My ex-boyfriend dumped me a year ago, yet last week he called me and asked me to go see a movie with him. I went with him, he picked me up & after the movie he just took me home.On the drive home, when I asked him why he wanted to see me, he said that he wants to see me 'every once in awhile'. Why does he wanna hang out and see me once in awhile, when we only dated for one month? By the way, we never had sex during our relationship cuz he knew that I wanna save myself for marriage. We would cuddle, kiss, hug, & hold hands, it was a pure & beautiful thing. Even AFTER he ended it, he would still say hi to me on msn, so we did communicate during this yr. albeit only by msn. We just never met up & he never called me until that day he asked to go see a movie, after the yr. Does he feel guilty for dumping me & wanted to feel better by taking me out or did he miss me & wanna be friends? He's in Asia now, but comes back in one month. Should I ask for coffee one time, but just as friends?
2007-01-13 10:29:57 · 10 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Despite his experience with other girls does he really want a good girl like me at heart?Is he still attracted to me if he wants to hang out even as friends? He's 26 in grad school while I'm 21 & finishing university.
2007-01-13 10:30:39 · update #1
Sounds like even though he dumped you he still has some kind of connection with you. It could be that he does have feelings and dumped you so he could go and satisfy his sexual needs without compromising your virtue. It could also be that he really thinks of you as a true friend. Perhaps he just wanted to see you to see if he still felt the connection as before. Don't waste time thinking about it, if he calls he calls, if not he was just checking his feelings. Go on with your life, you could miss out on Mr. Right by sitting around asking yourself all these questions.
2007-01-13 10:39:57 · answer #1 · answered by DONNA M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful. If he is not seeing you a lot, he is probably with someone else and if he hurt you once, he could do it again. Don't let him cheat you. Talk to some older girlfriends about him so that they can give you better advice. Men can be scum and it would suck if he just strung you along. He probably is hanging out with you when he has no one else.
If you want to be friends, go with him for coffee but not always. Turn him down sometimes so that he can learn that you too have a life. Don't let your heart get caught up in a situation that you are unsure about. Always protect your heart.
2007-01-13 10:38:06 · answer #2 · answered by JiveSly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No coffee maybe he thinks you are the one or maybe he wnats to say he bagged a virgin
your call you know him and you are the best one to determine where he is coming from
I hope this helps
2007-01-13 10:35:48 · answer #3 · answered by msijg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You asked this like a million times in the past week or so I think? I already answered it. Look at your other questions.
2007-01-13 10:33:25 · answer #4 · answered by Mara D 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think he may still have feelings for you and he miss you. He may realized what a good thing he had with you.
2007-01-13 10:37:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He still has feelings for you hon. But keep your virginity, he might just be seeing if you would give up the skins, don't do it!!!
2007-01-13 10:34:23 · answer #6 · answered by M. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he wants to get back together with you, or he just wants you guys to stay friends
2007-01-13 10:37:15 · answer #7 · answered by Gunz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe I read the whole thing.
2007-01-13 10:35:06 · answer #8 · answered by Bobbi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is either calling you because he is lonely or he feels some regrets...I would go with lonely and desperate
2007-01-13 10:34:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
apparently he realized what a good thing he lost when he dumped you, good for you in your morals.......
2007-01-13 10:34:46 · answer #10 · answered by debi_0712 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋