-01-19 14:28:13 · answer #4 · answered by ........... 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am in 7th grade and we love it if we know a guy likes us. (just in case)i would have a friend go over and ask what she thinks of you so you don't have to face rejection right away.
2007-01-19 14:25:17 · answer #5 · answered by meg_grace_meg 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just face your fears and ask her out. Us girls do not like to have to ask guys out.
- Good luck and DONT be nervous.
p.s. Don't try to impress her. You will just make your self look more like a dummy.
2007-01-19 14:48:30 · answer #6 · answered by Bridget 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you know anything about her- hobbies, what kind of music she likes, any interests she has...
find out what she's into, do a little research on it ,and talk to her about it. girls like it when you take an interest in things that they are interested in.
2007-01-19 14:25:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just go up to her and ask her for sumthin or just say hi
2007-01-19 14:24:14 · answer #8 · answered by dee_dee A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok, i am in 6th grade...so i dunno but i think the worst thing u could do is hide ur feelings...nothing worse than having the person u love not ever no u loved them...
2007-01-19 14:25:42 · answer #9 · answered by Janai 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be polite.
2007-01-19 14:23:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋