Singles & Dating - 12 January 2007

My ex boyfriend from 10 yrs ago moves into my neighborhood, 3 blocks away from me. We got together every so often, always awkward get togethers. Then one day we both profess our undying love for one another; apparently neither one of us has given up on the other. I basically break up with my boyfriend of 9 yrs (I was going to break up with him anyways) and run to ex boyfriend for comfort. We've been having "relations" for the past 3 weeks. But due to various circumstances (we're both single), it's difficult for us to be together. I've been pushing him away and pulling him in. Hot and Cold. He's been doing the same because we both know that it's difficult for us to be together or have a future. We can't be together, but we can't be without one another at the same time. Now he's slowly pulling away from me. He's a very closed off and cold person; I think I've hurt him b/c I keep pushing away. HELP!!!

2007-01-12 13:31:09 · 11 answers · asked by caroline 1

2007-01-12 13:31:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been told a few times, i don't think i believe this girl!

2007-01-12 13:30:57 · 17 answers · asked by kakk333 1

I used to talk to this guy and we stopped talking due to our different views on relationships, meaning we still are really good friends today! But there is just one problem. All his old flames or females dont like me just cuz we used to talk and cuz he was feelin me more than them. I take is as a compliment but this s*** is really gettin on my nerves. I have already confronted my friend about it but it wont end. Females constantly call me, send me messages and all that good stuff about him, just because of the type of friendship or relationship that we have now. I know they are haters but somethings got to give or Im gone end up hurting one of these B****es! What do I do?

2007-01-12 13:29:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

hes hot, he was great in the beginning of this relationship. but when i rushed into things, everything changed. i felt used and emotionally abused. on new years day he broke up with me after we did it for the last time. i feel hurt because i gave up my innocence to him. the day he broke up with me, he told me he had been talking to another girl and he thinks he's inlove with her. and that he couldnt see himself being with me in the future. it really hurt. this situation may sound cliche but its a serious matter i dont know what i can do. ive tried keeping myself busy its just i cant stop thinking about the things we've been through these past 5 months. i'll always look at my cellphone thinking he'd call me...i mean he doesnt even want to be friends. you know how hard it is to accept. to think that hes doing some other girl....omg help. should i put a fake ultrasound under his doorstep or something?!!!!!! am i going insane or is this just simply a phase im going through.

2007-01-12 13:27:59 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

some men i know lie to women about how big there are down stairs and always boost about what they have when its so small and they feel stupid when the women clown them

2007-01-12 13:27:08 · 8 answers · asked by SHARIKA F 2

My friends say that it's not worth all the time and work, but yet they love being in a relationship. It seems that when people are with someone it's the greatest thing for them, but if you're single they will say that you're the lucky one. But when it comes down to it they would not give up their partners for the single life. So why do couples say that we're lucky cause we're single but still stay in a relationship? Are relationships that great?

Thanx!

2007-01-12 13:24:47 · 8 answers · asked by S B 2

What makes a guy think a girl likes him? Like what signs does he think that she might show him?

2007-01-12 13:23:51 · 11 answers · asked by I <3 Leone 2

Though lightly and very slowly lets go off, does it mean she wants to flirt or is just teasing you ? Or is just playing mind games ? Thanks. I am married. But new to U.S.

2007-01-12 13:23:47 · 10 answers · asked by rifle1111 2

2007-01-12 13:23:46 · 4 answers · asked by Dan 1

I need to know if hes cheating on me. This is the story.....He leaves every single day and leaves me home by myself. His ex lives in the same town he goes to and he says hes going to see his friends or he has to meet up with his dad. Yes he calls me from time to time but everytime i call he never answers. He always tells me that his phone never rang or he was busy or he had his stereo on in his car too loud. I really dont believe that because any other time he answers. Also, hes always irratated with me lately except for a few days here and there. Dont get me wrong he always says i love you on the phone and he says it first but its just that he always has a reason to leave and an excuse as to why i cant come with and when i ask him why he says its because i have an attitude and he doesnt want me around but the thing is i can say baby can you come home early tonight and he says i have an attitude......what do you think? any mature and reasonable input would be helpful. Thankyou

2007-01-12 13:23:01 · 4 answers · asked by ♥♫§weetTart§amantha♫♥ 5

2007-01-12 13:22:28 · 5 answers · asked by edel 1

2007-01-12 13:22:20 · 5 answers · asked by james w 3

okay; well. im a really pretty type of girl. many guys like me- im a freshman. im popular at school. but suddenly i dont feel fit in with the other girls anymore because i have become TOOOO quiet for the past 3-5 months just randomly. now not many people talk to me.

i became really shy now and wierd because when someone is talking, i would join their convo but i can't keep it going and all eyes are on me when im finished with a sentence. then im left with nothing to say. its embarassing. or when im around the guy i like, we can only say 3 sentences to each other and its over. i cant say anymore cuz i suck at being socialable.

when i talk to someone i just met or dont know alot about. what conversation should i start with? like i need to know specifically how to say it because i dont want to out of the ble ask" do you like football?" and i know the guy does like futbol. i just dont know how to talk without making it sound random. help?

2007-01-12 13:19:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

and got kinda famous do u think i could go out with jojo?

2007-01-12 13:19:34 · 7 answers · asked by Josh 3

all i said was that she was a fatass, has disgusting teeth and needs a job....

2007-01-12 13:19:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am in 7th grade he is in 8th! I have Liked him 4 2 years!! he lives in my neighorhood! He is always staring at me! I have a dance in 2 weeks and I want to tell him but I dont want to be the idiot who got rejected! I need some help fast

2007-01-12 13:19:11 · 7 answers · asked by SydneyB 2

she's giving me signs like she gets jelous when I talk to other girls even though we are just friends

2007-01-12 13:18:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girl and I had plans for the past week to have a very romantic and nice evening tonight. Last night i found out that my brother who is only here for about 2 more days is having a big poker game. I asked my girlfriend if we could postpone our "date" to tomorrow or Sunday and she said no because she had work both days. I told her i really wanted to play poker and she could watch. She yelled at me telling me she wanted to dump me and that this wasn't right. THIS ISN'T THE FIRST TIME I'VE DONE THIS TO HER...i realize that it's just i REALLY wanted to play poker tonight. Any who, she has been under A LOT of stress and i decided to take her out tonight. I kind-of acted like a jerk...and started to complain in the car. She flipped out and told me to turn the car around drop her off home and she'd stop by later well...we ended up in a HUGE HUGE argument over the phone....and I told her i didn't really want to see her tonight. IS WHAT I'M DOING WRONG? I'm trying to prevent further arguments!

2007-01-12 13:18:00 · 35 answers · asked by Mike T 2

2007-01-12 13:17:49 · 11 answers · asked by starscamefallingdown 1

I'm a white male and this may not be my place to comment but I want to know what people think.

Generally speaking do you think Hispanic women pull off the curvy/voluptuous figure better then other women? I'm not sure about Asian women because they are usually thin, and white women can pull it off too sometimes, but I noticed Hispanic women tend to pull it off better then everyone usually. It just seems when Hispanic women have extra weight it usually goes to all the right places, you can see it in Hispanic celebrities like Salma Hayek, J-Lo, America Ferrera, ect. I think Hispanic women have really popularized that figure in the last couple of years and made big butts, thighs, and breasts mainstream when in the past it was looked down upon.

BTW, this doesn't mean I think Hispanic women are better then white or Asian women. I think Hispanic, Asian, and White women are equally beautiful. While I think Hispanic women tend to carry extra weight better, I also think white women are amazingly cute, sweet, and sexy. And Asian women are usually exotic, mysterious, and have great personalities also.

Please nobody get offended these are generalization but I was wondering if you think there is any truth to them?

2007-01-12 13:15:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

ive met a wonderful fellar on the net , whom lives in england, and we know that we are attracted to one another, but how do you take it to the next level of telling them that you think you are madly in love with them, without ruining the friendship that is progressing
this question is for my friend whom is too embarrassed to speak up

2007-01-12 13:15:15 · 10 answers · asked by scarlettstar 2

im really shy. i have some classes with him and see him watching me out of the corner of his eye a lot.

2007-01-12 13:15:14 · 3 answers · asked by Fire Dance 2

2007-01-12 13:14:29 · 21 answers · asked by chassidy h 1

My Boyfriend and I can only see each other very limitedly per week and every time i talk to him he is about to go play and I dont know if i should be as mad as I am I just feel that If i get a chance to see you you shouldnt say oh I would but i gotta go play this and this happens all the time, or we're together for once and he says I gotta go to play and im left bored by myself and it seems like its sports over me....I understand him playing EVERY SINGLE DAY becuase hes trying to get on a team, just dont see how he can let that get in the way of him seeing me.... AM I OVER REACTING or is my being mad justified???

2007-01-12 13:14:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Micheal is a sweet, caring, and good natured boy. But I just don't understand how could he forget things that are related to me? when I say I would call him, I will look forward to that time and check my emails to see if he sent me any emails. But he would forget that I would call him today. He forget to check his emails, he forget everything he's suppose to remember! He would play his video games, do his homeworks, go to karate, but not remembering that his girlfriend told him that she would call him today? It's not like I call him everyday either. I only call him once a week, and how come I always worry about him missing me and he ironically forgot about such thing? I don't know what do judge. does he love me? or does he just think he loves me? Everytime I get mad at him for forgetting these things he would make me feel like I'm overreacting it. But they're not just these little things. It means a lot! Can anyone tell me what do you think of him? I don't want to waste my time on him.

2007-01-12 13:13:29 · 5 answers · asked by love2you 2

ok so i have been with my boyfriend for 3yrs and so now he is moving away and 2 a new school soon. Last night we talked on the phone and talk about it,and he said that he loves me and isn't studdin those girls at the new school he about to go to. also that he isn't gonna let 3yrs go to waste just because he is moving. my problem is that i dnt really believe him when he said he wouldn't be studdin those girls at his new school and stuff! im worried that he will and i believe he will... i feel bad that i feel that way though. what do u think i should do? would u just break up or would u try to work things out or do u think we can work things out! also if u believe that it can't be worked out how do i get ova him and move on? thanks for the advice!

2007-01-12 13:13:08 · 30 answers · asked by ♥Classii1♥ 1

long story short since the end of Oct. my gf of almost 6 years has been telling me she doesn't feel the same way anymore and that she wants to break up. She will then change her mind and talk about marriage. She usually does this when i annoy her or do something wrong.

As of now we are together but I'm pretty sure she still "thinks" she wants to break up. She is feeling tough because i messed up in sept. and she threatened to break up. For the first time i begged her to stay. Ever since then she pulls this stunt. She did it another 4 times since then and each time instead of leaving i begged her. Now im in such a hole i have no power in the relationship.

My question is should i meet another girl then break up with her or should i break up with her first. I still love her but i can't handle losing her and being alone.

I am much better looking then her and i attract many girls. People always say to her how did you get him. I never rubbed it in her face. Now she takes me for granted

2007-01-12 13:12:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, so I like this guy and I know there is no sure way of making a guy like someone but maybe some hints/tips would help. I flirt and tease him a lot and he teases me back, but I would love to go out with him.

2007-01-12 13:11:35 · 10 answers · asked by Jazz 2

Since I am a vegetarian, I don't eat meat, fish, seafood, or gelatin products. The guy I like isn't vegetarian, though. Does this mean if I ever wanted to kiss him that I would sort of get meat in my mouth, cause if he ate it....? And should I try to convince him to be a vegetarian too?

2007-01-12 13:11:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous