ok, been with b/f over two years, things ok, but all of a sudden he wont come near me, we just been away for the weekend, and four nights in a row he said he was tired and turned his back on me! now this guy had a sex drive to beat the band. he is working really hard at college and nnothing major has happened in the relationship to cause this. he wont come near me at all and he is barely talking to me! any ideas on whats going on, guys, is he really just stressed and tired or should i be taking a major hint?
2007-01-13 10:44:02 · 19 answers · asked by cookie 85 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
p.s, im 21, he 25!
2007-01-13 10:44:59 · update #1
oh n its his final year too
2007-01-13 10:46:48 · update #2
Even if it is not a major hint, if he won`t tell you what is going on he is showing you how he will treat you in the future. It is emotional abuse and reflects an immature person. Pack up and go if he won`t talk and fix what is going on.
2007-01-13 10:49:49 · answer #1 · answered by Therapist King 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
at the starting up, please end utilising 'textual content lang' this isn't a textual content message, and your not utilising a cellular telephone! It makes it difficult to appreciate, that is bloody stressful and also you're a lot less probable to get solutions. Now on your question: i visit keep in mind that you're transforming into annoyed, truly once you attempt to exhibit him love, affection and help and he's pushing you away. you truly want to consult him about why he's being so off. Ask him even if that is because of his Dad or is there something else? clarify that you keep in mind that he's dealing with a nasty ordeal, and that you'd be there for him, yet that you're feeling slightly low and unloved, and that you in effortless words want to make confident that there is not something you may do to regulate issues. clarify that typically, you in effortless words want a hug and a kiss to experience on the fringe of him, and to exhibit your love. Be prepared for an truly difficult time hun, that is gonna be difficult. it could be that he in simple terms copes with issues by technique of being distant, and also you are able to in simple terms ought to post with it for a at the same time as until eventually he feels waiting again.
2016-11-23 16:33:59 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you recall anything you might have said or did while on your weekend away together? That may be the underlying problem. Talk with your man, find out what the problems are and try to find a solution...wish you tons of luck!!!
2007-01-13 10:54:11 · answer #3 · answered by momofatsc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U just spent four days together right????? U have been together for yrs??? Maybe u spend to much time together maybe he needs a break. Not breakup or have a affair but just sometime to himself. Maybe u should suggest that to him show that u care and understand how he may be feeling.
2007-01-13 10:51:24 · answer #4 · answered by Vinny 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try to ask him why things just suddenly change,if the situation does not improve may be you should give him some time to come out and tell you what is going on.
he might be busy studying.
2007-01-13 10:56:47 · answer #5 · answered by bright 247 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him whats wrong with him. My x did this to me and then finished it, but it was a very lucky escape! :o)
2007-01-13 11:06:42 · answer #6 · answered by farleyjackmaster 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds a bit fishy to me.... keep your eyes wide open girl ! as he may be beating someone else's band!!
2007-01-13 10:48:54 · answer #7 · answered by luciloobomber2 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Asking him is the only way you will know for sure. Stress can kill many men's sex drive so it could be it.
2007-01-13 10:48:56 · answer #8 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
give hi a little bit massage....make him feel relaxed and then talk to him while you are still doing it..
this may help you...good luck
2007-01-13 11:53:56 · answer #9 · answered by hirvirs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be a combination of both, if he continues to completely ignore you, then thats really rude, kick him to the curb, but he could just be stressed like you said, give him a little time
2007-01-13 10:49:05 · answer #10 · answered by dramaqueen 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋