Singles & Dating - 13 January 2007

I am a single mom on a "low budget" and can't really afford another expenditure. I live in a super small village in central Illinois. Any ideas on how a 47 year old, attractive, quality woman can find a quality man?

2007-01-13 10:51:56 · 10 answers · asked by rainbowgypzy 1

ok.. my best friend(michelle) was dating my other best friend(Allen). I met both of them about the same time and from the first time that i met Allen i've always been attracted to his personality. I've known them for over a year now and i've been falling more and more in love with allen. LAst year, Michelle knew how i felt about him and still decided to date him. Now they broke up and me and allen are always together and hanging out. I want to date him and he wants to be with me too but Michelle will TOTALLY flip because she claims that she still loves him. If i were to start dating him, she'd hate me forever and i don't want that. What am i supposed to do????

2007-01-13 10:50:05 · 21 answers · asked by ***Suga lips*** 1

What do all the things he does mean?Please HELP!
Help me out with this male body language please.
My boyfriend will
1-Stand in front of me while im sitting and talk to me while looking down at me
2-He will start biting his nails after we kiss or cuddle (is that like a"bono-er"thing)
3-Hes always trying to look me straight in the eyes but I've never really been comfortable looking people directly in the eyes so why does he do this?
4-If we're play fighting or something he always has to end up the winner or the one who restrains
5-Hes always saying things like"if you do that again imma tackle you but Id do it gently"
6-And we just started(french kissing) an when we're kissing hes always pushing his tounge in my mouth even when I'll back away a bit(usually when were laying down watchin a movie)
7-An we will be sitting down like on a bed and he'll like playfully push me down onto the bed and lay all his weight on me.
8-An he will get angry or ignore it if I talk about guy friends

2007-01-13 10:49:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

guys what kind of a girl you would mostly like to date..how do you want your girl to look like and act like...please answer ..thaks guys.

2007-01-13 10:49:03 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im starting to stop over at my boyfriends house. We eat late and i get an upset tummy and i need to "pop out some wind" when we are in bed. But i cant do it cos im embarrased but i end up in agonising pain and cant sleep. Now im thinking about not staying at his cos when im at home i can "pop wind " all night and sleep,but this would offend him cos he would think i dont want to sleep with him......What would he think if i was to "pop" we have been together 4 months...

2007-01-13 10:48:41 · 17 answers · asked by itsallgood 2

ok I'm 15....THis girl is really pretty...and I wanna get to know her better...but...I've never even talked to her before.....like only for 5 minute.and thats it...but..I think she's "talking" to someone..but all her friends say I have a chance........that they heard her talkin good about me to her bestfriend.now..I wanna ask her best friend, if I have a shot, cuz she would know, and I just dont wanna come outa the blue, and ask the girl...and..i wanna get her email adreessss also, ...like I said..ive never talked to her..so I need some good advice...and shes popular..and so am I, and not tryin to be cocky, but I'm good lookin...i just need soem good advice..oh yeah ..im 15..shes 13..and Im focusing on my studies as well..so ..yeah.. but like yesterday..she wouldnt' even look at me..idk why?.( thats when she found out I liked her)..oh yeah...her friend " aproves" of me.so would it be bad 2 ask her wut she knows?..i can get her email from a friend..is that a bad idea

2007-01-13 10:48:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

just out of curiosity, what cologne do u prefer to smell on ur guy or on a guy???? any Favorites? or Do u not care what cologne he wears?

2007-01-13 10:46:54 · 20 answers · asked by oc 4

i have been dating this guy for 7 months and i love him todeath but when we first started dating every time i saw him i would get butterfly's but for the pasy few weeks i dont get them any more is this a sign for the end or is it normal please help!

2007-01-13 10:46:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

and do you like it or not? why or why not?

2007-01-13 10:45:49 · 19 answers · asked by Rawr! 1

I went to a holiday party a week ago & introduced myself to the bartender... a little drunkenly I might add. I didn't make a fool of myself, but promised him I would have a drink with him when he got off work that night. Problem was, I needed a friend to drive me home so I missed the drink. I called the bartender later that evening & apologized but told him I would still like to hang out at some point & gave him my cell #. He even remembered my name & said he would call sometime later in the week... I ended up calling him at the bar later in the week (2 days ago) just to say hey. He said he had been really busy with work & wanted to know what I was up to on Sunday (tomorrow) & said he would call me this weekend to decide on time. He was very friendly, talked to me for about 5 minutes, called me hon etc etc... So now what?? If I don't hear from him, should I call to firm up plans? Or just show up at the bar tomorrow (because he told me he was working tomorrow) & say a friendly hello?

2007-01-13 10:45:39 · 8 answers · asked by Kells 1

ok, been with b/f over two years, things ok, but all of a sudden he wont come near me, we just been away for the weekend, and four nights in a row he said he was tired and turned his back on me! now this guy had a sex drive to beat the band. he is working really hard at college and nnothing major has happened in the relationship to cause this. he wont come near me at all and he is barely talking to me! any ideas on whats going on, guys, is he really just stressed and tired or should i be taking a major hint?

2007-01-13 10:44:02 · 19 answers · asked by cookie 85 2

i cut myself. but i know thats not the right way to deal with things.
help?

2007-01-13 10:43:33 · 17 answers · asked by ___alice 1

Ok, so my name is Cristina and I'm blonde, green-eyed, skinny, cute, tall and smart. So, guys tell me I'm hot but am I really? I'm having so much trouble finding a guy who likes me for me not my appereance. What do you guys look for in a girl?

2007-01-13 10:43:11 · 12 answers · asked by Cristina 1

I'm 17 years old now and have always been the shy girl but I see I have really improved .I'm not as quiet as I used to be when I look back a few years ago. It takes me awhile to open up to people and be outgoing and funny. I act so different around friends. With guys I'm too quiet. Guys always try and talk to me but I don't know what to say I just get too nervous and look stupid. Then I come off looking stuck up or whatever. That's why I hardly ever date or have a boyfriend. Guys want the flirty, outgoing girl. I can be that once I get to know a guy better but I don't know. I need help. I don't want to be single forever.

2007-01-13 10:37:38 · 23 answers · asked by kellz 1

How old were you & what did it take for you to give up your V-card?

2007-01-13 10:37:28 · 32 answers · asked by karolina 1

ok tonight is the night..i'm meeting this guy i've been wanting to meet for a while and i'm SCARED TO DEATH...i think i'm going to be sick, seriously..i need some support PLEASE..lol..be rude if you want, i dont care.

2007-01-13 10:36:49 · 8 answers · asked by atreyu17244 2

i am mates with 2 people, who are going out with each other. i have known the boy for over 10 years, and am really close with him. i have known the girl for 4 years, but am good friends with her too. they have been going out with each other for over a year now, but recently i found out that she is cheating on him. she trusts me as a close friend, and tells me when she is going out with this other boy. my problem is - do i tell my boy mate that she is cheating on him. he would be crushed, and i would lose her as a friend. what do i do? i dont want to hurt anyone, but i think its too late! HELP!

2007-01-13 10:36:47 · 53 answers · asked by xhxbananaxx 2

ok, so i wrote a luv note 2 this girl, but i put it in her locker instead of just gvin it 2 her cuz i wanna 2 be a lil interesting. i did it on friday. and then at the end of the day, she found it, read it and so does all of her friends know bout it. now i kinda feel a lil unsure bout wut 2 do. i dont know her that well and she hangs out wit ppl i dont even hav clue who they r. should i go 2 her and tell her or something else? wut do i do on monday or do i do anything at all?Girls, let say that u got that note, wut would u want me 2 do??plzzz help. thank u so much.

2007-01-13 10:35:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well there are some good chances of her likeing me below

1.asking for a candy cane
2.When going home on bus i realized she was staring at me,i statred back
3. we play the looking game (she looks at me and i look back,this went on for a couple minutes

i like her

So two questions

1. does she like me ?????
2.i am shy know if she likes me what do i ????

2007-01-13 10:35:22 · 2 answers · asked by Sammyo 2

2007-01-13 10:34:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok i called this girl to wish her happy birthday we went out on 2 dates before she hasent called me in a couple of days like 5 days i did leave a message on her machine to call me when she gets home she never called should i just move on

2007-01-13 10:33:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

just wondering...

2007-01-13 10:33:18 · 12 answers · asked by punkontheinside04 2

I have a wierd problem. I used to really like a girl in 8th grade, but for one reason or another I never asked her out, and I felt terrible about it. Now, in the middle of 9th grade, I finnally asked her out, but she said that she was busy this weekend. Here's the basic conversation, with names and screen names changed.

Me: hey
her: hey
me: whats' up?
her: nmu
me: nothing much
me: how's school?
her: john, i must say. you ask the most boring questions/
me: lol we haven't talked in a while, im sorry
me: ill ask something more interesting then
me: do you want to go see a movie with me sometime this weekend?
me: i havent seen you in a while
her: lol aw im sorry im busy all this weekend
me: that's ok
me: so what's another interesting question i can ask you?
her: i do not know.


so basically, I'm really kinda hurt. I think that saying someone's boring is a terrible thing to say. I actually am interesting and a little wild almost in person, but over the internet, i dont know, i just ...

2007-01-13 10:30:36 · 15 answers · asked by Nope 2

i like this boy and he likes me to but my best friend also likes him would i be a good friend if i went out with him

2007-01-13 10:30:11 · 30 answers · asked by tierra b 1

My ex-boyfriend dumped me a year ago, yet last week he called me and asked me to go see a movie with him. I went with him, he picked me up & after the movie he just took me home.On the drive home, when I asked him why he wanted to see me, he said that he wants to see me 'every once in awhile'. Why does he wanna hang out and see me once in awhile, when we only dated for one month? By the way, we never had sex during our relationship cuz he knew that I wanna save myself for marriage. We would cuddle, kiss, hug, & hold hands, it was a pure & beautiful thing. Even AFTER he ended it, he would still say hi to me on msn, so we did communicate during this yr. albeit only by msn. We just never met up & he never called me until that day he asked to go see a movie, after the yr. Does he feel guilty for dumping me & wanted to feel better by taking me out or did he miss me & wanna be friends? He's in Asia now, but comes back in one month. Should I ask for coffee one time, but just as friends?

2007-01-13 10:29:57 · 10 answers · asked by Hottie 1

this guy that i really like at my school told me that he liked me (on halloween). now yesterday i asked him if he really ment it and he siad "no i never liked you i just said that to get people to stop asking me." But now he makes sure i can't hate him and doesn't stop touching me. so what should i do? i can't get my mind off of him and he is like one of my best friends right now. he is always there when i need him and shares his deepest thoughts with me reather than anyone else. and if i need something he finds away to get it for me. like my ride after school fell through one time and he conned his parents into giving me a ride even though the car was for two and there were three of us. (talk about close and personal) and his parents even like me better than all of his other friends. they were also like quizzing me on what my parents did and what i plan to do. he's sweet and goofy whereas the nother guys at our school are either jerks or takein because the girls outnumber the guys.

2007-01-13 10:29:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-13 10:29:08 · 15 answers · asked by sherry312 3

I notice in the corner of my eye i don't check them
Sometimes i think i'm better looking than any boyfriend they might have.
Half of them are pretty. (SWEET!) lol

2007-01-13 10:28:33 · 6 answers · asked by Some Dude 3

every guy i have dated have like my butt and i always wondered why. its nice that they do but god they dn't have to say it every 5 mins. i like how a guy will tell me that i do but not every day i need to hear it.

2007-01-13 10:27:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I like this man and I get the vibes he likes me. This man has a girlfriend and I have a boyfriend although both of us are having problems with them. I am looking to leave my boyfriend soon but because I really like this man I want to know whether he has genuine feelings for me or is just out for a fling. I have said in passing that I would never have affairs or one night stands and his behaviour towards me has stayed the same. Does anyone have any experience of this, knowing how to tell. He is in a position of authority and is a lovely kind caring person, loads of people say so. He is shy around me and seems to be crushing big time. My gut says hes not after a fling. I haven't had that much experience with this kind of scenario so some clues would be good. Is there anything I can ask or do to get the general idea?

2007-01-13 10:27:21 · 7 answers · asked by Michele 3